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Yes 46 62.16%
No 28 37.84%
 

Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

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bella321
Blessed!

Member since 3/09

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Name:
Kristy

Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I've been looking at shower invites online for my own shower. A lot of the samples have a list saying "Registered at ..."

Is it tacky to mention where you are registered on the actual invitiation ? I always thought there should be a seperate note enclosed or that we're suppose to rely on family to spread the word during the RSVP?

Please give me your thoughts.Chat Icon

Posted 12/21/09 7:21 PM
 

babydreams
YUMMM

Member since 5/06

1687 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I think with how common registries are nowadays it is fine to put it on the invitation. I really don't see much of a difference with putting it on the invitation versus putting in a separate card.

Posted 12/21/09 7:23 PM
 

mommyago
♥ Lucas and Layla

Member since 8/08

2979 total posts

Name:
Jenise

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

Posted by babydreams

I think with how common registries are nowadays it is fine to put it on the invitation. I really don't see much of a difference with putting it on the invitation versus putting in a separate card.



i agree

Posted 12/21/09 7:28 PM
 

maymama
my little loves

Member since 8/08

18453 total posts

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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

its standard i think and helpful for guests Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/21/09 7:36 PM
 

kt718
LIF Infant

Member since 8/09

130 total posts

Name:
Katie

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

Whoops, I just voted "no" because I thought I was saying no, it doesn't matter...but what I meant to say was yes - do it!

Posted 12/21/09 7:38 PM
 

twopinklines
LIF Infant

Member since 11/09

86 total posts

Name:

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I think it's fine for showers, where the purpose is to shower the mom/bride with gifts for her new baby/home. It's helpful for guests.

I don't like it on wedding invitations though.

Posted 12/21/09 7:55 PM
 

Raffy1212
LIF Infant

Member since 5/09

318 total posts

Name:

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

Do it...people expect it. Use a sweeter way to say it, like "wishes for our little one are registered at..."

Posted 12/21/09 7:58 PM
 

LoveyQ
Stalkers, get a life.

Member since 11/07

12820 total posts

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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I've never seen a baby shower invitation that DOESN'T say "Registered at..."

Unlike a wedding, a baby shower is specifically meant for showering the new mom/parents with items for their baby.

And I also think it's easier to just put it on the actual invite, the small inserts can get lost or misplaced, but usually people will keep the invite until the date of the shower.

Posted 12/21/09 8:08 PM
 

PeasandCarrots

Member since 5/07

9579 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I agree the purpose of a wedding/baby shower is the gifts. I mean come on it's the truth Chat Icon NOTHING is more frustrating then getting an invitation to a shower and having to track somebody down to find out where they are registered at. I also agree on a wedding invite it is tacky and has no place, but that is another threadChat Icon

Posted 12/22/09 1:05 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

My mom did it on my shower invites-I think it is very helpful to know where people are registered. So I like seeing that on a shower invite personally!

Posted 12/22/09 5:08 AM
 

jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 11/08

7769 total posts

Name:
Jenna

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

Posted by Jenise

Posted by babydreams

I think with how common registries are nowadays it is fine to put it on the invitation. I really don't see much of a difference with putting it on the invitation versus putting in a separate card.



i agree



ITA and it helps the guests out. DH's friends wife had a baby shower last year and didn't even mention where she was registered so i had to search all the stores online to figure it out which was a pain in the a$$ Chat Icon

Posted 12/22/09 7:35 AM
 

Sunday
In love with a boy named Luca

Member since 6/09

1799 total posts

Name:
`

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I actually haven't seen it on invites. There are those little registry cards that the store gives u when u register and u stuff it in the envelope w/ the invite. At least that's what I always see with my fam and friends. Both means to the same end though, lol.

Posted 12/22/09 3:16 PM
 

nycgirl
Angels!

Member since 3/09

7721 total posts

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Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I really don't think it matters. I get them both ways... to me: I get nervous to lose all the little bits of paper when they are seperate.

Posted 12/22/09 4:41 PM
 

MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....

Member since 12/09

8306 total posts

Name:
Kerri

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

No not too tacky I don't think.

For a wedding invite then YES but baby shower no not so much.

Posted 12/22/09 4:46 PM
 

JoJo2010
Happy Family

Member since 8/09

6266 total posts

Name:
JO

Re: Baby Shower Etiquette (Please Vote!)

I think it is very helpful for everyone to put it on there!

Posted 12/22/09 4:55 PM
 
 

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