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I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
I just yelled & got so frustrated at DH b/c I'm SO SICK of making dinner ALWAYS & I ask him RARELY to come up with ideas and todays was....."make yourself pasta, I'll find something" gee, thanks, awesome idea!!! Then he said hot dogs 
diuvbbiebh r;ituhgb;iearbjt;irt;iwjr;th <--------THAT's how I feel like right now towards him!
Anyone else sick of always being the one to cook dinner? or is it just me and I'm having a preggo meltdown 
AND to make matters worse he was suppose to call the black top company for like a month now and last night I asked him nicely to get on top of it...I researched the companies, gave himt he #'s he had to call THAT's IT! Has he called yet??? NO? why would he??!!!
I'm seriously having a moment.......
Message edited 7/8/2009 4:29:11 PM.
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Yes. I feel the same way.
DH SHOCKED me the other night because I came home and he had made grilled cheese sandwiches and bought a bag of chips.
Not the healthiest, but I got a break, at least.
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:26 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by JennyPenny
Yes. I feel the same way.
DH SHOCKED me the other night because I came home and he had made grilled cheese sandwiches and bought a bag of chips.
Not the healthiest, but I got a break, at least.
that's all I'm looking for! I cook for him almost every damn night...and sometimes I'd like a little help, is it to much to ask ESPECIALLY when I'm tired after work! When the babies here, I hope he opens his eyes!!
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:28 PM |
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carissa1643
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
My DH is the same way about making phone calls. Procrastinates until I blow up! And I'm the one that does all the researching too!!! Although with dinner I havent done that much lately we've either eaten out or made quick things. He would love if I actually cooked again one day, maybe when I'm more into my second trimester
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:30 PM |
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Order some thai/chinese/SOMETHING for yourself and let him eat hotdogs DH and I take turns cooking or sometimes eat random leftovers....
and yeah you have the right to feel like that
and about making a phone call (DH has like 3 calls he's supposed to make), no advice but I hear ya sister! I signed up DH's work email (because he HAS to check it) to "memo to you" so he gets constant reminders about stuff
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:30 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
I have been thinking about this stuff lately, too.
I am the one responisble for EVERYTHING, and DH's favorite saying is that all he does is "work, work, work".
I am responisble for handling the bills, Food shopping, cooking, keeping track of anything and everything we need. If he tells me he needs something like hair gel and I don't get it right away- instead of just going to get it himself- he will continuously remind me until I do.
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:33 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by brownie
Order some thai/chinese/SOMETHING for yourself and let him eat hotdogs DH and I take turns cooking or sometimes eat random leftovers....
and yeah you have the right to feel like that
and about making a phone call (DH has like 3 calls he's supposed to make), no advice but I hear ya sister! I signed up DH's work email (because he HAS to check it) to "memo to you" so he gets constant reminders about stuff
omg, that's a great idea!!!! I'm going to tell him I'd like to set that up tonight It's sad we have to do that but COME ON!
I will say I do get home an hour before him so I get why I have to cook dinner, we'd be starving by the time he's done but a little help with ideas would be nice or preparing the night before would be helpful. A little input....instead of "make yourself something and I'll fend for myself". Really???
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:34 PM |
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
want me to kick his @ss?
Id offer to come over and cook, but I dont want you vomitting from food poisoning.
I say, cook yourself dinner and tell him to figure it out.
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:37 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by JennyPenny
I have been thinking about this stuff lately, too.
I am the one responisble for EVERYTHING, and DH's favorite saying is that all he does is "work, work, work".
I am responisble for handling the bills, Food shopping, cooking, keeping track of anything and everything we need. If he tells me he needs something like hair gel and I don't get it right away- instead of just going to get it himself- he will continuously remind me until I do.
YES!
Bills- Me
Grocery- Me
Cleaning- Me (although he did get me a cleaning lady for our anniversary LOL)
Laundry- He's suppose to do it, does he? no not until I ask then he leaves it for me to put away.
Cooking- Me
Organizing/Keep Track of everything- Me
He does outside and clearly with the black top incident doesn't give a crap about that either!
