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Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

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CloudNine
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Jackie

Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

my DH works with someone whose son just had a baby but the baby was a big boy (10-11lbs at birth). they had already washed all the NB clothes and he didnt fit in them so they gave them all to us. They have given us 2 big bags already.

then on top of that someone made them a diaper cake of size 1 diapers that he didnt fit in so they gave us those diapers as well. Today DH came home with another big bag of loose size 1 diapers along with an unopened package of size 1's.

we would like to repay this couple for their kindness. what should we get?
do you think a gift card to BRU or target would be good? or maybe find out what size diapers he's in and get them a box? how much would you put on the gift card?

Message edited 7/29/2011 8:51:48 PM.

Posted 7/29/11 8:49 PM
 
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krislee316
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Kristy

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I think either idea is good I would do a $40-50 GC

Posted 7/29/11 8:59 PM
 

lynnd126
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Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

My first reaction is that a GC is sort of weird. I would feel funny receiving that from you if I gave you that stuff. IDK I feel like it would seem like you felt obligated (I'm not saying you do- but I think I would take it funny). If I were you I would send something else- like maybe a basket of cookies or something.

Posted 7/30/11 12:01 AM
 

JBaby
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Julia

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

Posted by lynnd126

My first reaction is that a GC is sort of weird. I would feel funny receiving that from you if I gave you that stuff. IDK I feel like it would seem like you felt obligated (I'm not saying you do- but I think I would take it funny). If I were you I would send something else- like maybe a basket of cookies or something.


I wild have to agree.... I wouldn't thank someone who gave us clothes with giving them more clothes in their size... I would get them a basket of edible arrangements or cupcakes with a nice thank u card.

Posted 7/30/11 12:19 AM
 

Janice
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Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I give away tons...an unexpected thank you card in the mail made my day.

Posted 7/30/11 8:20 AM
 

CarlieJLD7
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Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I think I would probablly give like a $50 GC... that is really so nice of the co-worker to do that!!! And who couldn't use a GC to Target, even if its not spent on Clothes for the child, and maybe something for themselves, or towards Christmas for their DC ya know...

I think thats a really great and generous gift! And it would make my day!

Posted 7/30/11 8:23 AM
 

jgl
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g

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I would pick up a few oufits and say oh I saw these and thought DS would look so cute in them. I would even pick up some board books (maybe from marshalls) to give them.

Posted 7/30/11 8:25 AM
 

CloudNine
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Jackie

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

Posted by lynnd126

My first reaction is that a GC is sort of weird. I would feel funny receiving that from you if I gave you that stuff. IDK I feel like it would seem like you felt obligated (I'm not saying you do- but I think I would take it funny). If I were you I would send something else- like maybe a basket of cookies or something.



well the reason we would think toi give them a gift card is because its not lik ethey are just passing down the clothes just because they have them, they cant use them. they bought and washed all these clothes for their LO and then unfortunately never got the chance to use them due to his size. its almost like they screwed themselves out of money on clothes they couldnt use. thats why i thought maybe a gift card so they can kinda replace their loss you know?

Posted 7/30/11 11:52 AM
 

sasha96
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Julianne

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

while i'd appreciate that GC, I would think it was funny, like being repaid. i pass things along to others all the time. why not get a GC for a take out place near their house? those always make life easier. attach a really nice thank you card b/c someone taking the time to genuinely thank me means so much.

Posted 7/30/11 1:03 PM
 

janedoe
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Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I would buy a box of diapers and wipes in the babies size and add a $50 gift card along with it.

Posted 7/30/11 1:08 PM
 

MrsJakob
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Danielle

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I think just a simple thank you and if you really wanted to, buy an outfit for their son... in his size!

Posted 7/30/11 1:10 PM
 

cds58019
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Candice

Re: Co-Worker keeps giving me clothes and diapers...how can i re-pay?

I dont think I would give a gift. I would just write a really nice thank you note saying how thoughtful it was of them to think of you and how much you really appreciate everything. Maybe send along some kind of a baked good but I wouldn't get a GC. If I was the one giving someone clothes and they turned around and gave me a GC I would feel weird. Then they would probably want to thank you in some way for that and it just seems like a lot of back and forth.

Posted 7/30/11 1:11 PM
 
 

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