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Madibee
LIF Infant
Member since 3/10 176 total posts
Name: Madeline
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Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I have so many excellent ideas. I want to be able to do it my way! Please share your thoughts!
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Posted 4/1/10 2:09 PM |
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DSLaff
Team One of Each

Member since 10/09 2150 total posts
Name: Dana
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
i dont think so at all. i think its fun!
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Posted 4/1/10 2:13 PM |
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nicopico13
that year flew!

Member since 11/09 3008 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Not at all, I'm doing it!
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Posted 4/1/10 2:13 PM |
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Mrs-D-Girl
Love my fur baby

Member since 8/07 5183 total posts
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I don't think it's tacky at all. Now throwing it for youself.....that is another story
You know what you like and there is nothing wrong with helping.
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Posted 4/1/10 2:14 PM |
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Madibee
LIF Infant
Member since 3/10 176 total posts
Name: Madeline
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I didn't think so either, but you know other people talk a bunch of smack! I wanna have so much fun planning. So excited about it!
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Posted 4/1/10 2:15 PM |
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babybear
LIF Toddler

Member since 8/09 474 total posts
Name: Meghan
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
i definitely gave input into my shower!
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Posted 4/1/10 2:16 PM |
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
No, not at all. I am helping my mom plan mine.
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Posted 4/1/10 2:19 PM |
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Cpt2007
A new love!

Member since 1/08 5946 total posts
Name: Liz
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
i think there is a difference b/w helping to plan and planning, and certainly b/w planning and hosting.
has someone offered to host one for you?
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Posted 4/1/10 2:23 PM |
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Madibee
LIF Infant
Member since 3/10 176 total posts
Name: Madeline
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Posted by Cpt2007
i think there is a difference b/w helping to plan and planning, and certainly b/w planning and hosting.
has someone offered to host one for you?
Yes, and I really don't want to be mean, but this person does not throw pretty good parties. I just mentioned to her that hubby and I want to plan it all ourselves.
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Posted 4/1/10 2:25 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky

Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
Name: Mama Cranky
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Posted by Madibee
Posted by Cpt2007
i think there is a difference b/w helping to plan and planning, and certainly b/w planning and hosting.
has someone offered to host one for you?
Yes, and I really don't want to be mean, but this person does not throw pretty good parties. I just mentioned to her that hubby and I want to plan it all ourselves.
I don't think I would throw my own shower. I helped a little in the planning of my shower but I would never be the host-but that's just me.
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Posted 4/1/10 2:29 PM |
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sj-girl
Happy Family of 4

Member since 5/08 5654 total posts
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
NO, I wish I had some say in mine. The only thing I would have changed is the date, my shower was about 3-4 weeks b4 I was due. I was a nervous wreck bc my Dr kept telling me he thought I was going to go early
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Posted 4/1/10 2:33 PM |
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XcalystaX
Sooo Sleep Deprived....

Member since 7/06 2742 total posts
Name: S
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I did all the planning and then had the invites say it was being thrown by my parents just so people wouldn't talk smack.
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Posted 4/1/10 2:45 PM |
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lyss4525
LIF Infant
Member since 12/09 284 total posts
Name: Alyssa
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I have been helping my mom, who is hosting. It is different than a bridal shower, since there is no bridal party to do the planning! My aunts, sisters in law, and MIL are all out of state, so they couldn't really help out. I just felt bad that my mom had so much to do, so I am working on it with her - and it is fun!
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Posted 4/1/10 4:27 PM |
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chris605
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I totally helped with mine and i am glad i did... it was perfect...
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Posted 4/1/10 4:30 PM |
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BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!

Member since 10/08 2004 total posts
Name: Tricia aka MattandTricia07
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I'm helping my mom plan it- hope not
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Posted 4/1/10 5:23 PM |
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MamaB17
Back for baby #3

Member since 5/09 4065 total posts
Name: N
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I don't think so. I think some ppl might think it is. My mom is hosting mine, but I have been way more involved then she would like. I picked the invitations, the venue, the menu, the favors. I am making up for my bridal shower being a surprise.
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Posted 4/1/10 5:26 PM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
Member since 7/08 3324 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I planned the entire thing, but said my mom and MIL were the hosts because they did help with some expenses.
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Posted 4/1/10 5:27 PM |
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LuvmyShihTzu
<3 I <3 my DD <3

Member since 8/08 3325 total posts
Name: Happiest Mommy <3
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I think more of us here planned or helped planned our own showers than didn't..go for it!
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Posted 4/1/10 6:10 PM |
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OrganicMama
So in love with my little man!
Member since 6/08 5172 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
I would LOVE to help plan mine, but I'm not allowed . My MIL is hosting the shower but SIL and DH's cousin are doing most of the planning. I know the date and place, and the only thing I was allowed to see was the invite.
So obviously I don't think it's tacky at all!
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Posted 4/1/10 7:18 PM |
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MrsSpring
I'm a lucky mama
Member since 1/10 7585 total posts
Name: L
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
totally not. go for it
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Posted 4/1/10 7:38 PM |
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Candy Girl
Candy girl- you are so sweet!

Member since 11/07 6349 total posts
Name: erin
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Crashing-- I planned my own shower. My DH gave me the money and I planned it with my sister's help. She bought three small centerpieces, wrote out the invitations and dealt with all of the rsvps. It was very nice and just the way I wanted it!
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Posted 4/1/10 7:49 PM |
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Candy Girl
Candy girl- you are so sweet!

Member since 11/07 6349 total posts
Name: erin
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Posted by XcalystaX
I did all the planning and then had the invites say it was being thrown by my parents just so people wouldn't talk smack.
I wanted to add thaT i DID THIS TOO--PUT MY SISTER'S NAME AS THE HOST. (sorry , hit cap locks and too lazy to rewrite. )
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Posted 4/1/10 7:50 PM |
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d-h2008
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09 2490 total posts
Name: D EDD: 8/29/2010
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Hi, I am planning my own shower, but not voluntarilty. My mom is "too busy for it". I dont want people to think im wierd so on the invite I will have to put thats its hosted by her... even though its not.
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Posted 4/1/10 8:19 PM |
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Madibee
LIF Infant
Member since 3/10 176 total posts
Name: Madeline
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
Thanks Ladies,. I'm gonna give it a go!
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Posted 4/2/10 9:49 AM |
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Daisy32
Mommy
Member since 2/08 8081 total posts
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?
not tacky at all....enjoy the planning
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Posted 4/2/10 10:56 AM |
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