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EmiNoa628
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Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Now that we are married and enjoying the MARRIED life (like I am!! Chat Icon Chat Icon ) ..

Are you thinking of reproducing anytime soon!?

... I want to enjoy being a newlywed.. There has been heavy baby talk in our household.. But something is holding us back Chat Icon ....

I will love to start a family soon but lets see what happens... babydust:

Posted 8/19/09 9:19 AM
 

misswitty
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Janet

Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

I was hoping someone else would post about this! I'm in the same boat... I know I want to have a baby, but not sure if I'm ready to give up my current lifestyle. I am 31, and was just married July 3rd. I don't want to wait too long, but I want to enjoy being married. Everyone says to wait a year, and I tend to agree, but DH is like,
"If it happens, it happens!" (He wouldn't be upset if we got pregnant, but I think I would cry...) Is there ever really a "good" time to have a baby, anyway? Sorry, I'm of no help - this was more of a stream-of-consciousness reply! Chat Icon

Posted 8/19/09 10:28 AM
 

EmiNoa628
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

OMG... We are on the same boat!! I'm sure we are not the only ones.. Its a little weird. I love my life now.. Its AWESOME!! Being married has just made everything much better and my DH is very supportive with every decision I make.. He saids "If it happens it happens!".. Thats no help.. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/19/09 2:11 PM
 

Mrs007
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Im in the same boat. I keep on telling DH that I am "itchy" and not to "scratch" me! (referring to the baby itch) ha ha. I just want to enjoy this time with him but I keep on getting itchy!! Thank God I am on the pill!

Posted 8/19/09 6:13 PM
 

MamaB17
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

We are not being careful anymore. If it doesn't happen in six months or so I am going to temp and use opk's. We are both 25 this fall so we do have time, but we don't want to wait. DH & I have been together for 5 years, and have lived together for 4. We were married in January. We figure there is never going to be a time where we feel 100% ready for a Chat Icon I am very excited/nervous at the same time.
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Posted 8/19/09 9:49 PM
 

MRnMRSNurse
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

We are not TTC! Im very young, 23 (almost 24) DH is 26. We want to travel and enjoy our fun lifestyle. I think we'll stop being careful in about 4 more years.

Posted 8/20/09 1:10 PM
 

Sunday
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

We got married June 6th and the Dr. believes we conceived around the 10th while on our HM. We are very excited. We've been living together for a few years already and I think that makes a big difference... I mean technically it's like we have been married this whole time.

Posted 8/21/09 4:18 PM
 

Melmel821
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

We will be married a year on Oct. I just turned 26. We're in no rush. Right now we have paid off our cc debt and have been saving money. We also need to move into a bigger place first. Maybe in a year we will start trying.

Posted 8/22/09 9:48 AM
 

MrsList
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

We got married in April and we're already knocked up - 8 weeks! We started trying right away because DH is 33 and I'm 29 and we want more than 1 so we wanted to get this party started.

Posted 8/23/09 10:07 PM
 

EmiNoa628
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Posted by MrsList

We got married in April and we're already knocked up - 8 weeks! We started trying right away because DH is 33 and I'm 29 and we want more than 1 so we wanted to get this party started.



I love the way you wrote this.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Thats the way ppl have to do things.. 1-2-3

good luck in your pregnancy...

Posted 8/24/09 2:52 PM
 

DomesticDeeva
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

I got preggo after we got engaged..oopsie...SURPRISE! LOL..but we dated for 7.5 years, so we enjoyed that time together. I wanted a baby right away anyway lol.

Posted 8/24/09 9:04 PM
 

Ma-n-Pa2008
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

i definitely have the itch, more some days than others. i have several friends with babies and who are pregnant again and DH has 2 cousins who just had babies. we said we would wait 2 years of being married before having a baby, but that doesn't mean we can't try!

We will be married a year in October and have enjoyed this past year together, we never lived together before but dated for 6 years. I think we are going to start trying in the springtime and if all goes well will have a baby spring/summer 2011, after 2 years!Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/09 6:32 PM
 

xosweetiexo
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Before we got married, I said I wanted to wait a year....and now that we just got married I have gotten the baby itch!!! I want to get off the pill in 6 months.... DH is kinda on the fence because he wanted to wait a year but Im afraid it might take a while to get pregnant bc my body needs to regulate from getting off the pill.... Ive been on the pill for over 10 yrs!!

