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How long did you wait

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Buttafli1277
LIF Adult

Member since 8/05

2638 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

How long did you wait

to tell your immediate family (parents) about your BFP? I just got my BFP today and I know your really supposed to wait about 2-3 months to start telling people. I feel that my mom will really be hurt if I wait that long. I thought it would be a nice Christmas present to tell our parents on Christmas, but what do you think?

Posted 12/23/07 9:03 PM
 
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julybaby1
LIF Infant

Member since 10/07

180 total posts

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Re: How long did you wait

Congrats on the BFP! We told immediate family right away, along with some close friends. We told everyone else right after our 12 week sonogram.

Posted 12/23/07 9:11 PM
 

ChrisDee
My Girls

Member since 11/06

9543 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: How long did you wait

I told my parents and Dh's parents right away, but I made them promise not to tell until 12 weeks.

Posted 12/23/07 9:12 PM
 

Deedlebugs
Blessed

Member since 12/05

10281 total posts

Name:
Kiki

Re: How long did you wait

Congratulations. We told everyone right away. Im horrible at keeping secrets, even my own Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/07 9:12 PM
 

BRod-Cheng
I'm going to be a big brother!

Member since 6/07

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Name:
Betty

Re: How long did you wait

We told our immediate family right away. All others were told once we reached week 12.

Posted 12/23/07 10:09 PM
 

nicrae
He's here!

Member since 12/06

9289 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: How long did you wait

I basically handed my mom the test when she came over that day! I only waited to tell work not my family or friends.

Posted 12/23/07 10:16 PM
 

mooshyboo
So Blessed!

Member since 11/07

6297 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: How long did you wait

Immediate Family right away...Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/07 7:30 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

Member since 10/05

20369 total posts

Name:
Jesss, duh.

Re: How long did you wait

Congrats!

We told our families (parents and siblings) together at a dinner at our house 1 week after BFP. We told everyone else after 12weeks.

Posted 12/24/07 7:38 AM
 

tabrtm
LIF Adult

Member since 10/06

1314 total posts

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Re: How long did you wait

I waited, but I don't think I should have. I waited 8 weeks to tell my family.

Posted 12/24/07 7:44 AM
 

sasha96
lovin' my 2 little ladies!

Member since 5/05

7401 total posts

Name:
Julianne

Re: How long did you wait

We waited to tell the parents until 7 weeks, when I had a second sonogram and saw things were fine. Based on our experiences TTC, I needed to do that.

Posted 12/24/07 7:47 AM
 

JenandMikey
life is good =)

Member since 5/07

4216 total posts

Name:
We're so blessed!

Re: How long did you wait

i told my mom as i was still on the toilet cryingChat Icon really!Chat Icon and dh told his mom that day too BUT we told them to not tell ANYONE ELSE not even our siblings eventhough i want to tell my brother so bad and dh wants to tell his sisters we are still going to wait.....its hard with the holidays and everything especially when u drink like meChat Icon no wine at christmas eve dinner for me this yrChat Icon or drinking like a fish for new years eve!Chat Icon oh well this is sooooooooooooo much better than that anyway.....good luck if u tell ur family, they are going to be soooooooooooo happy....exciting!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/07 8:05 AM
 

DeniseMarie
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Member since 8/07

10682 total posts

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Re: How long did you wait

I told everyone right away. I cant keep someone like that a secret. besides if GOD FORBID something were to happen , I would go to all my friends/family for support anyway.

Posted 12/24/07 8:34 AM
 

KristinasMama
How did she turn 2 so quickly?

Member since 10/07

8257 total posts

Name:
Blessed Mama of Kristina Elena

Re: How long did you wait

we told everyone right at the 12 week mark.... that includes the immediate family. Brian was such a nervous nelly in the beginning....

Posted 12/24/07 8:36 AM
 

jennyb
Expecting #3 in Sept!

Member since 8/07

2174 total posts

Name:
Jen LIW: jenafee

Re: How long did you wait

We told our parents immediately, well that day we found out. Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/07 8:56 AM
 

mtnmama

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Message edited 9/17/2009 1:36:22 PM.

Posted 12/24/07 9:14 AM
 

justhappy
LIF Toddler

Member since 7/07

452 total posts

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Re: How long did you wait

Well we did not tell our families yet. I will be 3 months on wednesday and we're telling everyone for christmas!

The reason we did not tell our families is because they cannot keep a secret! And we did not want anyone to know until the 3 month mark, so since they can't keep a secret... they weren't let in on the secret! Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/07 9:20 AM
 

beaviss80
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Member since 8/06

1552 total posts

Name:
michelle

Re: How long did you wait

congrats... we told our family right away, everyone else at 9 weeks

Posted 12/24/07 12:57 PM
 

NewlyMrs
Laugh-Live-Love LIFE!

Member since 10/06

14432 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: How long did you wait

About 1-2 weeks. We were waiting for the dr confirmation and first sonogram.

Posted 12/24/07 1:10 PM
 

LJSMommy
Love him!

Member since 10/07

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Re: How long did you wait

Posted by ChrisDee

I told my parents and Dh's parents right away, but I made them promise not to tell until 12 weeks.




This would have been my plan except I knew better about my Mom.

I waited until was almost 10 weeks because I knew she would blab even if I asked her not too. And true to what I thought, she didChat Icon


If your parents are trustworthy, tell them for Christmas!!!

Posted 12/24/07 1:11 PM
 

Heather617
My Babies

Member since 5/05

2566 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: How long did you wait

We wanted to wait until 12 weeks to tell everyone but I began spotting and I was nervous so we told our parents around 7 weeks and everyone else around 12 weeks.

Posted 12/24/07 1:12 PM
 

boosh1002
We like hanging together!

Member since 5/05

5475 total posts

Name:
Mommy to twins

Re: How long did you wait

Congratulations!!! We told our parents as soon as we found out. We told our extended family at 12 weeks.

Posted 12/24/07 1:14 PM
 

dapnkap
Our 3 angels

Member since 7/07

4824 total posts

Name:
Karen

Re: How long did you wait

We told our parents after our first sonogram (8 weeks) and then we told the rest of our family and friends after 12 weeks.

Posted 12/24/07 1:15 PM
 

march08
LIF Adolescent

Member since 7/07

531 total posts

Name:
Beccas mommy

Re: How long did you wait

I had to tell everyone right away. I went out to dinner w/ a bunch of my close friends and didnt order a drink...... so they kinda guessed and I couldnt lie. lol

Posted 12/24/07 6:17 PM
 

KellyDance
Merry Christmas!

Member since 6/07

2153 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: How long did you wait

Posted by Deedlebug126

Congratulations. We told everyone right away. Im horrible at keeping secrets, even my own Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Same here! I called everyone at 6 AM when I POAS!

Posted 12/26/07 10:11 AM
 

08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.

Member since 10/07

9151 total posts

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Re: How long did you wait

YAY! Congratulations!! We waited will after the 12 week sonogram to tell everyone - family included.

Posted 12/26/07 10:20 AM
 
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