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Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

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FelAndJon
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Where do you go when your cleaning lady is at your house?
We have a team of "ladies" that come and they came early today. While they are all upstairs doing the bedrooms, we are all downstairs on the main level. They normally don't come until I am already gone for the day (as is my preference) but they came so early, we didn't get a chance to even get dressed yet!

Posted 6/24/09 9:35 AM
 
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luvsun27
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Kim

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

I hate to be home when the cleaning lady comes, but sometimes I have to be. I do exactly what you are doing...stay on another floor and stay out of the way. I do find however, that she does a better job when I am home, maybe because she knows I'm "watching" Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 9:44 AM
 

joenick
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

When she's upstairs, I stay downstairs...and vice versa.

But I have had my cleaning lady for over 4 years...we chat, eat lunch together, hang out a little. Chat Icon I don't need to "stay away" from her. I just give her some space so she doesn't have to stay longer than her usual 7 hours.

Posted 6/24/09 9:46 AM
 

lbelle821
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Lisa

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

if we're there and she's there we usually tell her where to start (upstairs vs. downstairs) and we'll migrate to the opposite. Except i hate being upstairs during the day so usually when she is downstairs we'll either go outside or to the park.

But usually we're not there when she comes.

Posted 6/24/09 10:07 AM
 

ckdk
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Cheryl

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

I usually just go where she isn't...

Posted 6/24/09 10:19 AM
 

johnsae
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

I take Maddie to the gym...by the time we leave and get back they are done with the upstairs...I feed her lunch and put her down for a nap.

Posted 6/24/09 10:49 AM
 

FelAndJon
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Thanks all! We stayed downstairs until they were done in the bedrooms then went upstairs to get dressed. I must have played them very hard because they are both now napping Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 11:21 AM
 

Gatsbygirl
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

When I was a SAHM I tried to run errands or in nice weather at least go to the park. I tired to stay out of her way.

Posted 6/24/09 1:37 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

I moved up my time so they come earlier now.

When they get here they start upstairs and we are eating breakfast downstairs. I usually grab his clothes, change him, and then we run out to Gymboree class or to do errands while they are cleaning the downstairs.

Posted 6/24/09 1:45 PM
 

Metsmomma
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

wow am i the only one that's the cleaning lady for my house?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 2:50 PM
 

chelle
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Isn't it obvious?

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

When we had one I made sure it was during the time of DD's 1st nap...so I would either drive around and/or head to the aquarium where I could spend time there then head back home after she was done.

But now it's me...Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 3:19 PM
 

JenBenMen
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Jen

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Today I took both kids to the bookstore....i'd rather not be home

Posted 6/24/09 3:54 PM
 

turkeybaby
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Jodi

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

I have never been home when they are here. I always leave and come back long after they are gone.

Posted 6/24/09 4:31 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Posted by luvsun27

I hate to be home when the cleaning lady comes, but sometimes I have to be. I do exactly what you are doing...stay on another floor and stay out of the way. I do find however, that she does a better job when I am home, maybe because she knows I'm "watching" Chat Icon



Since being home with Samantha on maternity leave, I've been home when the cleaning lady comes since it's during Samantha's naptime. I find my house is ALOT cleaner then when I'm not home. I'm not saying she does a bad job, but I notice she does things that I'm certain she doesn't do when I'm not home.

To answer your question Felice, I do what you did this morning. I just stay in another part of the house until she is ready to move to the part of the house I'm in.

Posted 6/24/09 4:34 PM
 

mommy2Alex
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Posted by Metsmomma

wow am i the only one that's the cleaning lady for my house?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Nope I am too Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 4:45 PM
 

Metsmomma
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Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Posted by mommy2Alex

Posted by Metsmomma

wow am i the only one that's the cleaning lady for my house?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Nope I am too Chat Icon

ok good i don't feel alone anymore!Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 6:00 PM
 

rojerono
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Jeannie

Re: Cleaning ladies vs. SAHM

Rob used to evacuate when the cleaning lady came... take the kids to the park or the store or whatever. But now he just goes about his own business and she goes about hers!Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 6:33 PM
 
 

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