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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
as I am sitting here trying to figure out when i can go buy my sister a b-day present- I realize what did she get me for my B-day?
nothing
what did she get me for my shower
nothing
what did she get me for my wedding?
nothing
so why am I the one always spending my money- she's the one who lives at home, that my Dad gave his 1 year old truck too- she not a kid anymore
now my brother didn't get me anything for my wedding either
what are the odds I will show up at his wedding with out a card?
I am starting to feel like I am being taken advantage of
ok vent over
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Posted 5/12/06 4:33 PM  |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
I say skip the present & get a card.
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:34 PM |
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nov04libride
big brother <3
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Yeah, my brother and DH's brother gave us no card, no nothing for our wedding.  I don't care about money, but I kept all the cards and will never have one from them! I'm always one to remember occasions, etc., and it su cks when other people don't!
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:35 PM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Oh, are we related?
My brother does the same. He got us nothing for our wedding as well and made the most inappropriate toast. Life is ALL about him.
You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family!
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:35 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Posted by nrthshgrl
I say skip the present & get a card.
ditto
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:35 PM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
not to mention that for college gradation last year- I bought her a LV change purse
you would think she would have at least gotten me a shower gift
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:37 PM |
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tourist
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Wow- you are being taken advantage of. Stop the gifts & just get a card.
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:42 PM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
my DH told me to **** it up b/c I am the oldest
guess what that means- the money is coming out of his account
that's what you get for giving me access
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:44 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Posted by Beth1210
my DH told me to **** it up b/c I am the oldest
guess what that means- the money is coming out of his account
that's what you get for giving me access
buy THE most expensive CARD in the store!! 
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:47 PM |
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jilmadison
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
I understand completely! My siblings ar eso irresponsible with their money. I always end up paying for everything.
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:47 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
J'taime Paris!
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
IMO, you're not being a brat at all. I wouldn't get her a thing!
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| Posted 5/12/06 4:51 PM |
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reggie
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Def not being a brat. I wouldn't get anything either.
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| Posted 5/12/06 5:08 PM |
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MrsPorkChop
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
oh man - id still buy a gift....
its your lil sis..just dont be extravagant
however jackie is soo generous to me- i almost cant compete with the amazing gifts she gives me...she is the best
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| Posted 5/12/06 5:31 PM |
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Melbernai
I am a lucky Momma!
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
How old is this sister that we are talking about?
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| Posted 5/12/06 5:54 PM |
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MelToddJulia
Love my Family!
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Just get a card.
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| Posted 5/12/06 5:56 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Did they at least give you cards on these occasions? It's one thing if they have NOOOO money and think of you by giving you a card.
I would get her a nice card and call it a day!
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| Posted 5/12/06 6:02 PM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
i'd get a gift - something small, nothing brand name. try to be the bigger person.
but i know family s ucks.
sorry beth
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| Posted 5/12/06 6:15 PM |
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Jenziba
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
Just get her a card...or, wait a minute...did you say that she didn't get you a card either? If that's the case, then don't even get her a card.
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| Posted 5/12/06 6:17 PM |
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Re: I just realized something- I feel like a brat for being mad but I am!
You are not being a brat AT ALL. Just get a card.
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| Posted 5/12/06 6:41 PM |
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