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Blubtrflygrl
LIF Adolescent
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allison
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Would you go?
Planning to leave for Disney in a few weeks. Because of the nature of DH business, we rarely take a real vacation.
SIL bachelorette planned in the city for night before. Wasn't really confirmed before we booked. Dinner not until 8 or 9 pm. (Which is main thing I would stay for) I am also working that day. We want to leave 5 am sharp next day.
Not super close with her and MIL said no big deal...people will understand. DH missing Bachelor party because we will be away.
I still feel guilty though and know will have a ton of things to do night before.
I think I just need to be told I'm crazy for feeling guilty.
Message edited 7/27/2015 6:05:10 AM.
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ladybug8
LIF Adult
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Re: Would you go?
How close is the restaurant to your house?
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| Posted 7/27/15 6:55 AM |
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MsSissy
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Re: Would you go?
You're crazy for feeling guilty.
Take her out to dinner when you get back if you feel you need to do something with her.
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| Posted 7/27/15 7:03 AM |
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LiveItUp
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Would you go?
I wouldn't go, you don't want to be exhausted and stressed for the first day of your trip.
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| Posted 7/27/15 7:30 AM |
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Mom0710
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by MsSissy
You're crazy for feeling guilty.
Take her out to dinner when you get back if you feel you need to do something with her.
Agreed. Unless you can meet her for a pre dinner drink but if your in river head and the place is in the city, mistake her out when you get back
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| Posted 7/27/15 7:32 AM |
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StaceyWill
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Re: Would you go?
No effing way would I go. She'll understand.
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| Posted 7/27/15 7:45 AM |
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NervousNell
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Re: Would you go?
No effing way. The night before a trip I am running around like a crazy lady, packing stuff, getting the house in order, shaving my legs, , showering, last minute everything.
No way would I be going out to dinner at 8-9 pm in the city.
No way.
ESPECIALLY in the city- not sure where you live but that's almost an hour and a half train ride for me
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| Posted 7/27/15 8:52 AM |
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gina409
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Re: Would you go?
I would go to dinner if you are close
But if you don't go I wouldn't feel guilty
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| Posted 7/27/15 9:11 AM |
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chilltocam
LIF Adult
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Would you go?
I understand feeling guilty and I would feel the same way, but not guilty enough to actually go to the dinner. The night before vacation is crazy time for me - way too much to do. Definitely wouldn't go.
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| Posted 7/27/15 9:11 AM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: Would you go?
I wouldn't go.
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| Posted 7/27/15 9:12 AM |
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MrsB12614
LIF Adult
Member since 4/14 1986 total posts
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Would you go?
It depends how close the restaurant is to your house. If it's not far I would just go to dinner but that's me- i am a people pleaser and try to attend everything when I really should say no. But if you can't make it don't at all feel guilty!
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| Posted 7/27/15 9:35 AM |
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Re: Would you go?
I would not go.
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| Posted 7/27/15 9:53 AM |
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WannaBeAMom11
LIF Adult
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Would you go?
Nope. I am a basket case the night before a trip so I couldn't go and enjoy myself plus Dh would be like are you crazy.
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| Posted 7/27/15 10:39 AM |
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ElizaRags35
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Would you go?
If you feel bad not going, send like $50 to put towards her dinner/drinks.
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| Posted 7/27/15 10:45 AM |
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BabyBMakes3
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Would you go?
I would NOT go. And you shouldn't feel guilty for not going either. It's bad enough you have to work that day...do yourself a favor and skip this one! Enjoy your trip!!
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| Posted 7/27/15 11:16 AM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: Would you go?
Nope
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| Posted 7/27/15 11:19 AM |
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jellybean78
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Would you go?
I wouldn't go
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| Posted 7/27/15 11:31 AM |
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2BadSoSad
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Re: Would you go?
No way. There is no way Id go if I were leaving for Disney the next morning at 5am. The last minute prep and getting up before the sun, nope. Im sure shed understand.
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| Posted 7/27/15 11:32 AM |
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Poppyseed79
LIF Adult
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by BabyBMakes3
I would NOT go. And you shouldn't feel guilty for not going either. It's bad enough you have to work that day...do yourself a favor and skip this one! Enjoy your trip!!
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| Posted 7/27/15 11:33 AM |
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LuckyStar
LIF Adult
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Would you go?
Oh hellz no! You could offer to take her to dinner when you get back, but even that isn't totally necessary. Have fun at Disney!
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| Posted 7/27/15 1:12 PM |
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pinky
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Re: Would you go?
No way would I go.
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| Posted 7/27/15 2:21 PM |
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Blubtrflygrl
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/15 609 total posts
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allison
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Re: Would you go?
Thanks everyone. I work on the N/S border of Queens, would need to go home to SS Suffolk and then into the city.
I like the dinner idea. May even plan a couple thing since we rarely hang out with just the two of them.
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| Posted 7/27/15 3:38 PM |
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sunnyflies
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Would you go?
Enjoy your vacation! Don't ruin it by starting out exhausted from a party you should not go to.
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| Posted 7/27/15 5:49 PM |
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nferrandi
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by Blubtrflygrl
Thanks everyone. I work on the N/S border of Queens, would need to go home to SS Suffolk and then into the city.
I like the dinner idea. May even plan a couple thing since we rarely hang out with just the two of them.
I think that's perfect. Invite them either over for dinner or treat them out.
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| Posted 7/27/15 10:22 PM |
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