Posted 8/27/09 12:22 AM
 

heatherandrichie
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Congrats to our 2 PG brides Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/28/09 1:04 AM
 

Koci311
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Hi girls new here! Married 2 weeks!!!

I know I'm going to sound terrible saying this, but I'm not sure if I'm having a baby itch or if I'm just feeling out of sorts from not having the wedding to look forward to. so embarassing but I figured maybe I'm not alone Chat Icon

Posted 8/28/09 11:37 PM
 

getinmybelly18
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

we are TTC! Married in Jan. First cycle trying!!

Posted 8/28/09 11:38 PM
 

Melmel821
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Posted by Koci311

Hi girls new here! Married 2 weeks!!!

I know I'm going to sound terrible saying this, but I'm not sure if I'm having a baby itch or if I'm just feeling out of sorts from not having the wedding to look forward to. so embarassing but I figured maybe I'm not alone Chat Icon



I don't think it's terrible to feel that way. It's the next step isn't it? It's supposed to be and everyone asks me when! For me, I did feel that way after the wedding but even more so when friends and co-workers became pregnant. Wanting a baby would come and go.

Message edited 8/29/2009 3:35:32 PM.

Posted 8/29/09 9:29 AM
 

Melmel821
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Posted by getinmybelly18

we are TTC! Married in Jan. First cycle trying!!



Good luck.
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Posted 8/29/09 9:30 AM
 

MRnMRSNurse
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Posted by Koci311

Hi girls new here! Married 2 weeks!!!

I know I'm going to sound terrible saying this, but I'm not sure if I'm having a baby itch or if I'm just feeling out of sorts from not having the wedding to look forward to. so embarassing but I figured maybe I'm not alone Chat Icon



I feel like that. I have all these cute tank-tops that say 'bride to be' etc. Im not a bride to be anymore! Getting married was the most exciting thing i've had to look forward to but now it's done! While we have lots to look forward too nothing will ever match getting married, it truly was the happiest day of my life. I wish we could do it again & again!
I can honestly say I miss not having my wedding to look forward too. I am too young, enjoying my career, & just not ready for a baby at all.

Posted 8/29/09 2:34 PM
 

LINewbie
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

I am 33... so we need to get going Chat Icon We are starting soon... In Oct we'll have been married for a year. I'm excited but really nervous Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/29/09 3:40 PM
 

MrsBusby2009
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

We have only been married for a month and a half but we are starting to try. DH is 32 and I am 28 and we want a nice size familiy so we have our work cut out for us!! Chat Icon

Posted 8/31/09 9:10 AM
 

Dani77
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

I only just got married in April as well, and I am already 17 weeks along... talk about being in a rush huh?? LOL. We have both wanted to start a family for about 3 years now... so we waited long enough. We are both sooo excited Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/31/09 2:17 PM
 

smp123
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

we were married in May and we will start TTC in 8 months from now (possibly April?)

and we're only waiting bc DH wants a little time together while being married before the kids come! if it were up to me, i'd be pregs now!!!!

Message edited 8/31/2009 4:09:30 PM.

Posted 8/31/09 2:32 PM
 

LilE2010
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Carly

Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

I just got married in August, we said that we would wait a little while, but honestly, I don't want to. We have been together for 5 years and lived w/eachother for almost 3 years. I feel like nothing really is holding us back.

I feel like we are ready, even though we have only been married for a month Chat Icon . Although I guess I feel alittle embarrassed to even talk about trying to any family/friends, b/c I feel like they would think we are crazy for wanting that so early.

What do you ladies think?

Posted 9/2/09 11:20 PM
 

EmiNoa628
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Re: Newlyweds w/ Baby thoughts...

Posted by CAB0802

I just got married in August, we said that we would wait a little while, but honestly, I don't want to. We have been together for 5 years and lived w/eachother for almost 3 years. I feel like nothing really is holding us back.

I feel like we are ready, even though we have only been married for a month Chat Icon . Although I guess I feel alittle embarrassed to even talk about trying to any family/friends, b/c I feel like they would think we are crazy for wanting that so early.

What do you ladies think?



Honestly, same situation here.. 5 years and counting.. Family is always asking and we talk about it but not soo much.. I think we are just going to let it happen. Not strive for it.. But next year we will definitly start working on a little something.. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/3/09 11:19 AM
 
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