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RubyWoo
Complete.

Member since 1/11

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Re: Push gift

Posted by Ayne11

A boat of sushi and a whole entire bottle of Santa Margherita Pinot Grigio.



You took the words out of my mouth - except I may just want a straw for the wine.

Oh, and a nice juicy steak cooked medium.

Posted 7/13/11 7:10 AM
 
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diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07

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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: Push gift

I asked for the new iPhone 5. I seriously doubt I will get one tho!

Posted 7/13/11 8:00 AM
 

LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

Member since 8/06

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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)

Re: Push gift

Well, when DS was born, it was a bit unfair because he was born the day before my birthday, so all I got was my birthday present! Chat Icon

I already told DH, regardless of what he wants to call it, push present, birthday present (I'm due around my birthday again!!!) or "just to shut you up" gift, I want one of these with my last name initial in the middle and my kids' first names on either side:

External Image

Posted 7/13/11 8:02 AM
 

mcl916
my two loves

Member since 10/06

5133 total posts

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Megan

Re: Push gift

Not exactly a "push gift" but I am sending DS to camp for 4 weeks in August (the last 4 weeks of my pregnancy). It will give me a little break and ease his transition to nursery school. Best gift ever Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 8:09 AM
 

kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!

Member since 6/08

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Kim

Re: Push gift

Posted by Meggo613

I got laughed at Chat Icon Chat Icon



HAHH!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 8:11 AM
 

kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!

Member since 6/08

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Kim

Re: Push gift

My Dh is a gift giver. He is the best with presents. I have not requested anything and certainly won't refuse any present that he would like to give me. Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 8:14 AM
 

buttercup
St. Jude pray for us...

Member since 1/11

2951 total posts

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Re: Push gift

hotdogs, sushi, italian hero with all the fixins', bluemoon, a glass of merlot, and a bottle of bubbly for everyone.. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 9:03 AM
 

kelkel09
Love my twins!!!

Member since 6/10

5183 total posts

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K

Re: Push gift

i jokingly asked for a LV bag and DH laughed at me...I said I am giving him 2 babies I should get a bigger gift. Chat Icon

In all reality I am not expecting anything. Having the babies will be gift enough.

Posted 7/13/11 9:17 AM
 

Finally1108
My two boys

Member since 12/08

3541 total posts

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Angela

Re: Push gift

I always brought it up joking around b/4 i was even pregnant!Chat Icon

Since being pregnant i have not said anything, but a while back i overheard him say that he already knows what he is getting meChat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 9:51 AM
 

Erica
LIF Adult

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Re: Push gift

It's not my MO...but I don't usually want gifts for anniversaries or bdays either.

Posted 7/13/11 9:59 AM
 

FirstMate
My lil cowboy

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Re: Push gift

I don't think it's silly. After I have been laid up on bedrest for 8 weeks (as of right now), I deserve a nice gift. I don't care that he has been my servant for 8 weeks, this is his kid that I have had to put my entire life on hold for and I have definitely gotten the sh!t end of the stick.

Before bedrest, I started with a LV bag. Now I'm thinking my services are worth at least a Cartier watch. And sushi. And a Benz. I'm just sayin.

Posted 7/13/11 10:06 AM
 

Lisagail55
Love my little man <3

Member since 12/10

1332 total posts

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Lisa

Re: Push gift

Before we got married I told DH I wanted a second wedding band - my band and ering band are very skinny, and it will really look amazing. I said get it for me for our 1 year or the birth of our first baby. Well, looks like those two days are going to be the same day, give or take. And DH has not been "amazing" or anything of the sort while I've been pregnant, so just another reason I should get it!

So yes, I am getting a push present Chat Icon

Message edited 7/13/2011 11:04:40 AM.

Posted 7/13/11 11:03 AM
 

MySunshine
In love with my Baby Boy

Member since 3/11

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Re: Push gift

All I want is a gorgeous flower arrangement. Our LO will be more then enough of a push gift for both of us.

Posted 7/13/11 11:23 AM
 

pregosaurus
LIF Infant

Member since 6/11

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Re: Push gift

A bottle of red wine.

That's right, I said a bottle, not a glass.

Posted 7/13/11 11:24 AM
 

maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !

Member since 2/10

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Re: Push gift

DH is a gift giver. Whether its a bad day, good day, amazing day, its an excuse to buy something. Even if its just my favorite treat (rainbow cookies) from my fav cafe an hour away. So after years of IF, many complications, carrying twins IN AUGUST, my first hospital stay :( and the arrival of our sons!, I think it def cause for celebration. Gifts, cake, parade, lol It's just how we roll.ha

Many couples I know do not exchange gifts, even for holidays, but we do, so I don't think either is silly.

