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waterspout4
My loves
Member since 5/06 19150 total posts
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Kelly
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Please help me!!!
DH's father passed away. He lived alone and the police sealed the apartment. This b!tch of a cop was so rude to my DH and SIL yesterday telling them they need to go to court to get the apartment opened. She was extremely rude and all my DH and SIL did was cry. (I was there with them)
All they want is something to bury him in and some photos to put up at the wake. Has anybody dealt with the NYPD in this respect? My DH is heading to the court now in hopes of a miracle today as the wake is tomorrow.
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CouponKT
Our family is complete
Member since 6/06 16494 total posts
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K
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Re: Please help me!!!
I am not sure, but maybe they can escort you in? Good luck - so sorry!! 
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| Posted 3/7/08 8:49 AM |
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JennZ
MY LIFE!!
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Re: Please help me!!!
So sorry about your loss, but why would they seal the apt? Im sure they would escort you in.
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| Posted 3/7/08 8:54 AM |
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anonttcer
BOOOO for fall!
Member since 7/06 10082 total posts
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Meaning a NON ttcer!
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Re: Please help me!!!
Sorry to hear this.
My DH is a cop in the city too and he has never heard of this either.
The family should always be allowed in to retrieve things they need.
Sorry I have no advice....it just makes no sense../.
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| Posted 3/7/08 9:11 AM |
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sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!
Member since 10/05 20369 total posts
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Jesss, duh.
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Re: Please help me!!!
I have no experience/advice with this, but just wanted to say I'm very sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 3/7/08 9:12 AM |
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waterspout4
My loves
Member since 5/06 19150 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: Please help me!!!
Posted by BabyCote2006
I am not sure, but maybe they can escort you in? Good luck - so sorry!!
The cops that were there before the ME got there said all they needed to do was go to the precinct and another cop would escort them. When they went to the precinct yesterday they were told it doesnt work that way.
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| Posted 3/7/08 9:15 AM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!
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Kerry
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Re: Please help me!!!
I'm so sorry for your lose.
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| Posted 3/7/08 9:20 AM |
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pinkiegirl
Member since 7/07 2160 total posts
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Dana
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Re: Please help me!!!
No advice unfortunately, but I am so sorry for your loss..
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| Posted 3/7/08 10:19 AM |
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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
Member since 4/06 6005 total posts
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Chrissy
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Re: Please help me!!!
Do they suspect that it's a crime scene? That's the only reason I can think that they'd seal it off.
Otherwise, if he's in a rented apartment (without any listed family members), no one may enter the apartment w/out proving who they are.
There are vicious people out there that squat in apartments of the deceased...NYPD is protecting that.
Sorry for your loss, and I hope this is resolved quickly.
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| Posted 3/7/08 10:22 AM |
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DUCKS2001
Then there was 2
Member since 3/06 5696 total posts
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Christine
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Re: Please help me!!!
UGH I never heard of that.. why would they do that.. it is not like it was anything suspicious.. so strange. Your DH needs to get his things.. I think she was just a ******
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| Posted 3/7/08 11:17 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
Member since 2/06 24849 total posts
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Beth
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Re: Please help me!!!
I have never heard of anythng like that
but how freaking awful
hope you guys can get this resolved quickly
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| Posted 3/7/08 11:22 AM |
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PotofLuck06
Our Baby Boy Is Here!!!
Member since 11/06 13241 total posts
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Betsy
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Re: Please help me!!!
OMG Kelly!!!!!!! I'm so sorry for your and DH's loss!!!!! If you need anything, don't hesitate to ask!
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| Posted 3/7/08 11:23 AM |
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