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The first time DC utters...

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LittleBlueBug
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The first time DC utters...

...a "bad" word.

We try to be good, but every once in a while DH has slipped, and I yell at him when he does.

Do I make a big deal out of this? I already explained that it is a "bad" word we do not say.



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Posted 11/3/12 8:01 PM
 
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butterfly20
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The first time DC utters...

In the beginning, just be very serious telling them its bad.... it may just be a slip up at first

Posted 11/3/12 8:18 PM
 

wingsofsong
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The first time DC utters...

I agree with AP- when you first hear it, tell him calmly and sternly that it us not a nice word and he should not say it. After that, I would ignore it, because he may say it to test your reaction. Any reaction may fuel his desire to continue saying it.

Posted 11/3/12 8:25 PM
 

A3CM
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The first time DC utters...

the more you react the more he will continue to say it.. i ignore it now or if one of my kids says it, i will say did you just call her a "juice bag"? and we laugh and thats it.. they are 3 & 5 and for the most part if a bad word is said its "juice bag"

kids will be kids.. and i am a very lax parent, but the will say "bad" words, no matter how much we teach them not to, so we dont make a big deal about it.


Posted 11/3/12 8:51 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: The first time DC utters...

Been here!

Substitution works best. Substitute "oh no" or something similar.

For my kid, not responding made it part of his vocabulary.

Posted 11/3/12 9:51 PM
 
 

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