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Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

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Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

Brazilian family says it won't appeal ruling of chief justice returning boy to dad, U.S.

CNN) -- Brazilian relatives of a 9-year-old boy, caught in an international custody battle with the child's father, will not file any further appeals after the Brazilian Supreme Court ruled against them, their attorney told CNN Wednesday.

The family is just looking for a peaceful handover of Sean Goldman to his father, attorney Sergio Tostes said, and plan on starting dialogue to allow the transfer to happen immediately.

The chief justice of the Brazilian Supreme Court ruled Tuesday in favor of David Goldman, who had been battling the family of the boy's deceased mother for custody. The ruling by Chief Justice Gilmar Mendes will reunite Sean with his father. Last week, a lower court unanimously upheld a decision ordering that Sean Goldman be returned to his father in New Jersey.

David Goldman arrived in Rio de Janeiro to reunite with his son, but one Supreme Court justice issued a stay, ordering Sean to remain with his Brazilian relatives until the high court could consider the case. Mendes' decision lifted the stay.

The regional court decreed the boy must be handed over by 9 a.m. (6 a.m. ET) on Thursday.

"Sean is very sad because it is not and has never been his desire [to return to the United States]," his grandmother, Silvana Bianchi, told CNN. "He got especially disappointed about not having the right to speak in his own country [about] what he wanted for himself ... They are sending the boy to the United States without the right to defend himself. Where is the Brazilian constitution?

Bianchi was initially expected to appeal. But Tostes said Wednesday the family wants to act in the boy's best interest, and he was meeting with an intermediary to arrange the handover. He said he would like Bianchi to meet with David Goldman so she can tell him what Sean likes to eat, what he enjoys doing and other details.

Asked whether she would accompany Sean on the flight to the United States, Bianchi would only say Tostes is negotiating what is best for the boy.

Upon hearing the family would file no further appeals, Rep. Chris Smith, R-New Jersey, said, "This is not good news. This is great news."

The custody battle began in 2004, when Goldman's wife, Bruna Bianchi, took their then-4-year-old son from their home in New Jersey to Rio de Janeiro for what was to have been a two-week vacation. She never returned, instead remarrying there and retaining custody of Sean. She died last year in childbirth.

Goldman has argued that as the sole surviving parent, he should be granted custody.

The Bianchi family maintained it would traumatize Sean to remove him from what has been his home for five years.

The custody battle garnered much media attention and spilled over into the political arena as well.

U.S. Sen. Frank Lautenberg, D-New Jersey, had placed a hold on a trade bill that would have benefited Brazil to the tune of $2.75 billion, but he lifted it after the court's ruling, spokesman Caley Gray told CNN.

The bill in question, which sailed through the Senate after the senator dropped the hold, provides export tariff relief to 130 countries, of which Brazil would be the fifth largest recipient, Gray said.

Lautenberg's hold was designed to exert additional pressure on Brazilian authorities to abide by the court order to return Sean to his father, he said.

Silvana Bianchi told CNN Wednesday it was "very sad, a country that exchanges children for economic agreements."

While the chief justice was still studying the case, Brazilian Attorney General Luis Inacio Adams said the executive branch of Brazilian government sided with Goldman.

"Once we stop cooperating and start breaking our treaties and international obligations, Brazil risks the chance of not having its own requests in the matters regarding international judicial help granted, based on the principle of international reciprocity," Adams said Monday.

"Not releasing the minor into the custody of his father could bring sanctions against Brazil," he added. "It could damage Brazil's image before the international community."


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Posted 12/23/09 6:05 PM
 
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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

I was so happy to hear this. Long overdue, but still happy news!

Posted 12/23/09 6:10 PM
 

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That is Great News, What a christmas Miracle!!Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/09 6:36 PM
 

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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

Wonderful news!!!!!
He was basically kidnapped by his own mother, and I'm sure there was some brainwashing involved on the part of her family.

I hope the father gets his son therapy when they return home.

