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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

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Bridex100
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

DH can technically take off as much as he wants but he is planning on 4 work days. He originally said 2 days.

I will have my mom and then MIL helping me out with the baby and older kids.

Posted 11/22/16 2:28 PM
 
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Momma2015
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

One day aside from the day I delivered. Chat Icon I was pisssssssssssed, especially since he works for family.

Posted 11/22/16 2:30 PM
 

MamaBear2
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

With my first he took off one work week. DD was born on a Monday that was a holiday, so technically he only took off 4 work days.

For #2, he found out he was eligible to take more time, so I think he took 2 weeks.

Posted 11/22/16 2:32 PM
 

MrsG823
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

None. He actually went to work the night dd was born. She was born at 10:30 am and DH went to work around 7 pm.

Posted 11/22/16 2:35 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

He had a week's vacation planned around my due date (he had to pick his vacation weeks in December for the whole year)
I gave birth a day before my due date so he just had to take a day or 2 off before his week's vacation kicked in.
However a week's vacation for him is actually 10 days (regular days off plus the week off)

So he was probably home close to 2 weeks before he had to go back


Posted 11/22/16 2:37 PM
 

MyBabyG
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

I believe it was 2 days.

Posted 11/22/16 2:48 PM
 

EandF
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

For our first, one week.
For our second, two weeks. Probably the same for #3.

Some of my male coworkers have taken off a month+, but I know that's definitely not the norm.

Posted 11/22/16 3:23 PM
 

gina409
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

He used 2 weeks vacation (I was in the hospital for 5 of Those days)

Posted 11/22/16 3:43 PM
 

evrythng4areason
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

He's worked for different companies for both dc, and both offered 2 full weeks paid paternity. With this one he did go back a day early, bc the day he should have gone back was the start of a 3 day weekend, and he didn't want to take advantage

Posted 11/22/16 4:01 PM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

Dd#1 - a week
This one not sure. Asked him for a week but have to see what his company will approve b

Posted 11/22/16 4:03 PM
 

wingsofsong
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

My husband took off for a week with all 3 of our babies.

Posted 11/22/16 4:08 PM
 

MrsT809
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

My first I think a week.

With our second she was in nicu for just over a week and he was running to work at 6am almost every morning to get things in order even though he technically took off. I think he took maybe 8 days and then it was thanksgiving so he was off the rest of that second week.

Posted 11/22/16 4:09 PM
 

bunnyluck
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

A week

Posted 11/22/16 4:14 PM
 

pumpkinmom
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

DH is taking 2 weeks.

Posted 11/22/16 4:20 PM
 

ElizaRags35
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

DH was planning on taking a week for both but bc I had 2 very long inductions, they cut into the time he was planning to take.

Posted 11/22/16 4:39 PM
 

Chai77
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

With our newest baby, I was hospitalized for over a week in preterm labor and then with the birth. He needed to take care of our older kids so he took off a total of two weeks I think. With our second, he just started his current job and only took off one day. It was awful.

As an aside, I wish this country would start giving paid paternity and maternity leave. Just a few days off for a new baby is just not enough. And if you don't have vacation time, forget it.

Posted 11/22/16 4:41 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

For my first, DH had to go to work the day after the baby was born, but I was still in the hospital. I think he took off 2 or 3 days.

With my second, he was in the middle of changing jobs so he was home for 2 weeks.

Posted 11/22/16 4:44 PM
 

pnbplus1
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

With DS1 he took off 3 weeks and DS2, 2 weeks.

Posted 11/22/16 4:46 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

Posted by Chai77

With our newest baby, I was hospitalized for over a week in preterm labor and then with the birth. He needed to take care of our older kids so he took off a total of two weeks I think. With our second, he just started his current job and only took off one day. It was awful.

As an aside, I wish this country would start giving paid paternity and maternity leave. Just a few days off for a new baby is just not enough. And if you don't have vacation time, forget it.



Yep we are SO ass backward when it comes to that compared to Europe and South America.
We are actually the worst, right up there with 3rd world countries.

I had just started a new job so I had no vacation or personal time. I had to go unpaid and come back in 6 weeks because I couldn't afford to be unpaid for any longer.

Disgraceful

Posted 11/22/16 4:54 PM
 

LSP2005
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

He took off one week while I was in the hospital and then a few weeks later he took off another week.

Posted 11/22/16 5:10 PM
 

VickiC
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

One week for our DS and he was able to take 1 week and a couple of days for our DD.

Posted 11/22/16 5:34 PM
 

FirstMate
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

2 weeks for all 3 births

Posted 11/22/16 6:00 PM
 

Sparrow
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How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

DH took 4 work days with our third. The first two were about the same. He claimed he would take more but he took under a week each time.

Posted 11/22/16 6:15 PM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

A week both times.

Posted 11/22/16 6:18 PM
 

phoenix913
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Re: How much time off did DH take when baby was born?

DS 1 and 2- he took off 2 weeks.

DS3- he worked somewhere different and they give 6 weeks paid paternity and maternity. He ended up taking about 7 weeks off because he added some vacation days. It was the best thing ever because I had a difficult c-section recovery and it was over the summer so he was able to take the big kids to the beach etc while I rested.

Posted 11/22/16 6:46 PM
 
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