He won't tell me, but i THINK its an eternity band with the boys birthstone. Which I will wear next to my wedding ringChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 11:26 AM
 

BigSmooch
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/10

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Re: Push gift

Posted by RocNMel

Posted by Meggo613

I got laughed at Chat Icon Chat Icon



I probably would as well. No offense to anyone I just think it's a little silly?!



I tend to agree. I think it's wonderful if your husband surprises you with a gift and I would love if my husband got me something. Just think if you ask for a gift it's not the same thing as him doing it on his own. Not as special IMO.

The only thing I want from my husband is for him to baby me until I'm recovered. Chat Icon

ETA: I may ask for a cold cut and seafood platter! Chat Icon

Message edited 7/13/2011 11:45:05 AM.

Posted 7/13/11 11:32 AM
 

MissingLI
Such a Big Boy!

Member since 1/06

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C

Re: Push gift

Push Presents aren't very popular here in AZ. None of our friends have done it and I know DH has never heard of it. I'm not planning on asking for one either. DH has been so amazingly hlepful to me throughout this entire pregnancy it's gift enough.

Posted 7/13/11 12:00 PM
 

3MakesAFamily
LIF Infant

Member since 1/11

274 total posts

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Stephanie

Re: Push gift

Posted by LaurenExp

Well, when DS was born, it was a bit unfair because he was born the day before my birthday, so all I got was my birthday present! Chat Icon

I already told DH, regardless of what he wants to call it, push present, birthday present (I'm due around my birthday again!!!) or "just to shut you up" gift, I want one of these with my last name initial in the middle and my kids' first names on either side:

IMAGE



I have one of these necklaces with just my initials - LOVE it!!! I can't tell you how many compliments I get on it. My parents gave it to me as a bday gift this year. There is a jeweler in commack that makes them any which way you want it done - and reasonable.

Posted 7/13/11 12:01 PM
 

3MakesAFamily
LIF Infant

Member since 1/11

274 total posts

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Stephanie

Re: Push gift

my DH is always full of surprises and is a gift giver too...so maybe he'll do something special. I'd love a piece of jewelry with our lil girl's birthstone in it to wear and remember the special time and her Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/11 12:09 PM
 

FrankiesGirl107
My Girls

Member since 12/06

3642 total posts

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Amee

Re: Push gift

I would like DH to paint the baby's room and bring me a GIANT Diet Pepsi (my parents are already bringing the tunafish sandwich from the German Deli). LOL

Posted 7/13/11 12:09 PM
 

aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06

11426 total posts

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Ali

Re: Push gift

I didn't expect nor want one with my 1st.

I still don't want one with my 2nd.

Posted 7/13/11 12:29 PM
 

JoesWife628
Our family is complete :)

Member since 8/08

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Me

Re: Push gift

If dh was to get me something, that's up to him. I haven't mentioned a push gift.

Posted 7/13/11 1:21 PM
 

MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3

Member since 1/06

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Michelle

Re: Push gift

I never heard of push presents until LIF. I have issues with DH spending money on me.....

With that said, when DC #2 was born we hired a baby nurse for the first 8 weeks. So I guess you can say that sleep was my push present. Best thing I ever could have been given!

Posted 7/13/11 2:23 PM
 

Otherme
Square head cutie pants

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Re: Push gift

Posted by Teach


I feel bad for the wives of husbands who think it is silly. But....we are all entitled to our own opinions.



please don't feel bad for me.. i think its just as silly as DH does Chat Icon

I had never heard of a push present until a few years ago and my first reaction was 'what for'??

its soooo not me, and not dh either.
i'm not doing this just for him, why should he get me anything? i'm doing this for both of us.. and the 'gift' is the child at the end of it all

But i get it.. not everyone thinks that way.
More power to those ladies who drop hints and actually get something from it. It's just not the way i am

on the other hand, DH has promised me countless times that any night i want to go out and drink, he'll stay home with the baby.. and you know i'm going to take him up on it! (yeah, i know, wishful thinking) Chat Icon

Message edited 7/13/2011 2:47:12 PM.

Posted 7/13/11 2:45 PM
 

johnsae
Sip.

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Re: Push gift

I totally use my pregnancy as an excuse to get material items. Not gonna lie. So far I've gotten a David Yurman ring and Fendi bag and the baby isn't even here yet. Pregnancy is not easy, and if a few material items bring a smile to my face then DH is happy to gift me with a few special items.

Posted 7/13/11 3:16 PM
 
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