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Spinoff to first bday invite list...

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b2b777
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Spinoff to first bday invite list...

I decided to invite just immediate family and our 2 closest friends. DS has a babysitter who watches him 4 days per week. She has never met any other member of our family. Should her and her husband be invited to the party?

Posted 7/30/14 12:46 PM
 
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SHOPAHOLIC
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Re: Spinoff to first bday invite list...

IMO No. Not for a party that is just immediate family and closest friends.

Posted 7/30/14 1:00 PM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Re: Spinoff to first bday invite list...

Posted by SHOPAHOLIC

IMO No. Not for a party that is just immediate family and closest friends.



I agree

Posted 7/30/14 1:52 PM
 

GoodThoughts
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Re: Spinoff to first bday invite list...

Posted by ANewDayHasCome

Posted by SHOPAHOLIC

IMO No. Not for a party that is just immediate family and closest friends.



I agree



Ditto

Posted 7/30/14 2:50 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Spinoff to first bday invite list...

Def not

Posted 7/30/14 3:19 PM
 

b2b777
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Spinoff to first bday invite list...

Thank you!
Someone mentioned to me that i better invite her.
I feel like this would be awkward for her, knowing nobody in a house with all ppl who are immediate family.
I also didnt want to exclude her, as she is the closest person to DS besides me and my husband with the amount of time she spends with him.
Such a tricky situation.

Posted 7/30/14 3:42 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Spinoff to first bday invite list...

We had a bigger party than you, but we invited our nanny and her fiance. It was actually really helpful because she helped to play with him so I could eat! I didn't have her there to work, but DS is so comfortable with her that he was just drawn to playing with her during the party.

Posted 7/30/14 4:48 PM
 

PregowithTwins
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Spinoff to first bday invite list...

i feel opposite. I babysat when I was in 20s for a family. They really included me in EVERYTHING. They made me feel loved/welcome & was always at every party. As the children grew up...they were in my wedding at 16yrs. (got married at 36) I say it depends on your relationship.......

Posted 7/30/14 9:11 PM
 

jab818
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Spinoff to first bday invite list...

I was a full time nanny for 17 years I was always included in parties and family events. If my dd had even a part time sitter I would add them to the invite list.

Posted 7/30/14 9:37 PM
 

Naturalmama
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Spinoff to first bday invite list...

If it were a bigger party, yes. But just immediate family & close friends...no.

Posted 7/30/14 10:05 PM
 
 

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