Am I the only one?

Just not into doing the "deed"?
Seriously...its come down to being non exisitent and I feel so bad for DH. He is actually dealing with it.
Now prior to the pregnancy, I wasnt like that.

For me, I think its the whole insecurty thing, self conscious of everything...my body, down there and well, you know ladies

My belly isnt even that big to get in the way of things.

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I hear ya !! I am really not into it, but I am doing it anyway, I mean after we start then it is fine but the though of it, makes me feel like blah, my body is not what it used to be, and I told DH that but it helps when he says it is ok and he likes it no matter what......... but of course he will say that he is a man!!

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My DH says he feels "wierd" doing it....so I have the opposite problem.....We do it but not as often as I would like

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OMG I feel awful but I just CANNOT find the energy or want. I wasnt liek this before.

Its been a LONG LONG time and I feel so bad for DH

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I feel so bad for DH because I am just not feeling it right now...I am so tired and feel bad....and then of course I have to use the time to go on the internet and look up baby stuff

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I hear ya i don't feel like doing it at all either. I feel bad for Dh.
He wants to do it but i just don't want to.

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Man, I wish

We are forbidden from having sex. Know what makes you want to have sex more? Being told by like 40 people in L&D that you CAN'T!

One of my horndog friends told me to get a second opinion

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Posted by Smileyd17

Just not into doing the "deed"?
Seriously...its come down to being non exisitent and I feel so bad for DH. He is actually dealing with it.
Now prior to the pregnancy, I wasnt like that.

For me, I think its the whole insecurty thing, self conscious of everything...my body, down there and well, you know ladies

My belly isnt even that big to get in the way of things.

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Nope. I have my moments when I am into it and other times when I want nothing to do with it.

But ever since last weeks "incident" DH has cut me off! So even if I wanted to, we won't...not til after the baby comes...YEAH RIGHT!

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We have done it less often than before being PG, but mostly because I was sick in the beginning (AND we were on our honeymoon!!!) and now I have been so tired, but when the mood strikes, we are definitely doing the deed!

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i am here with ya ladies...

i have no energy or desire.. plus i can't comprehend doing it when she is kicking me like crazy... just a little too wierd for me...

dh is not happy but understanding