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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

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Paramount
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

I am not embarrassed to say either. Its been so long so I don't remember exactly. less than 10 for me. I would say.....6-8.

I'm even counting the guy that was SOOOOOO small I literally didn't know if it was "in" or not.

Also the guy that was SOOOOOOO big I could not have sex with him. Yes. he was THAT big.

As Carrie said in SATC - "I'm Goldie Cocks"

Message edited 10/26/2015 11:22:05 AM.

Posted 10/26/15 11:20 AM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by Paramount

I'm even counting the guy that was SOOOOOO small I literally didn't know if it was "in" or not.

Also the guy that was SOOOOOOO big I could not have sex with him. Yes. he was THAT big.

As Carrie said in SATC - "I'm Goldie Cocks"



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I just spit my iced tea out!!!!

Seriously -- I have had the same -- so small I was like Chat Icon Chat Icon

Like, what do I do with this???

And so big that I just gasped LOL Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 12:43 PM
 

afternoondelight828
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 12:57 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 1:05 PM
 

MrsB12614
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

1- met my now husband in 9th grade dated through high school college and then got married! :) wouldn't have it any other way. In college my roommates would always say don't you want to know what it's like to be with someone else- and I would just honestly say no. Never felt I have missed out on anything and never had curiousity. DH feels the same. Just truly made for each other!

Posted 10/26/15 1:06 PM
 

ElizaRags35
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by MrsB12614

1- met my now husband in 9th grade dated through high school college and then got married! :) wouldn't have it any other way. In college my roommates would always say don't you want to know what it's like to be with someone else- and I would just honestly say no. Never felt I have missed out on anything and never had curiousity. DH feels the same. Just truly made for each other!



Same! Except we met right after I graduated high school. 14 years later, not a single regret.

Posted 10/26/15 1:18 PM
 

HomeIsWithU
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

2 - and I married them both.

I don't have any regrets, but I also don't judge anyone based on their number. Had I not met my first husband so young and dated him for so long, I likely would have had a higher number, and I don't see anything wrong with that at all.

Posted 10/26/15 1:42 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

My story is in my mind only DH counts so only one Chat Icon but in reality I answered the poll. Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 1:50 PM
 

Paramount
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by Paramount

I'm even counting the guy that was SOOOOOO small I literally didn't know if it was "in" or not.

Also the guy that was SOOOOOOO big I could not have sex with him. Yes. he was THAT big.

As Carrie said in SATC - "I'm Goldie Cocks"



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I just spit my iced tea out!!!!

Seriously -- I have had the same -- so small I was like Chat Icon Chat Icon

Like, what do I do with this???

And so big that I just gasped LOL Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Wait the first time we got "frisky" the beat came out.

I was like "Oh, wow". He said what? I said "um, wow, you are..well..large".

He said "yeah, I have been told..."

Posted 10/26/15 1:51 PM
 

Paramount
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by ElizaRags35

Posted by MrsB12614

1- met my now husband in 9th grade dated through high school college and then got married! :) wouldn't have it any other way. In college my roommates would always say don't you want to know what it's like to be with someone else- and I would just honestly say no. Never felt I have missed out on anything and never had curiousity. DH feels the same. Just truly made for each other!



Same! Except we met right after I graduated high school. 14 years later, not a single regret.



Lovely stories.

Posted 10/26/15 1:52 PM
 

Paramount
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by Paramount

I'm even counting the guy that was SOOOOOO small I literally didn't know if it was "in" or not.

Also the guy that was SOOOOOOO big I could not have sex with him. Yes. he was THAT big.

As Carrie said in SATC - "I'm Goldie Cocks"



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I just spit my iced tea out!!!!

Seriously -- I have had the same -- so small I was like Chat Icon Chat Icon

Like, what do I do with this???

And so big that I just gasped LOL Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



You are welcome.

Posted 10/26/15 1:53 PM
 

afternoondelight828
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon




Can I ask why?

Posted 10/26/15 2:57 PM
 

Kitten1929
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by afternoondelight828

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon




Can I ask why?



Because some people want to try more than one cupcake at the party!

