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Anxiety Level near the end

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jteach
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Jess

Anxiety Level near the end

I have 26 days until my due date but dr said it could happen any day.

I have been so cool, calm, and collected this pregnancy but all of a sudden my anxiety is through the rough. I am scared to be alone, petrified of giving birth, hating not knowing what to expect and worrying that everything will be ok.

I am sure it is common for first time moms to feel like this but anyone have any ideas on how to calm the nerves at the end and enjoy these last few days?

Anyone else feeling extremely anxious and nervous as well?

Posted 11/30/10 9:31 AM
 
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LadyBugN2Buggies
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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

I remember that frenzied feeling..Chat Icon

best thing to do is take time for yourself and DH right now. Chat Icon

remember: giving birth can be scary, but it's not going to take long. It's temporary...all of it is. Any pain you may feel (which you may not) or any discomfort...all temporary

women have been giving birth since the beginning of time. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/30/10 9:33 AM
 

LadyBugN2Buggies
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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

by the way...when my due date approaches, remind me of what I just said. Chat Icon

Posted 11/30/10 9:34 AM
 

jcslady
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Tricia

Re: Anxiety Level near the end

I am with you sister!

I have to stop watching those TLC shows!!!

funny thing is women keep going back for more...

you will be a great mom!

Posted 11/30/10 9:41 AM
 

LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!

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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

Oh yes, that feeling kicked in a week or so ago and now, 2 days before my due date, IDK what to do with myself!!!

I keep telling myself that it's 100% normal to feel this way... it's an unknown for us 1st time Moms! We don't know what to expect!

Take this time to just go with the flow and enjoy what's about to happen and lean on DH as much as you can right now. I'm sure he's feeling the same way! I know mine is!!!

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Posted 11/30/10 9:48 AM
 

MayBbaby21
Baby no. 3 coming soon!

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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

I haven't gotten there yet about the birth. I think I'm in denial that the baby is coming out—in a painful way—at some point. My DH and mom are on my case about the fact that I say I'm working and commuting to the end. Even though I'm already feeling uncomfortable, I seem to think I can do it, no problem.

I'm more anxious about work and getting everything done and organized for my freelancer. I have so much regular work to do, I feel like I haven't gotten much of a chance to do that yet. And I'm afraid I'm going to go early and leave behind a big mess!

Posted 11/30/10 9:54 AM
 

gporka23
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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

I am the complete opposite.. I have somehow been SO calm these last few weeks.. to the point where Im scaring myself lol. I feel no anxiety (and I am usually an anxious mess).. just excited for him to come!

Posted 11/30/10 9:57 AM
 

robynfs
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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

I'm definiutely feeling worried about labor and when it will happen and how I will handle it etc.

However, the other night I got this pang of anxiety that OMG...that next week or sooner I will be someones mom for the rest of my life! When did I sign up for this Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/30/10 10:39 AM
 

zoe282
We have our miracle!

Member since 8/08

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Jen

Re: Anxiety Level near the end

I felt that way from around 32 weeks...I was TERRIFIED...now with about 11 days to go till my due date I am feeling calm..nerves have turned to excitment. Don't get me wrong I am terrified of labor. but I can't wait to see what my little boy looks like! I hope the calm stays!

Posted 11/30/10 10:49 AM
 

bride07
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Re: Anxiety Level near the end

Posted by gporka23

I am the complete opposite.. I have somehow been SO calm these last few weeks.. to the point where Im scaring myself lol. I feel no anxiety (and I am usually an anxious mess).. just excited for him to come!



I am the same exact way too.

Everyone keeps asking me if I am nervous... And I say "no". Maybe I am just still in denial that it could be any day now.Chat Icon

Posted 11/30/10 10:58 AM
 
 

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