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OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

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headoverheels
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

i am SO glad to hear you were able to resolve things. what a wonderful update!! i hope that teacher gets a formal reprimand Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 11:29 AM
 
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jerseypanda
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Oh, I have been waiting for this update all morning! Chat Icon

I am very happy to hear that this was handled so well by the principal and assistant principal. Kudos to your DH for not kicking the living sh!t out of that guy! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

And now you all move forward without this teacher in your lives... wonderful ending!

Posted 11/20/08 11:32 AM
 

smdl
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Glad she was removed.

I am still perplexed that he still tried to justify what was unjustifiable. But whatever!

I would be keeping a very close eye on him if I was a principal. The topic of the joke was no laughing matter and very disturbing that the thought of your daughter with an older man crossed his mind.

Posted 11/20/08 11:34 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

So glad it all worked out!!!

I bet the teacher won't be doing that again any time soon!!

Posted 11/20/08 11:35 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Posted by smdl

Glad she was removed.

I am still perplexed that he still tried to justify what was unjustifiable. But whatever!

I would be keeping a very close eye on him if I was a principal. The topic of the joke was no laughing matter and very disturbing that the thought of your daughter with an older man crossed his mind.




just need to clarify...DD was one of three other students attending xtime, so she wasn't alone (thank goodness) -- according to DD, the other two students were equally uncomfortable with the whole situation. all of which was brought to the principal's attention.

Posted 11/20/08 11:36 AM
 

IrishLasss334
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Patty

Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

So glad it worked out for you and DD!

Posted 11/20/08 11:36 AM
 

dooodles
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

So glad D is out of his class! I wanted to jump through the computer right into the classroom as I was reading your update to smack this man upside the head.

Good for you for making him switch roles and put him in YOUR shoes as a parent. He went too far with his relaxed behavior and I can only hope he does not upset another child with his seemingly carefree attitude Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 11:38 AM
 

smdl
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by smdl

Glad she was removed.

I am still perplexed that he still tried to justify what was unjustifiable. But whatever!

I would be keeping a very close eye on him if I was a principal. The topic of the joke was no laughing matter and very disturbing that the thought of your daughter with an older man crossed his mind.




just need to clarify...DD was one of three other students attending xtime, so she wasn't alone (thank goodness) -- according to DD, the other two students were equally uncomfortable with the whole situation. all of which was brought to the principal's attention.



Yes, but that's his "thought process" I was talking about that is disturbing. That he would even think of such situation (your daughter with an older man!). Not that he was actually alone with your daughter. More what he was implying. That's what I meant!!!!

Anyway, she is out. Obviously it made other students uncomfortable too. So that's not good either.

Posted 11/20/08 11:41 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Posted by smdl

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by smdl

Glad she was removed.

I am still perplexed that he still tried to justify what was unjustifiable. But whatever!

I would be keeping a very close eye on him if I was a principal. The topic of the joke was no laughing matter and very disturbing that the thought of your daughter with an older man crossed his mind.




just need to clarify...DD was one of three other students attending xtime, so she wasn't alone (thank goodness) -- according to DD, the other two students were equally uncomfortable with the whole situation. all of which was brought to the principal's attention.



Yes, but that's his "thought process" I was talking about that is disturbing. That he would even think of such situation (your daughter with an older man!). Not that he was actually alone with your daughter. More what he was implying. That's what I meant!!!!





oh, believe me, i absolutely agree with you 10000%

Posted 11/20/08 11:43 AM
 

timanda
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Amanda

Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Glad to hear it worked out.

If she is uncomfortable she should NOT be in his class.

I don't get his teaching method, and I hope the principal continues to keep an eye on him.

Posted 11/20/08 11:43 AM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Chat Icon glad to hear everything worked out.

especially at this critical age, your daughter should feel COMPLETELY comfortable and safe at school.

whole situation is a little "don't stand so close to me" for me.

I am not saying this guy is a perv...but it just isn't the right impression to give off...even accidentally.

Posted 11/20/08 11:47 AM
 

JessInCA
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

I'm glad it worked out well. Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 11:50 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

WHile he may not be a perv, he certainly opens the door to thinking he may be or that thought of his student doing something her parent's disagreed with crossed his mind.

Very glad she is transferred out of his classroom. I'm sure you'll be keeping the lines of communications open if this teacher targets her using the student buddies he does have. WHen I asked DH last night what he would have done...I didn't get passed the joking part & could see he was already tense & ready to pounce on someone over the thought of someone joking inappropriately. Again, this teacher is so lucky that Mr. Erod is a calm person. I can say that Mr. NrthSh wasn't even calm discussing it & it wasn't even his daughter.

You handled this so well! Hope the principal keeps on eye out. I find the teacher wanting to be "the friend" disturbing. There are boundaries & he definitely crossed it.

Posted 11/20/08 11:54 AM
 

joenick
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Glad to hear everything was resolved.

You wrote the perfect email....just perfect.

I can guarantee you that that teacher will get a much deserved letter in his file.

Yeah...that's some "teaching style" he's got over there. Chat Icon I'm surprised it took THIS long for a parent to complain.

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Posted 11/20/08 11:58 AM
 

MeeshMosh
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

oh how great for you & DD!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

so happy to hear it all worked out!! Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 12:38 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

I'm so glad you confronted that azzhole and got your DD transfered out of his class.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would like to think the admin. would give him some kind of mandatory classes on how to behave properly with your students! He definately would deserve it!Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 12:43 PM
 

Diane
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Glad things got worked out....I still cant believe a teacher would act like thatChat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 12:49 PM
 

roxygrl8
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

To your sentence when the teacher brought up in the meeting that your DH called your DD at least 5 times. Who's business is it of his? If your DH or you for that matter want to call your DD 5,10 100 times it's your perogitive not his!
It's scary to see that some of these people are teachers. No offense to any teachers on here. But seriously I met a girl at a halloween party and she was seriously weird to the point where I asked my FSIL (her sisters party) if there was something wrong with the girl (sisters friend) and she said I dont' know but she's a teacher can you believe that? I said WHAT, are you serious?

Posted 11/20/08 12:52 PM
 

itkocak

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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Message edited 11/22/2011 7:26:41 PM.

Posted 11/20/08 1:16 PM
 

Tine73

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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

OMG!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 1:22 PM
 

KGools
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

So glad it's resovled and I seriously hope this azz of a teacher gets some sort of mark on his file or whatever it is they do.

Posted 11/20/08 1:23 PM
 

MsG
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

He should be fired! Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/08 1:26 PM
 

Little-J-Mommy
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D

Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

BravoChat Icon

you handled it perfectly on your end and I have to give kudos to the Principal and AP for not taking this lightly and trying to make excuses. I would imagine that a letter would be placed in the teachers file and if he's not tenured....I doubt he will be.

Posted 11/20/08 1:42 PM
 

eroxgirl
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Posted by roxygrl8

To your sentence when the teacher brought up in the meeting that your DH called your DD at least 5 times. Who's business is it of his? If your DH or you for that matter want to call your DD 5,10 100 times it's your perogitive not his!



That stood out to me too - who the FFF is he to say that your DH called his DAUGHTER too much? I mean really, what kind of TEACHER is this?

I'm glad your DD is out of his class. I hope the administration will be keeping a closer eye on him.

Posted 11/20/08 1:45 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon excellent handling!

Posted 11/20/08 1:46 PM
 
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