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babyonthebrain
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Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
My 2 SIL's are basically giving me every excuse not to come to the hospital and see me. I am so hurt and frustrated!
They both don't drive and I got them a ride and everything but still I hear excuses. I'm so friggin upset. I even told them how much this emans to me for them to be there the day the baby is born but I guess that doesn't mean sh**
If they don't show up things are gonna drastically change between me and then I swear! No more doing anythign for them ever!
  
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Posted 1/5/09 6:26 PM  |
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MrsBurtch525
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Im sorry.....They are going to be the ones that are going to miss out on a beautiful baby and they will regret it.
Try not to let it get to you too much...enjoy your experience and new baby!
Message edited 1/5/2009 6:34:04 PM.
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| Posted 1/5/09 6:30 PM |
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ReiRei13
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Posted by mommyin2009
Im sorry.....They are going to be the ones that are going to miss out on a beautiful baby and they will regret it.
I AGREE
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| Posted 1/5/09 6:31 PM |
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Bridex100
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
I wouldn't write them off until they actually don't come to the hospital. I'm sure they will come visit you. How can they not?!?!?
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| Posted 1/5/09 6:35 PM |
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gck0708
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Please don't let them ruin this wonderful week for you. At the end of the day you and your DH are the most important people to your little one and that you're together is the most important thing. I can't believe that they're acting that way. It's very hurtful.
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| Posted 1/5/09 6:45 PM |
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butterfly20
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
 maybe they just arent hospital people? when my own sister gave birth she didnt tell people she was in the hospital until she delivered the baby. - i didnt go to the hospital since she was going to be home in 2 days and hospitals freak me out(just the sight of a gurney will make me sick)...
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brownie
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Posted by babyonthebrain
My 2 SIL's are basically giving me every excuse not to come to the hospital and see me. I am so hurt and frustrated!
They both don't drive and I got them a ride and everything but still I hear excuses. I'm so friggin upset. I even told them how much this emans to me for them to be there the day the baby is born but I guess that doesn't mean sh**
If they don't show up things are gonna drastically change between me and then I swear! No more doing anythign for them ever!
BOTB
I would be upset too, but try not to let them ruin this time for you. Imagine how special that moment will be when baby is here...don't let them spoil it. Who knows, maybe they will show up.
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juju
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Don't let them take away your happiness. If they don't want to be there, it is their loss! I would not lose any sleep over it.
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lovelyli
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Do not let them ruin your special day. It is there loss.
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| Posted 1/5/09 8:05 PM |
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DanandNette
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
I can see how this will upset you but when you are holding your precious little baby in your arms I am sure they will be the last thing on your mind. Don't let them get to you, this is your moment, may you and your DH enjoy it!
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| Posted 1/5/09 8:26 PM |
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JodiBabe
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Re: Frustrated and dissapointed with in laws
Posted by mommyin2009
Im sorry.....They are going to be the ones that are going to miss out on a beautiful baby and they will regret it.
Try not to let it get to you too much...enjoy your experience and new baby!
my exact thought!
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