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this journey is over

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PennyCat
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Re: this journey is over

Best of luck to you

Message edited 5/5/2015 12:22:38 PM.

Posted 5/3/15 11:15 PM
 
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PhyllisNJoe
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Phyllis

Re: this journey is over

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There is nothing more true.

I just wanted to come on here and offer you hope on the other end of Infertility. The ending that doesn't include a child. It's not an easy road, but as each day passes, you will find yourself again. Will that hole in your heart ever be filled, I can't answer that. For me, it's not as deep anymore.

I still have my moments. Like with any mourning, it's never "ok", but you get by.

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Posted 5/4/15 8:34 AM
 

MaeDe
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Re: this journey is over

I'm so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 5/4/15 11:10 AM
 

Peainapod
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Diana

Re: this journey is over

im so sorry. sending hugs!

Posted 5/4/15 1:54 PM
 

Sweetsunflower
LIF Infant

Member since 6/14

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Re: this journey is over

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There is nothing more true.

I just wanted to come on here and offer you hope on the other end of Infertility. The ending that doesn't include a child. It's not an easy road, but as each day passes, you will find yourself again. Will that hole in your heart ever be filled, I can't answer that. For me, it's not as deep anymore.

I still have my moments. Like with any mourning, it's never "ok", but you get by.

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That is so true. I agree with everything you wrote!

Message edited 5/5/2015 1:13:37 AM.

Posted 5/5/15 1:12 AM
 

hoping2013
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Re: this journey is over

THANK YOU so much for your kind words and support. I am doing ok in the big picture...struggling with the grief and enormity of it all.

Infertility is awful.

I don't like the words "give up". There are no guarantees in life or with anything we do...I could keep going, do more rounds with NO guarantee, only the hope that a miracle could happen. I know for some on here your miracle did. For me, that was supposed to happen these past few months and years. It didn't.

Everyone has their end limit- this is mine. Not everyone gets a miracle...and is the way of the world.

It takes tremendous strength to "keep going" and it takes tremendous strength to stop.

Thanks again and my best wishes to you all. I am grateful for all the support I got over the years and wish it were a different outcome.

Posted 5/5/15 8:25 AM
 

Ballet46
LIF Infant

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Re: this journey is over

So sorry to hear this. Sadly, what you wrote is true. There are some people who do not get their miracle and are truly infertile. On boards like these everyone has hope, but sometimes hope is not realistic. I hope you find peace and things in your life that make you truly fulfilled. Chat Icon

Posted 5/5/15 10:09 PM
 

JAPH23
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Re: this journey is over

I am so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/6/15 12:38 PM
 

PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True

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Caren

Re: this journey is over

Im so sorry! I can't even imagine the strength it took to make this decision. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/6/15 1:19 PM
 

DaisyGirl
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Re: this journey is over

I'm so sorry. Infertility is so cruel. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/6/15 7:44 PM
 

babyfever24
LIF Adult

Member since 1/11

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Re: this journey is over

Posted by PhyllisNJoe

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There is nothing more true.

I just wanted to come on here and offer you hope on the other end of Infertility. The ending that doesn't include a child. It's not an easy road, but as each day passes, you will find yourself again. Will that hole in your heart ever be filled, I can't answer that. For me, it's not as deep anymore.

I still have my moments. Like with any mourning, it's never "ok", but you get by.

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I'm here if you need me




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I can't agree more....i have a friend, who although her intentions are good told me "she would've done IVE ten times until it worked and not to give up" of course IVF worked for her so it was easy for her to say this. For me i just couldn't anymore....its not giving up its moving on. Chat Icon

Posted 5/6/15 9:38 PM
 
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