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fujamaga
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"Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
I gave birth to my amazing DD 7 wks ago and everytime DH wants to  I start thinking (while having sex) OHMYGOD don't get me pg!! I then have to double-check the condom is on - real romantic right?  Don't get me wrong, I LOVE DD, but I need a LOT more time before I go through this again...
Anyone else have these thoughts?
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Posted 3/9/11 9:27 AM  |
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d-h2008
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
YES! Thats why I went on BC asap, I didnt want another surprise just yet.
The only thing is that I have the WORST migranes of BC pills... avergae of 3X a week and Ive tried multiple brands guess I just have to deal with it.
I dont want an IUD.
I would suggest going on something SOON. If your breastfeeding there is the "mini-pill".
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:30 AM |
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NervousNell
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
Yep- I can barely have sex anymore because of this.
I keep thinking that no BC is 100% so I feel like i Just want to abstain until I can get my tubes tied or something! 
It's a real buzz kill!
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:33 AM |
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nicopico13
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Nicole
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
yes definitely! Soo not ready to have another LO just yet! DS is a handful!
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:35 AM |
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fujamaga
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
lol, glad to know I'm not the only one!! It really is a buzz kill - all I do is think about not getting pregnant. DH should just stay away from me
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:47 AM |
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BeachMom
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
I soooo hear you on that. I set my alarm clock now to take the pill.
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:48 AM |
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
Yup! Im 8 weeks pp and this is the reason we havent done it yet
Message edited 3/9/2011 9:50:10 AM.
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:49 AM |
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Xelindrya
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
You are not alone
I wanted no sex at ALL because I don't want to be preggo. I can't even get in the mood due to the fear of it.
I have an IUD and its a little less stressful until someone told me of the very small chance you can still get preggo 
I swear I'm *THIS* close to getting him to have a snip-snip done. I think his is reversable haha.
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:51 AM |
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fujamaga
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
Posted by Xelindrya
I swear I'm *THIS* close to getting him to have a snip-snip done. I think his is reversable haha.
ahha, yes it is reversible and that's what I want him to do too!! But he wants another kid soon 
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| Posted 3/9/11 9:54 AM |
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mrandmrs12
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Re: "Afraid" to have sex? (a little TMI)
I AM TERRIFIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We have a DS - 3 years and a DD - 5 months. DD was a big surprise. It worked out ok, but we canNOT have another surprise!!!!!!
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| Posted 3/9/11 11:56 AM |
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