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Tany
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Tania
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do you think the way you define yourself
is different from what others see you or define you as?
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Posted 9/28/06 4:48 PM  |
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Redhead
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Jennifer
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Re: do you think the way you define yourself
Posted by Aliasmom
is different from what others see you or define you as?
probably a little different..
but close
i think that i judge myself harder than the people in my life..
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| Posted 9/28/06 4:51 PM |
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Eva Luna
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God, bless & heal my DH, JenG's DH Rob & DebG
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Re: do you think the way you define yourself
Yes. My family, no, they know me.
Outsiders, yes, how could they know that I read everything to a fault?  
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| Posted 9/28/06 4:51 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: do you think the way you define yourself
Posted by Redhead
Posted by Aliasmom
is different from what others see you or define you as?
probably a little different..
but close
i think that i judge myself harder than the people in my life..
I think I'm actually the opposite, people in my life are more judgemental.
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| Posted 9/28/06 4:52 PM |
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MrsPorkChop
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Missy
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Re: do you think the way you define yourself
not at all.
i think the people that know me well will agree and have agreed with my perception.
my husbands opinion of me is how i define myself actually
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| Posted 9/28/06 4:53 PM |
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domsmom52704
Family is everything!!!
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Jess
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Re: do you think the way you define yourself
I don't think I fall into a defining catergory. I despise stereotypes because most of the time there is so much more to a person than their outer appearance. I don't judge others and don't appreciate being judged or labeled.
Unfortunately for me it is something I deal with on a regular basis because of my tattoos and piercings. The funny thing is that I may have a full sleeve and several other pieces in addition to a nose and labret piercing. However, depending on my mood I dress punky, preppy, classic, or trendy. I shop at Banana Republic and JCrew. I love designer bags, shoes and sunglasses. I love to cook, spend time at home, as well as go out and one of my favorite pastimes is reading. I listen to Heavy metal and hard rock the most but I also listen to R&B, Country, Pop, House, even Classical and Jazz.
Yes, I shop at goth/punk/urban stores a lot but I also shop at high-end ones.I might look one way and I may have huge fake boobs and a "tramp stamp" but I am intelligent, educated and completely the opposite than what they think.
So technically, by looking at me you would think I am a harcore punk chick but I'm really so much more. I am me...classifications and stereotypes aside. I think of myself as multi-faceted.
So yes....I am ENTIRELY different than what many may define me as...truth is I am undefinable and if their shallow superficial judgement is what they base their opinions on then let their own ignorance hold them back. I could care less!
Message edited 9/28/2006 5:08:21 PM.
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