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GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06 26792 total posts
Name: Shawn
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What personality trait do you wish you had?
What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was more outgoing. I'm definitely improving, and putting myself into volunteer positions of leadership where I have to be more outgoing, but it's an effort. I'm hoping it comes more natural over the years.
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Posted 5/18/16 9:13 AM |
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
Name: ..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I had more of a laid back attitude. I tend to stress and overthink and obsess about EVERYTHING
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Posted 5/18/16 9:17 AM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was able to be a better public speaker. I totally choke in front of groups of my peers, even when I am confident in the knowledge I have to share. I just hate being the center of attention so public speaking is the pits.
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Posted 5/18/16 9:44 AM |
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
Name: ..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by Hofstra26
I wish I was able to be a better public speaker. I totally choke in front of groups of my peers, even when I am confident in the knowledge I have to share. I just hate being the center of attention so public speaking is the pits.
OMG yes this too. It's like I clam up and forget everything and can't form a coherent sentence.
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Posted 5/18/16 9:49 AM |
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blu6385
Member since 5/08 8351 total posts
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by NervousNell
I wish I had more of a laid back attitude. I tend to stress and overthink and obsess about EVERYTHING
this is me also. i worry and stress for other people too.
i also don't like public speaking/group speaking at all and wish/need to get over it.
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Posted 5/18/16 9:49 AM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
Name: Stacey
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What personality trait do you wish you had?
Wish I was more of a free spirit.
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Posted 5/18/16 9:53 AM |
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Eunyboo
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Member since 7/12 4376 total posts
Name: E
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by NervousNell
I wish I had more of a laid back attitude. I tend to stress and overthink and obsess about EVERYTHING
THIS!
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Posted 5/18/16 9:56 AM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by NervousNell
Posted by Hofstra26
I wish I was able to be a better public speaker. I totally choke in front of groups of my peers, even when I am confident in the knowledge I have to share. I just hate being the center of attention so public speaking is the pits.
OMG yes this too. It's like I clam up and forget everything and can't form a coherent sentence.
Me too!!! And than when I do speak, I talk SO fast that you can maybe catch every 8th word!!
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Posted 5/18/16 9:57 AM |
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Rosie0613
LIF Adolescent

Member since 8/10 875 total posts
Name: Rosie
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I also wish I was more outgoing
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Posted 5/18/16 10:00 AM |
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2BadSoSad
LIF Adult
Member since 8/12 6791 total posts
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Also outgoing, Im a massive introvert.
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Posted 5/18/16 10:05 AM |
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Mags1227
Just a mommy ...
Member since 10/10 2665 total posts
Name: M
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
i wish i stood up for myself more. i feel like in every aspect of my life (family, friends, work) i let people walk all over me and always put them first.
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Posted 5/18/16 10:06 AM |
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SusiBee
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Member since 3/09 8268 total posts
Name: S
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
To be less introverted. Been shy and quiet all my life, it's my safe zone.
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Posted 5/18/16 10:48 AM |
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alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!

Member since 5/09 18388 total posts
Name: Allison
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by Hofstra26
I wish I was able to be a better public speaker. I totally choke in front of groups of my peers, even when I am confident in the knowledge I have to share. I just hate being the center of attention so public speaking is the pits.
This but I am getting better. I was just put through a management program at work and part of it was a public speaking session and it really worked wonders. I think part of it is just doing it more.
The trait is that I just don't give a f most of the time. I think that might be a bit too much of the time though!
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Posted 5/18/16 11:10 AM |
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2BadSoSad
LIF Adult
Member since 8/12 6791 total posts
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I also wish I was braver - braver to pick up and move bc I hate it hear, brave enough to make a career change or go back to school.
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Posted 5/18/16 1:15 PM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Member since 5/05 10312 total posts
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was assertive...maybe even aggressive. Basically, I wish I wasn't afraid of people. (My social anxiety is getting worse with my old age. )
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Posted 5/18/16 1:26 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

Member since 3/07 13921 total posts
Name: ETC I LOVE YOU
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by Chatham-Chick
I wish I was assertive...maybe even aggressive. Basically, I wish I wasn't afraid of people. (My social anxiety is getting worse with my old age. )
Totally this!!
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Posted 5/18/16 1:37 PM |
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Laura1976

Member since 5/05 5754 total posts
Name: Laura
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I had been more outgoing when I was younger. I really didn't come out of my shell until after college and I wish that had been different. I see my 9 year old and she is exactly like I was and it kills me to see how quiet and shy she can be.
Now I wish I was more of a go getter, a make it happen type of person.
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Posted 5/18/16 1:38 PM |
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by GoldenRod
What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was more outgoing. I'm definitely improving, and putting myself into volunteer positions of leadership where I have to be more outgoing, but it's an effort. I'm hoping it comes more natural over the years.
It's funny - I kind of wish I could be more introverted and laid back. i feel so many people are overwhelmed or intimidated by my exuberant, loud personality.
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Posted 5/18/16 2:15 PM |
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by NervousNell
I wish I had more of a laid back attitude. I tend to stress and overthink and obsess about EVERYTHING
This is me.
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Posted 5/18/16 2:15 PM |
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Pumpkin1
LIF Adult
Member since 12/05 3715 total posts
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What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was more forgiving.
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Posted 5/18/16 2:15 PM |
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
Name: ..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Posted by Chatham-Chick
I wish I was assertive...maybe even aggressive. Basically, I wish I wasn't afraid of people. (My social anxiety is getting worse with my old age. )
God, me too. It's gotten worse lately. It's bad
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Posted 5/18/16 2:15 PM |
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KarenK122
The Journey is the Destination

Member since 5/05 4431 total posts
Name: Karen
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What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was a better public speaker with a much better vocabulary than I currently have. I also wish did not procrastinate so much.
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Posted 5/18/16 2:21 PM |
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I was a bit more spur-of-the-moment.
I always like everything to be planned.
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Posted 5/18/16 2:32 PM |
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
Name: ..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: What personality trait do you wish you had?
Oh thought of another one-
I wish to GOD i was more organized
And I wish I was less lazy.
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Posted 5/18/16 2:33 PM |
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luvmykids8
LIF Adult
Member since 9/15 2050 total posts
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What personality trait do you wish you had?
I wish I could be more patient.
My kids sucked all my patience!
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Posted 5/18/16 2:33 PM |
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