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Buttafli1277
LIF Adult

Member since 8/05 2638 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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How long did you wait
to tell your immediate family (parents) about your BFP? I just got my BFP today and I know your really supposed to wait about 2-3 months to start telling people. I feel that my mom will really be hurt if I wait that long. I thought it would be a nice Christmas present to tell our parents on Christmas, but what do you think?
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Posted 12/23/07 9:03 PM |
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julybaby1
LIF Infant
Member since 10/07 180 total posts
Name:
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Re: How long did you wait
Congrats on the BFP! We told immediate family right away, along with some close friends. We told everyone else right after our 12 week sonogram.
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Posted 12/23/07 9:11 PM |
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ChrisDee
My Girls

Member since 11/06 9543 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: How long did you wait
I told my parents and Dh's parents right away, but I made them promise not to tell until 12 weeks.
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Posted 12/23/07 9:12 PM |
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Deedlebugs
Blessed

Member since 12/05 10281 total posts
Name: Kiki
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Re: How long did you wait
Congratulations. We told everyone right away. Im horrible at keeping secrets, even my own
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Posted 12/23/07 9:12 PM |
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BRod-Cheng
I'm going to be a big brother!

Member since 6/07 1860 total posts
Name: Betty
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Re: How long did you wait
We told our immediate family right away. All others were told once we reached week 12.
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Posted 12/23/07 10:09 PM |
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nicrae
He's here!
Member since 12/06 9289 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: How long did you wait
I basically handed my mom the test when she came over that day! I only waited to tell work not my family or friends.
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Posted 12/23/07 10:16 PM |
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mooshyboo
So Blessed!

Member since 11/07 6297 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: How long did you wait
Immediate Family right away...
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Posted 12/24/07 7:30 AM |
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sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

Member since 10/05 20369 total posts
Name: Jesss, duh.
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Re: How long did you wait
Congrats!
We told our families (parents and siblings) together at a dinner at our house 1 week after BFP. We told everyone else after 12weeks.
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Posted 12/24/07 7:38 AM |
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tabrtm
LIF Adult

Member since 10/06 1314 total posts
Name:
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Re: How long did you wait
I waited, but I don't think I should have. I waited 8 weeks to tell my family.
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Posted 12/24/07 7:44 AM |
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sasha96
lovin' my 2 little ladies!

Member since 5/05 7401 total posts
Name: Julianne
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Re: How long did you wait
We waited to tell the parents until 7 weeks, when I had a second sonogram and saw things were fine. Based on our experiences TTC, I needed to do that.
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Posted 12/24/07 7:47 AM |
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JenandMikey
life is good =)
Member since 5/07 4216 total posts
Name: We're so blessed!
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Re: How long did you wait
i told my mom as i was still on the toilet crying really! and dh told his mom that day too BUT we told them to not tell ANYONE ELSE not even our siblings eventhough i want to tell my brother so bad and dh wants to tell his sisters we are still going to wait.....its hard with the holidays and everything especially when u drink like me no wine at christmas eve dinner for me this yr or drinking like a fish for new years eve! oh well this is sooooooooooooo much better than that anyway.....good luck if u tell ur family, they are going to be soooooooooooo happy....exciting!!!!!!!!
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Posted 12/24/07 8:05 AM |
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DeniseMarie
<3

Member since 8/07 10682 total posts
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Re: How long did you wait
I told everyone right away. I cant keep someone like that a secret. besides if GOD FORBID something were to happen , I would go to all my friends/family for support anyway.
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Posted 12/24/07 8:34 AM |
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KristinasMama
How did she turn 2 so quickly?

Member since 10/07 8257 total posts
Name: Blessed Mama of Kristina Elena
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Re: How long did you wait
we told everyone right at the 12 week mark.... that includes the immediate family. Brian was such a nervous nelly in the beginning....
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Posted 12/24/07 8:36 AM |
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jennyb
Expecting #3 in Sept!

Member since 8/07 2174 total posts
Name: Jen LIW: jenafee
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Re: How long did you wait
We told our parents immediately, well that day we found out.
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Posted 12/24/07 8:56 AM |
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mtnmama
Member since 5/06 4794 total posts
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Message edited 9/17/2009 1:36:22 PM.
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Posted 12/24/07 9:14 AM |
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justhappy
LIF Toddler

Member since 7/07 452 total posts
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Re: How long did you wait
Well we did not tell our families yet. I will be 3 months on wednesday and we're telling everyone for christmas!
The reason we did not tell our families is because they cannot keep a secret! And we did not want anyone to know until the 3 month mark, so since they can't keep a secret... they weren't let in on the secret!
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Posted 12/24/07 9:20 AM |
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beaviss80
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Member since 8/06 1552 total posts
Name: michelle
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Re: How long did you wait
congrats... we told our family right away, everyone else at 9 weeks
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Posted 12/24/07 12:57 PM |
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NewlyMrs
Laugh-Live-Love LIFE!

Member since 10/06 14432 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: How long did you wait
About 1-2 weeks. We were waiting for the dr confirmation and first sonogram.
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Posted 12/24/07 1:10 PM |
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LJSMommy
Love him!
Member since 10/07 3189 total posts
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Re: How long did you wait
Posted by ChrisDee
I told my parents and Dh's parents right away, but I made them promise not to tell until 12 weeks.
This would have been my plan except I knew better about my Mom.
I waited until was almost 10 weeks because I knew she would blab even if I asked her not too. And true to what I thought, she did
If your parents are trustworthy, tell them for Christmas!!!
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Posted 12/24/07 1:11 PM |
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Heather617
My Babies

Member since 5/05 2566 total posts
Name: Heather
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Re: How long did you wait
We wanted to wait until 12 weeks to tell everyone but I began spotting and I was nervous so we told our parents around 7 weeks and everyone else around 12 weeks.
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Posted 12/24/07 1:12 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!

Member since 5/05 5475 total posts
Name: Mommy to twins
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Re: How long did you wait
Congratulations!!! We told our parents as soon as we found out. We told our extended family at 12 weeks.
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Posted 12/24/07 1:14 PM |
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dapnkap
Our 3 angels

Member since 7/07 4824 total posts
Name: Karen
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Re: How long did you wait
We told our parents after our first sonogram (8 weeks) and then we told the rest of our family and friends after 12 weeks.
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Posted 12/24/07 1:15 PM |
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march08
LIF Adolescent

Member since 7/07 531 total posts
Name: Beccas mommy
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Re: How long did you wait
I had to tell everyone right away. I went out to dinner w/ a bunch of my close friends and didnt order a drink...... so they kinda guessed and I couldnt lie. lol
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Posted 12/24/07 6:17 PM |
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KellyDance
Merry Christmas!

Member since 6/07 2153 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: How long did you wait
Posted by Deedlebug126
Congratulations. We told everyone right away. Im horrible at keeping secrets, even my own
Same here! I called everyone at 6 AM when I POAS!
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Posted 12/26/07 10:11 AM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.

Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
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Re: How long did you wait
YAY! Congratulations!! We waited will after the 12 week sonogram to tell everyone - family included.
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Posted 12/26/07 10:20 AM |
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