MAN OH MAN, I'm cranky today!
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:37 PM |
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eddiesmommy
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by DPerotti
Posted by JennyPenny
I have been thinking about this stuff lately, too.
I am the one responisble for EVERYTHING, and DH's favorite saying is that all he does is "work, work, work".
I am responisble for handling the bills, Food shopping, cooking, keeping track of anything and everything we need. If he tells me he needs something like hair gel and I don't get it right away- instead of just going to get it himself- he will continuously remind me until I do.
YES!
Bills- Me
Grocery- Me
Cleaning- Me (although he did get me a cleaning lady for our anniversary LOL)
Laundry- He's suppose to do it, does he? no not until I ask then he leaves it for me to put away.
Cooking- Me
Organizing/Keep Track of everything- Me
He does outside and clearly with the black top incident doesn't give a crap about that either!
MAN OH MAN, I'm cranky today!
You need to lay down the law before the baby gets here. I dont want you to end up like "you know who" constantly bickering.
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| Posted 7/8/09 4:40 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by DPerotti
Posted by JennyPenny
I have been thinking about this stuff lately, too.
I am the one responisble for EVERYTHING, and DH's favorite saying is that all he does is "work, work, work".
I am responisble for handling the bills, Food shopping, cooking, keeping track of anything and everything we need. If he tells me he needs something like hair gel and I don't get it right away- instead of just going to get it himself- he will continuously remind me until I do.
YES!
Bills- Me
Grocery- Me
Cleaning- Me (although he did get me a cleaning lady for our anniversary LOL)
Laundry- He's suppose to do it, does he? no not until I ask then he leaves it for me to put away.
Cooking- Me
Organizing/Keep Track of everything- Me
He does outside and clearly with the black top incident doesn't give a crap about that either!
MAN OH MAN, I'm cranky today!
DH does the laundy alot of the time because it is done at his mom's and she doesn't let me touch her machines , but it always gets left for me to put away.
And when I ask DH what he would like for dinner he says, "Whatever."
Sigh.
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by eddiesmommy
want me to kick his @ss?
Id offer to come over and cook, but I dont want you vomitting from food poisoning.
I say, cook yourself dinner and tell him to figure it out.
YES!!!!!! omg, I'm gonna kill him today for some reason. He should be scared when he gets home. Last night, I cooked dinner, set it up outside on our patio....he called me a 630 to tell he was JUST leaving work.....he usually gets home at 630...I was FUMING! You think he'd WANT to cook me dinner tonight!!!!!!! I hardly ever get mad at him but today I'm not happy lol
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4PsInaPod
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
Posted by eddiesmommy
Posted by DPerotti
Posted by JennyPenny
I have been thinking about this stuff lately, too.
I am the one responisble for EVERYTHING, and DH's favorite saying is that all he does is "work, work, work".
I am responisble for handling the bills, Food shopping, cooking, keeping track of anything and everything we need. If he tells me he needs something like hair gel and I don't get it right away- instead of just going to get it himself- he will continuously remind me until I do.
YES!
Bills- Me
Grocery- Me
Cleaning- Me (although he did get me a cleaning lady for our anniversary LOL)
Laundry- He's suppose to do it, does he? no not until I ask then he leaves it for me to put away.
Cooking- Me
Organizing/Keep Track of everything- Me
He does outside and clearly with the black top incident doesn't give a crap about that either!
MAN OH MAN, I'm cranky today!
You need to lay down the law before the baby gets here. I dont want you to end up like "you know who" constantly bickering.
oh the LAW will be very well known
I'm writing a list tonight
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Waste06
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Re: I'm having a preggo hormone moment....
I don't think I've cooked a single meal since I've been pregnant. 
I never really cooked before I got pregnant though.
I do help make the salad with dinner though....sometimes. That counts for something, right?
And I do the laundry, clean, pay the bills, and iron every day.
(Oh, and I don't feel guilty one bit, like I'm some kind of slacker-wife....just really lucky!)
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