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JenG
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Jen

f you have nothing nice to say

then please shut your mouth Chat Icon

i got my hair dyed back to my original color, dark brown, on friday night. a girl i work with told me not to dye my hair dark because she likes it lighter, i had it light brown with a lot of highlights this summer. it is a lot to maintain. i go into work today and she says to me
"OMG, you look horrible! i told you not to make your hair darker, i hate it" i told her i'm not trying to impress her and walked away. another girl in my ofifce said the she definately does not like my hair either. what is wrong with people????? i would never say that to someone, even if they did look horrible Chat Icon meanwhile, so many people are telling me they love it, especially DH Chat Icon


ETA: i get so self concious sometimes, so these type of statements don't help

Message edited 9/17/2008 11:38:38 PM.

Posted 9/15/08 11:17 PM
 
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MelToddJulia
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

As long as your happy with it thats all that matters!Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/08 11:51 PM
 

glinda-goodwitch
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Beth

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

Wow, that's really ballsy. I wouldn't mind if my friends gave me their honest opinion. But not people I work with or who are just acquaintances.

Posted 9/16/08 7:13 AM
 

vmac
Mommy VMac

Member since 8/07

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Vanessa

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

so rude! i'm sorry they are saying that. it's just uncalled for.

Posted 9/16/08 9:20 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

Wow, what a biotch-screw her. As long as you and your DH love it, who cares what she thinks.

Posted 9/16/08 10:07 AM
 

Chrisnamy
Summer is coming soon

Member since 1/07

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Amy

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

I did the same thing...I dyed my hair back to my dark hair color and I couldn't believe all the rude comments.


Sorry, they made you feel uncomfortable. They were out of line.

I bet you look Beautiful!!!!!Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 10:28 AM
 

DandS
We are so blessed!!

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Stacey

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

Posted by MelToddJulia

As long as your happy with it thats all that matters!Chat Icon



I agree with this!

But you are completely right; where do people get off saying such horrible things. It is one thing to maybe politely say how you feel, but to say you look horrible is so rude!!! Don't listen to them. If you love it, rock it then!

Posted 9/16/08 10:46 AM
 

tray831
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His Baby

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......



People ARE f'ng WEIRD!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 10:49 AM
 

MeeshkaMich
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

Ignore them. All that should matter is that YOU love it.

I went darker last week too. The blonde was just too much to maintain. So far everyone has loved it except my mom Chat Icon

She said I like you better with lighter hair, and yet my natural hair color is medium brown (which is what it is now after last week's single process) that gets lighter in summer.

Honestly though I think its just because its a drastic change going from light to dark and people just aren't used to it.

Again though as long as YOU are happy thats all that matters. Post a picChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 11:15 AM
 

dandr10199
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Dina

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Wow, what a biotch-screw her. As long as you and your DH love it, who cares what she thinks.



ITA. Plus, while they are blowing their $$$ away on hair treatments, you will be socking $$$$$ away. Chat Icon

You my dear are very smart to go back to your original color in this economy. Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 12:13 PM
 

MarisaK
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Marisa

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

EW !!! How rude !!! - I would NEVER just come out and tell someone I didn't like ANYTHING about them........... -

Posted 9/16/08 2:45 PM
 

krooshe
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

I went back to my dark color also. My cut and color went from $140 to $65. I'm sure your hair look beautiful. It's shocking that such dumb comments come out of people's mouths.

Posted 9/16/08 7:49 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

Chat Icon what an AZZ!

Posted 9/16/08 8:03 PM
 

luvshopping
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ME!!!!

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

that is so rude of your co-workers to say that to you!!! I swear, I feel like a lot of people are lacking in social skills!!! Keep it to yourself!!!!

Posted 9/16/08 8:11 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

seriously?!? it's closer to your natural color - it's what you were made to have - how dare they mess with that! Chat Icon

People!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 8:19 PM
 

JenG
Love my little boy!

Member since 6/05

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Jen

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......

here is a before and after pic. the after pic taken after laying on the couch Chat Icon so it's kinda flat!

Also cut off 5 inches from the length .

PLEASE DON'T QUOTE, GONNA TAKE THE PIC DOWN SOON

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Message edited 9/17/2008 11:38:49 PM.

Posted 9/16/08 9:30 PM
 

nancy6485
So in love

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Nancy

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

i think it looks great!

Posted 9/16/08 10:00 PM
 

Beth
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Member since 2/06

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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

personally - I love the dark hair

tell everyone to shut it

Posted 9/16/08 10:05 PM
 

seaside
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

You look BEAUTIFUL, and as for the girl, I'd say something to the effect of "You know, between us, telling a coworker at work that she looks horrible and how she should look is the height of unprofessional. And I was the only one who noticed/heard. I thought you'd want to know."
Let her stew!Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 10:19 PM
 

MelToddJulia
Love my Family!

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Mel

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

Looks great! You look pretty with both colors!Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 10:29 PM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

OMG, your co-worker is nuts! Chat Icon


Your hair looks awsome!! That's the color I want actually! Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 10:30 PM
 

JenniferH
LIF Adult

Member since 8/07

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Jennifer

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

I love the dark color...it's beautiful!

Posted 9/16/08 10:40 PM
 

BunnyWife
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BunnyWife

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

You look great with dark hair! Love the colorChat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 11:09 PM
 

JenG
Love my little boy!

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Jen

Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

thanks girls Chat Icon

Posted 9/16/08 11:20 PM
 

Myrockette
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Re: If you have nothing nice to say......UPDATED WITH PIC BEFORE AND AFTER

I saw your pics last nightm just didn't get the chance to post AND you look great with the dark hair. Very pretty, I like it better than the light color!Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/08 8:32 AM
 
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