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MamatoBe
LIF Infant
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Love life
Anyone else find that their love life with hubby is impacted by being pg? We had a healthy love life before pg - but I find that I am so nervous that neither of us can really enjoy sex. Anyone else? DH has been super sweet about it but I feel bad. Any advice?
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Posted 8/13/09 8:53 AM  |
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twinkletoes807
Mommy's Girls! ♥
Member since 11/07 10116 total posts
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Gabi
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Re: Love life
A little bit but it's mostly because of me. DH is still the 18 year old horndog he has always been!  But even though I haven't gained as much as last pregnancy, I still feel like Orka the baby whale!  If DH had it his way we'd spend every moment together in bed. Me, not so much. 
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| Posted 8/13/09 8:57 AM |
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carissa1643
I LOVE my sons! :)
Member since 5/09 5283 total posts
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Carissa
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Re: Love life
Yeah, I dont know whats wrong it doesnt work for me right now lol. I'm hoping it gets better but in the middle of it its like I'm just not in the mood anymore.....just strange but i hate it!
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:00 AM |
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Ian&EmmesMommy23
My family is complete!
Member since 11/08 12970 total posts
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Diana
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Re: Love life
im 31 weeks and we've done it twice! last time was last week and we had to stop half way and started laughing. it was so uncomfortable for both of us. we agreed to just wait until the baby's born.
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:04 AM |
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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love
Member since 5/05 1855 total posts
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Stacy
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Re: Love life
It hurts, its uncomfortable and I have swore sex off. I feel terrible but DH knows that it is just impossible right now.
I will make a super, huge effort once I am post partum and able to really make it all up to him again. That's really all I can do for right now. Poor guy!
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:05 AM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: Love life
I'm 38 weeks & we've done it twice in the last 2 days but that is bc we are trying to speed up the labor process 
In the beginning it was not too bad, we continued on like we had before being pregnant. Once my belly started to get in the way & moving was a big issue for me, we pretty much did it every 2 weeks. Once I hit the 3rd trimester, it was almost non-existent just bc we both were very uncomfortable. But DH is a trooper & never asks. I am the one teasing him now that his wife is the one that wants to jump on him at 38w pregnant
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:08 AM |
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emomma17
All My Girls!
Member since 11/08 4392 total posts
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Mia
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Re: Love life
Posted by Kissy331
I'm 38 weeks & we've done it twice in the last 2 days but that is bc we are trying to speed up the labor process
In the beginning it was not too bad, we continued on like we had before being pregnant. Once my belly started to get in the way & moving was a big issue for me, we pretty much did it every 2 weeks. Once I hit the 3rd trimester, it was almost non-existent just bc we both were very uncomfortable. But DH is a trooper & never asks. I am the one teasing him now that his wife is the one that wants to jump on him at 38w pregnant
I am with you too, we are trying to do it more often because we are hoping it will bring on labor but at the same time before we were on this mission it was maybe 1/2 a week or 1/2 every 2 weeks, it's just not that comfortable for me and DH knows and never pushes it but I am the one who always brings it up.
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:26 AM |
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
Member since 8/08 10923 total posts
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Linda
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Re: Love life
First trimester we didn't do it AT ALL!! poor dh!! But I was tired and sick and nervous about it. In the second tri we do it once a week..TOPS!!! Im 26 weeks.
It's normal.
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:29 AM |
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Peainapod
Peanuts are here!
Member since 1/09 13591 total posts
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Diana
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Re: Love life
WE DONT HAVE ONE...
Seriously..i was so sick the first 4 months every nite that i couldnt bear the thought..
then i got better but DH was having issues down there that he went to the dr. for..thankfully all is fine..
bad timing..now im 30 weeks and i have alot of pressure down there at times and my back is a disaster..Dh is afraid to even do anything..LOL
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:36 AM |
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Jodee
I love my girls
Member since 11/08 1510 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Love life
It was ALL I wanted MOST of my pregnancy  I did however try not to make my belly blatent...
but now in the final weeks - its just uncomfortable and my belly is distracting... so it has dwindled.... 
DH has been understanding 
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| Posted 8/13/09 9:36 AM |
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mommyIam
Member since 7/09 9209 total posts
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Shana
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Re: Love life
we tried and i cramped really bad afterwards i'm scared to try again, dh agrees to wait
we are still cuddly and close though, and it helps me a lot ... he seems to be coping well
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| Posted 8/13/09 10:19 AM |
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bunintheoven09
LIF Infant
Member since 4/09 348 total posts
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Samantha
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Re: Love life
I think it got better in the beginning It has occurred much less frequently over the past few weeks, but that I think that was because of other stressors in our lives. Hoping it picks up again
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| Posted 8/13/09 11:23 AM |
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MrsPJ
Joining Team Blue with Baby #2
Member since 5/06 1155 total posts
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Tiffany
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Re: Love life
With a 2 yr old and a 3.5 yr old...our love life was very minimal to begin with.  Then when I got pg it got WORSE. Now that I am on bedrest and know that I can't do it until 6-8 weeks post pardum and I am only 29 weeks now...I want it more than ever! But I have to suck it up and deal with it. Its totally normal to "lose it" when you are PG...just make sure post preg you try and make some time for you and DH to still have romance..its hard to find the time once the kids come along!
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| Posted 8/13/09 11:38 AM |
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Re: Love life
As long as I am in a good mood, I am usually the initiator! I am a little horndog and DH loves it.
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| Posted 8/13/09 11:40 AM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
Member since 5/06 11197 total posts
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Michele
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Re: Love life
I have one word to answer this question.... NON-EXISTANT
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| Posted 8/13/09 11:51 AM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU
Member since 3/07 13921 total posts
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ETC I LOVE YOU
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Re: Love life
Going to be honest with all you awesome ladies since i got my bfp 22 weeks ago I have not had a "love" life AT ALL...
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