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jamiemarie12
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People are so rude
This lady who I work with who barely ever speaks to me comes up to me this morning and asks how far along I am. So I said I will be six months on Thursday. Then she has the balls to say, what are you having twins? Your bellly looks really really round for 6 months. People really need to learn to have a filter when they speak. I just am so annoyed over this. And if one more person from work that doesn't talk to me on a regular basis comes over and rubs my belly, I think I'd like to punch them in the face lol. If you don't usually speak to me, why do you think it's ok to come over and touch me. Ahhhhh!
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kelkel09
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| Posted 5/9/11 10:04 AM |
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DiamondGirl
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Re: People are so rude
People are so bizarre! I can be a b!tch though and put them in their place  
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| Posted 5/9/11 10:11 AM |
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WOW! Ok well I'm almost 25w and I feel like I'm too big too bc IDIOT people keep asking if I'm having twins! Seriously, it brought me to tears this weekend. Here I am thinking I was looking cute and pregnant and everyone else is like (all 3 of them but you know the bad negates the good  ) asked if it was twins, that I should get a few opinions HA HA HA. I just don't understand people btwn the names, the weight or anything else its like they feel its ok to say anything! Like telling me I look bigger will be benificial in any way, or that you hate my sons name? where does that get you!?
I just don't know why I Always have to be the bigger person and let the comments roll off my back, instead of telling them the truth which is STFU! So they don't do it to future moms!
Ahhhhh that feels better...Vent Over LOL
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| Posted 5/9/11 10:52 AM |
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buttercup
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people are so friggin rude that even women with children sometimes forget that a kind word to a preggo goes a long way.. i would have given each one of them a piece of my mind..  i have zero tolerance for rudeness and stupidity
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| Posted 5/9/11 10:56 AM |
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Nayia
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Re: People are so rude
Girl... either way people succK!!!!
I am having twins and people tell me Im huge but when i say Im having twins they say "oh are you sure.. I hope your babies don't come out too small cuz u dont look like ur having twins"
I feel like telling them to freaking shove it.
In the begingin people kept telling me that I was showing fast... and I felt like saying "DUh A$$holes there are 2 babies in there"
WHATEVER.. bottom line is dont let people bug you. I know its hard to do considering the preggo hormones are going nuts but take it in stride and know that ur baby is comfy in there and loving its temporary home.
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| Posted 5/9/11 11:19 AM |
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citywife
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Re: People are so rude
I'm only 3.5 months and didn't want to go public about this pregnancy until after my anatomy scan (had a miscarriage and am very weary). Two weeks ago people at work thought it was ok to come up to me and ask if I am pregnant. I am really annoyed that I was forced to be outted at work. I hate people.
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| Posted 5/9/11 11:33 AM |
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jamiemarie12
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Re: People are so rude
Posted by citywife
I'm only 3.5 months and didn't want to go public about this pregnancy until after my anatomy scan (had a miscarriage and am very weary). Two weeks ago people at work thought it was ok to come up to me and ask if I am pregnant. I am really annoyed that I was forced to be outted at work. I hate people.
I def think it's rude to ask. If you wanted to share you would. Good luck with everything.
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| Posted 5/9/11 11:39 AM |
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jamiemarie12
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Re: People are so rude
Posted by Nayia
Girl... either way people succK!!!!
I am having twins and people tell me Im huge but when i say Im having twins they say "oh are you sure.. I hope your babies don't come out too small cuz u dont look like ur having twins"
I feel like telling them to freaking shove it.
In the begingin people kept telling me that I was showing fast... and I felt like saying "DUh A$$holes there are 2 babies in there"
WHATEVER.. bottom line is dont let people bug you. I know its hard to do considering the preggo hormones are going nuts but take it in stride and know that ur baby is comfy in there and loving its temporary home.
They def do succk. I can't believe one second they are telling you, you are too big and the next you are too small. People just need to keep their judgements to themselves.
It def is hard, and the hormones don't help. But I am feeling pretty large already (especially after all of the food I ate this weekend) it just just brought me nearly too tears. I know I have to let it go considering the person who said this is 55 and dresses like a hooker...which I wanted to say to her at that moment. But unlike rude filterless people I keep my rude comments to myself.
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| Posted 5/9/11 11:43 AM |
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jamiemarie12
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Re: People are so rude
Posted by forgetfullucy
WOW! Ok well I'm almost 25w and I feel like I'm too big too bc IDIOT people keep asking if I'm having twins! Seriously, it brought me to tears this weekend. Here I am thinking I was looking cute and pregnant and everyone else is like (all 3 of them but you know the bad negates the good ) asked if it was twins, that I should get a few opinions HA HA HA. I just don't understand people btwn the names, the weight or anything else its like they feel its ok to say anything! Like telling me I look bigger will be benificial in any way, or that you hate my sons name? where does that get you!?
I just don't know why I Always have to be the bigger person and let the comments roll off my back, instead of telling them the truth which is STFU! So they don't do it to future moms!
Ahhhhh that feels better...Vent Over LOL
I felt the same I really thought I was carrying well until I stood on the scale this morning followed by the obnoxious insult.
I wouldn't let anyone get to you about the name. It's what you and your DH like and that's all that counts, they have no business sharing their opinion. We haven't shared our name choices with anyone. My sister was over yesterday and she tried to go through my name book and I wouldn't let her. She was insulted but too bad lol.
Anyway I am sure you are a cute pregger and let's just both wipe aside the comments and put them past us.
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