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hailiesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/07 527 total posts
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Crissie
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Forgive a Cheater?
Forgive a Cheater?
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Posted 5/31/07 5:25 PM  |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
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Tania
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
it depends on so many factors.
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:29 PM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
So I read your other post. Your husband cheated on you with your cousin? I say that is unforgivable. Shows a serious lack of values and judgement. I hope this works out for you.
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:30 PM |
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hailiesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/07 527 total posts
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Crissie
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Thanks.... 
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:32 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
Member since 5/05 14266 total posts
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Jes
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
omg i just saw that unforgivable.
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:32 PM |
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
Member since 9/06 9947 total posts
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Anne
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Nope, I could never
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:39 PM |
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munchkinbugs
My little loves!
Member since 1/06 8093 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
No. IMO there is no reason to cheat. If you're unhappy in the relationship, then get out. Unless there is a previous arrangement, which I would not be able to handle.
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:45 PM |
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munchkinbugs
My little loves!
Member since 1/06 8093 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by melijane
So I read your other post. Your husband cheated on you with your cousin? I say that is unforgivable. Shows a serious lack of values and judgement. I hope this works out for you.
I just read it too. I'm sorry this happened to you. 
The fact that it was with a family member makes it even worse. I could never forgive that.
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:48 PM |
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Kara
Now Zagat Rated!
Member since 3/07 13217 total posts
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They call me "Tater Salad"
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by babybug631
Posted by melijane
So I read your other post. Your husband cheated on you with your cousin? I say that is unforgivable. Shows a serious lack of values and judgement. I hope this works out for you.
I just read it too. I'm sorry this happened to you.
The fact that it was with a family member makes it even worse. I could never forgive that.
Good luck to you. That would be unforgivable to me - especially if we had a child.
But only you will know in your heart what is right for you. Do you have someone to talk to? I think that may help you a lot.
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:53 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
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MrsERod™®
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by babybug631
Posted by melijane
So I read your other post. Your husband cheated on you with your cousin? I say that is unforgivable. Shows a serious lack of values and judgement. I hope this works out for you.
I just read it too. I'm sorry this happened to you.
The fact that it was with a family member makes it even worse. I could never forgive that.
totally agree! i'm so sorry you're going through this.
i give you credit for reaching out and trying to make sense of this craziness. me personally, I'd be too busy throwing all his sh1t out onto the front lawn.
i hope everything works out for you and your little princess!
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| Posted 5/31/07 5:57 PM |
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Boobobunny
Live in the Present
Member since 5/05 3572 total posts
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Dannielle
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
I could never forgive a cheater, because I could never forget something like that...and the hurt that it caused.
The thought of him doing it again would always linger in my mind...and if I can't trust someone, I can't have a relationship with them.
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| Posted 5/31/07 6:01 PM |
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marso
LIF Infant
Member since 4/07 104 total posts
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
first of all here is a huge hug. I agree with whomever said perhaps you should to talk to someone. No matter what anyones opinion is, you have to live with whatever you decide. Nobody else.
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| Posted 5/31/07 6:32 PM |
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cj7305
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
It is difficult, but I could never take back a cheating spouse. I was cheated on in the past, felt like I HAD to give it another try (first love, together for over 3 yrs.) but it just wasn't the same. I was turning into a jealous, untrusting person, which is NOT who I am. I had to end it. Sorry you have to deal with this
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| Posted 5/31/07 6:33 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
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Properly perfect™
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
I am sorry you are going through this...if I was in the situation....no I wouldn't forgive
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| Posted 5/31/07 7:03 PM |
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mommy2Alex
3 babies for me :)
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
I agree I honestly don't know what I would do if I was in your situation.
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| Posted 5/31/07 7:07 PM |
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nov04libride
big brother <3
Member since 5/05 14672 total posts
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Me
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by cj7305
It is difficult, but I could never take back a cheating spouse. I was cheated on in the past, felt like I HAD to give it another try (first love, together for over 3 yrs.) but it just wasn't the same. I was turning into a jealous, untrusting person, which is NOT who I am. I had to end it. Sorry you have to deal with this
ITA. It would turn me into someone who I don't want to be--a jealous person who couldn't trust him.
WHat are you doing about your cousin? That is horrible too. Ugh, I can't imagine what you are going through.
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| Posted 5/31/07 7:10 PM |
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MrsSchwags
Soccer Baseball Lax Mom
Member since 10/05 11240 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
i could never. there would never be any trust.
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| Posted 5/31/07 7:11 PM |
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hailiesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/07 527 total posts
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Crissie
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Well i did throw him out, but im working on forgiveness....
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:09 PM |
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hailiesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/07 527 total posts
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Crissie
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Someone asked what am i doing about my cousin... She is dead to me, she was more like a sister... im over her. and him, for the sake of my daughter, and the 10 yrs. we've been together... and everything we've been thru together.... im working on forgiving... we'll see how it goes. thank you all for your words, and support, it feels good to c that people care!
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:12 PM |
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nov04libride
big brother <3
Member since 5/05 14672 total posts
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Me
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by hailiesmom
Someone asked what am i doing about my cousin... She is dead to me, she was more like a sister... im over her. and him, for the sake of my daughter, and the 10 yrs. we've been together... and everything we've been thru together.... im working on forgiving... we'll see how it goes. thank you all for your words, and support, it feels good to c that people care!
I think it is easier to say what we would do, never having been in that position. to you for making a tough decision, whatever you decide.
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:16 PM |
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hailiesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/07 527 total posts
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Crissie
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Thanks... your right, before this, i'd easily of said, c ya... now, its different.
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:21 PM |
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Shanti
True love
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
I am so sorry that you are dealing with this
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:22 PM |
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beautyq115
New Year!
Member since 5/05 13729 total posts
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Me
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
I really don't think I could...I would be so hurt...but I am not in that situation
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:24 PM |
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beautyq115
New Year!
Member since 5/05 13729 total posts
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Me
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by hailiesmom
Someone asked what am i doing about my cousin... She is dead to me, she was more like a sister... im over her. and him, for the sake of my daughter, and the 10 yrs. we've been together... and everything we've been thru together.... im working on forgiving... we'll see how it goes. thank you all for your words, and support, it feels good to c that people care!
Wow....what a horrible thing to go through! I am so sorry!
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| Posted 5/31/07 8:25 PM |
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bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??
Member since 6/05 15758 total posts
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Gail
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Re: Forgive a Cheater?
i'm sorry you're going through this. what did they say when u confronted them
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