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DaniJude
You're My Home <3
Member since 11/06 14815 total posts
Name: Danielle
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by WhatNow
Posted by JennP
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by afternoondelight828
Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower
That's actually sweet.
It wouldn't work for me, personally.
But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww
Can I ask why?
You didn't quote me but I wanted to say that if your (general your) first lay was both good in the sack AND the love of your life then, well, you're a lucky woman.
Because sometimes the first few desserts you try at the party are dry, stale, too soft, too hard, not big enough, too big, not sweet enough, etc....
Let me tell you something: the first cupcake I ever tried... I thought it was the best cupcake ever. Then, a few years later, when I had my second cupcake I realized how pathetic the first cupcake really was. I mean, that first cupcake was so bad, it shouldn't have been even calling itself a pastry... but I had no idea, because at that point in my life I had never had a cupcake before so I didn't really know what a good cupcake should feel, I mean, taste like!
P.S. This is not directed at anyone! Just a something JennP's comment made me think of!
Ohhhhh honey I've been there!!!
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Posted 10/26/15 10:03 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
I'm in the 2-5 category and I can honestly say I wish my number was higher. I wish I had more variety before settling down and only having one cupcake for the rest of my life.
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Posted 10/27/15 8:46 AM |
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ineedababynow
LIF Infant
Member since 9/15 328 total posts
Name: ap
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Variety is the spice of life girls.. come on!
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Posted 10/27/15 9:01 AM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
Member since 7/08 3324 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by WhatNow
Posted by JennP
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by afternoondelight828
Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower
That's actually sweet.
It wouldn't work for me, personally.
But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww
Can I ask why?
You didn't quote me but I wanted to say that if your (general your) first lay was both good in the sack AND the love of your life then, well, you're a lucky woman.
Because sometimes the first few desserts you try at the party are dry, stale, too soft, too hard, not big enough, too big, not sweet enough, etc....
Let me tell you something: the first cupcake I ever tried... I thought it was the best cupcake ever. Then, a few years later, when I had my second cupcake I realized how pathetic the first cupcake really was. I mean, that first cupcake was so bad, it shouldn't have been even calling itself a pastry... but I had no idea, because at that point in my life I had never had a cupcake before so I didn't really know what a good cupcake should feel, I mean, taste like!
P.S. This is not directed at anyone! Just a something JennP's comment made me think of!
this is exactly what happened to me! Looking back I can't believe I thought the first guy was good, but I was naive at the time. Im now in the 2-5 range, and I joke with DH it's one of the main reasons I married him
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Posted 10/27/15 9:01 AM |
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ineedababynow
LIF Infant
Member since 9/15 328 total posts
Name: ap
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by mommy2B3
Posted by WhatNow
Posted by JennP
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by afternoondelight828
Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower
That's actually sweet.
It wouldn't work for me, personally.
But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww
Can I ask why?
You didn't quote me but I wanted to say that if your (general your) first lay was both good in the sack AND the love of your life then, well, you're a lucky woman.
Because sometimes the first few desserts you try at the party are dry, stale, too soft, too hard, not big enough, too big, not sweet enough, etc....
Let me tell you something: the first cupcake I ever tried... I thought it was the best cupcake ever. Then, a few years later, when I had my second cupcake I realized how pathetic the first cupcake really was. I mean, that first cupcake was so bad, it shouldn't have been even calling itself a pastry... but I had no idea, because at that point in my life I had never had a cupcake before so I didn't really know what a good cupcake should feel, I mean, taste like!
P.S. This is not directed at anyone! Just a something JennP's comment made me think of!
this is exactly what happened to me! Looking back I can't believe I thought the first guy was good, but I was naive at the time. Im now in the 2-5 range, and I joke with DH it's one of the main reasons I married him
I don't remember what my first cupcake tasted like. Must have been good if we were together for so long lol
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Posted 10/27/15 9:18 AM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
I've been with DH since 11th grade, we've always had great sex and it's only gotten better as the years have gone on so I have ZERO complaints in the department. I honestly have never felt like I missed out or needed more partners, I feel like DH and I have always clicked perfectly and I've never desired to be with anyone else. I guess it just depends on the person but I've always felt content to be with just him my whole life. I really have no regrets that I didn't have more "cupcakes"..............I enjoy the one I have!!
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Posted 10/27/15 9:30 AM |
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DaniJude
You're My Home <3
Member since 11/06 14815 total posts
Name: Danielle
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by ineedababynow
Variety is the spice of life girls.. come on!
If you have something to say to me, say it.
Don't mock and quote something I have said previously... Oh and now deny you are doing that bc you have no balls.
You are a troll. I know EXACTLY who you are.
And A LOT of other girls on here know too. Everyone can see you're a troll. You target me, you did it on the other thread too. Then you pretend to post like normal for a while and then you come and target me again.
You seriously need counseling. For real.
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Posted 10/27/15 9:37 AM |
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h0peful2015
LIF Infant
Member since 8/15 265 total posts
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
i love how you're all referring to partners as cupcakes 
eta: thanks for the laugh this morning
Message edited 10/27/2015 9:50:46 AM.
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Posted 10/27/15 9:50 AM |
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

Member since 7/09 18802 total posts
Name: DiamondMama
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by ineedababynow
Variety is the spice of life girls.. come on!
If you have something to say to me, say it.
Don't mock and quote something I have said previously... Oh and now deny you are doing that bc you have no balls.
You are a troll. I know EXACTLY who you are.
And A LOT of other girls on here know too. Everyone can see you're a troll. You target me, you did it on the other thread too. Then you pretend to post like normal for a while and then you come and target me again.
You seriously need counseling. For real.
I have to ask if you know this person IRL? Are they related to your EX? they are INSANE IMO and need a life!
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Posted 10/27/15 11:32 AM |
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gina409
TWINS!

Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
Name: g
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
I'm in the 2-5 and just fine with that
For me it's not the number of people that gives you the variety
I've been with my dh a long time
Location location location lol
I have zero complaints and have multiple reasons to smile if you get my drift
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Posted 10/27/15 11:37 AM |
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DaniJude
You're My Home <3
Member since 11/06 14815 total posts
Name: Danielle
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by DiamondGirl
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by ineedababynow
Variety is the spice of life girls.. come on!
If you have something to say to me, say it.
Don't mock and quote something I have said previously... Oh and now deny you are doing that bc you have no balls.
You are a troll. I know EXACTLY who you are.
And A LOT of other girls on here know too. Everyone can see you're a troll. You target me, you did it on the other thread too. Then you pretend to post like normal for a while and then you come and target me again.
You seriously need counseling. For real.
I have to ask if you know this person IRL? Are they related to your EX? they are INSANE IMO and need a life!
I'll FM you in a little bit.
It's so pathetic!
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Posted 10/27/15 11:39 AM |
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klingklang77
kraftwerk!

Member since 7/06 11489 total posts
Name: Völlig losgelöst
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by DiamondGirl
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by ineedababynow
Variety is the spice of life girls.. come on!
If you have something to say to me, say it.
Don't mock and quote something I have said previously... Oh and now deny you are doing that bc you have no balls.
You are a troll. I know EXACTLY who you are.
And A LOT of other girls on here know too. Everyone can see you're a troll. You target me, you did it on the other thread too. Then you pretend to post like normal for a while and then you come and target me again.
You seriously need counseling. For real.
I have to ask if you know this person IRL? Are they related to your EX? they are INSANE IMO and need a life!
How the hell do people have time for this?
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Posted 10/27/15 1:26 PM |
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klingklang77
kraftwerk!

Member since 7/06 11489 total posts
Name: Völlig losgelöst
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
I'm happy with my number. I'm in the double digits, but under 20. I wouldn't change a thing. I haven't really had a really bad partner either. Some were better than others, but nothing horrible.
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Posted 10/27/15 1:28 PM |
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busymomonli
Resident Insomniac

Member since 4/13 2053 total posts
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Met my husband in high school and he's the only one. Married 20 years this year after dating for 7. No regrets at all.
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Posted 10/27/15 1:54 PM |
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by JennP
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by afternoondelight828
Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower
That's actually sweet.
It wouldn't work for me, personally.
But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww
Can I ask why?
You didn't quote me but I wanted to say that if your (general your) first lay was both good in the sack AND the love of your life then, well, you're a lucky woman.
Because sometimes the first few desserts you try at the party are dry, stale, too soft, too hard, not big enough, too big, not sweet enough, etc....
Well I am VERY happy and I guess I just got really lucky
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Posted 10/27/15 4:41 PM |
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by Hofstra26
I've been with DH since 11th grade, we've always had great sex and it's only gotten better as the years have gone on so I have ZERO complaints in the department. I honestly have never felt like I missed out or needed more partners, I feel like DH and I have always clicked perfectly and I've never desired to be with anyone else. I guess it just depends on the person but I've always felt content to be with just him my whole life. I really have no regrets that I didn't have more "cupcakes"..............I enjoy the one I have!!
Yep that is how I feel too AND just because it is the same person, it doesn't mean there is no variety. The longer you are with someone, the more you do with them and the more daring you are so you try many things. You also learn through the years what you like and don't like and I am glad I didn't have to go through a bunch of guys to just have sex when I was able to have sex and love.
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Posted 10/27/15 4:45 PM |
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ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls

Member since 2/09 20494 total posts
Name: Me
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by Hofstra26
I've been with DH since 11th grade, we've always had great sex and it's only gotten better as the years have gone on so I have ZERO complaints in the department. I honestly have never felt like I missed out or needed more partners, I feel like DH and I have always clicked perfectly and I've never desired to be with anyone else. I guess it just depends on the person but I've always felt content to be with just him my whole life. I really have no regrets that I didn't have more "cupcakes"..............I enjoy the one I have!!
Yep that is how I feel too AND just because it is the same person, it doesn't mean there is no variety. The longer you are with someone, the more you do with them and the more daring you are so you try many things. You also learn through the years what you like and don't like and I am glad I didn't have to go through a bunch of guys to just have sex when I was able to have sex and love.
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Posted 10/27/15 4:49 PM |
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KarenK122
The Journey is the Destination

Member since 5/05 4431 total posts
Name: Karen
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
I wish people didn't feel feel judged on how many partners they have had. Whether it's one or fifty, as long as you are happy with your decision it is wonderful.
I for one have had my bakery filled with many different flavors of cupcakes and I enjoyed every single one.
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Posted 10/27/15 6:41 PM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had
Posted by KarenK122
I wish people didn't feel feel judged on how many partners they have had. Whether it's one or fifty, as long as you are happy with your decision it is wonderful.
I for one have had my bakery filled with many different flavors of cupcakes and I enjoyed every single one.
I don't think anyone feels judged, at least I didn't. I think everyone is just sharing their experiences whether it be with one or a fifty cupcakes. lol Honestly, who cares what people think, if you're happy and content that's all that matters.
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Posted 10/27/15 7:00 PM |
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