Nothing wrong if you want 1 or 10 - some people just want more than one!

Message edited 10/26/2015 3:30:13 PM.

Posted 10/26/15 3:26 PM
 

racheK
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

I met my 1st husband at age 27, I was divorced at 30 and then met my now DH at 32. I dated a lot of guys when I wasn't with the ex or current DH so my number is definitely the higher side--I won't admit what it is because I just think it sounds bad. I don't regret any of it though! It was lots of fun being young and single but glad my number is not going up anymore Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 4:50 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by Kitten1929

Posted by afternoondelight828

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon




Can I ask why?



Because some people want to try more than one cupcake at the party!

Nothing wrong if you want 1 or 10 - some people just want more than one!



Pretty much. And I love cupcakes, regular cake, cookies, chocolate, alllllll the dessert on the table Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 5:00 PM
 

bunnyluck
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

My number should move me to the next box but I got denied twice! Hahaha! I still wonder about that ten years later...The weird thing is they both had no problem going down on me (after the sex denial).

Posted 10/26/15 5:30 PM
 

BunnyWife
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

7 and I didn't marry all of themChat Icon

ETA: In retrospect, I wish i had slept with more peopleChat Icon

Message edited 10/26/2015 6:16:35 PM.

Posted 10/26/15 6:15 PM
 

sometimesmommy
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

I will just LOL and grin. I was surrounded by men in uniform and thats about all I'll say about that :)

Posted 10/26/15 6:21 PM
 

afternoondelight828
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Afternoon

Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by Kitten1929

Posted by afternoondelight828

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon




Can I ask why?



Because some people want to try more than one cupcake at the party!

Nothing wrong if you want 1 or 10 - some people just want more than one!



Pretty much. And I love cupcakes, regular cake, cookies, chocolate, alllllll the dessert on the table Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 7:29 PM
 

JennP
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by afternoondelight828

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon




Can I ask why?



You didn't quote me but I wanted to say that if your (general your) first lay was both good in the sack AND the love of your life then, well, you're a lucky woman.

Because sometimes the first few desserts you try at the party are dry, stale, too soft, too hard, not big enough, too big, not sweet enough, etc....

Posted 10/26/15 8:15 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

This whole thread is starting to remind me of this classic clip from The Golden Girls. Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/15 9:24 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

double post

Message edited 10/26/2015 9:29:48 PM.

Posted 10/26/15 9:25 PM
 

WhatNow
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by JennP

Posted by afternoondelight828

Posted by DaniJude

Posted by afternoondelight828

Wow there are 12 of us. Thought the number would be lower Chat Icon



That's actually sweet.

It wouldn't work for me, personally.

But the hopeless romantic somewhere inside me goes awww Chat Icon




Can I ask why?



You didn't quote me but I wanted to say that if your (general your) first lay was both good in the sack AND the love of your life then, well, you're a lucky woman.

Because sometimes the first few desserts you try at the party are dry, stale, too soft, too hard, not big enough, too big, not sweet enough, etc....



Let me tell you something: the first cupcake I ever tried... I thought it was the best cupcake ever. Then, a few years later, when I had my second cupcake I realized how pathetic the first cupcake really was. I mean, that first cupcake was so bad, it shouldn't have been even calling itself a pastry... but I had no idea, because at that point in my life I had never had a cupcake before so I didn't really know what a good cupcake should feel, I mean, taste like!Chat Icon

P.S. This is not directed at anyone! Just a something JennP's comment made me think of!

Message edited 10/26/2015 9:54:01 PM.

Posted 10/26/15 9:36 PM
 

MC09
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Re: Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

Posted by NervousNell

This whole thread is starting to remind me of this classic clip from The Golden Girls. Chat Icon




Great find! I love this clip LOL and yes, it ties in perfectly with this thread!

"My cupcakes are moist and delicious"... "Get a clue Dorothy men would rather pay for cupcakes"... "You Swedish meatball" ...

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Posted 10/26/15 9:39 PM
 

RainyDay
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Ok. S/O Poll. How many Partners have you had

DH and I both had 8 partners each including each other.

Posted 10/26/15 9:57 PM
 
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