Posted 12/23/09 7:03 PM
 

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I haven't been following this story but what was going on when the mother was alive? Was he fighting for custody then and if so, why was it dragged out this long?

Posted 12/23/09 7:33 PM
 

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Finally some justice for this poor man! He will never get those years back but finally they'll be together!

Posted 12/23/09 9:03 PM
 

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Posted by babymakes3

I haven't been following this story but what was going on when the mother was alive? Was he fighting for custody then and if so, why was it dragged out this long?



Since the wife left, he's been fighting for years to get his son back.

I read that the stepfather apparently has some connections in the government and legal system in Brazil. So each time the father was appealing or trying to move forward with the case, the family's "connections" always threw up a blockade.

It stinks that this poor boy has likely been brainwashed by his mom's family and probably doesn't fully understand how hard his father has fought. I hope that with therapy, they can be a family again. It should never have taken this long in the 1st place.

Posted 12/23/09 10:30 PM
 

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I truly hope they get that boy into therapy asap.

Posted 12/23/09 11:02 PM
 

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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

It's about time.

Posted 12/23/09 11:17 PM
 

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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

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Posted by babymakes3

I haven't been following this story but what was going on when the mother was alive? Was he fighting for custody then and if so, why was it dragged out this long?



Since the wife left, he's been fighting for years to get his son back.

I read that the stepfather apparently has some connections in the government and legal system in Brazil. So each time the father was appealing or trying to move forward with the case, the family's "connections" always threw up a blockade.

It stinks that this poor boy has likely been brainwashed by his mom's family and probably doesn't fully understand how hard his father has fought. I hope that with therapy, they can be a family again. It should never have taken this long in the 1st place.



Chat Icon Wow! I hope for a wonderful reunion between father and son. Such an ordeal for someone so young.

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Posted 12/23/09 11:25 PM
 

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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

my gut tells me the dad will do the responsible thing and get the boy therapy. i sure hope he does.

it's about time that boy is returned

Posted 12/24/09 11:10 AM
 

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my gut tells me the dad will do the responsible thing and get the boy therapy. i sure hope he does.

it's about time that boy is returned



Definitely think he will be doing that -- he seems to very much want to do whats right for his son.

Shame on the family in Brazil for the way they handled the hand over this morning. They purposely brought Sean in thru the front of the consulate KNOWING that the media would be there, and actually counting on it, to make a spectacle. That action alone speaks volumes to me about how they do not have the best interest of the child at heart, and were making this about THEM.

Posted 12/24/09 11:16 AM
 

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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

I am glad he will be with his father. It must be so hard on this boy though. I hope NJ and his Dad feels at 'home' and with 'family' eventually. I wonder what contact will remain with his grandparents? I wonder why now they have decided not to appeal? but I have not really been watching this story too closely.

Posted 12/24/09 10:41 PM
 

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That is going to be a hard transition. He barely remembers life in the US and doesn't even speak much english. That poor kidChat Icon

Posted 12/24/09 11:36 PM
 

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I am glad he will be with his father. It must be so hard on this boy though. I hope NJ and his Dad feels at 'home' and with 'family' eventually. I wonder what contact will remain with his grandparents? I wonder why now they have decided not to appeal? but I have not really been watching this story too closely.



I think the only reason they stopped the appeals is that Frank Lautenberg (NJ) put a block on Brazil receiving over a billion dollars in US $. They were prob. told by their government that they needed the US money. The step father is an attorney. The family is very wealthy and very connected. They changed their tune only after Lautenberg put the block on the trade bill. It is sad on so many levels. I think the most disgusting thing is that the grandmother is quoted as saying that the grandson has only known them for the past 5 years and would be upset by going back to his real father. The ONLY reason he was there for 5 years was that he was kidnapped for 5 years by them.

Posted 12/25/09 12:14 AM
 

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Re: Sean Goldman FINALLY coming home to NJ

The father seems like a class act

He said his son would be allowed to see his brazilian family

Posted 12/25/09 9:44 AM
 
 

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