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I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

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missrock
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Jennifer

I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

I just want to Chat Icon all the single moms out there. I cant imagine taking care of a child by myself. Taking care of 2 (with my DH) is the hardest thing I ever had to do.

So I commend all of the women (and dads) that do it all on their own.

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Posted 7/17/09 6:36 AM
 
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Metsmomma
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Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

me too!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 8:38 AM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

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Posted 7/17/09 8:42 AM
 

organichic
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Lauren

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Absolutely!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 8:44 AM
 

JenBenMen
party of five

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Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

i agreeChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 8:51 AM
 

JP826
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Me!! All about ME!

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Seriously. Kudos to you all! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 8:56 AM
 

lulugrrl
My 3 Blessings

Member since 3/06

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L

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

OMG..I totally agree, I say this all the time to my DH, I really admire women that push through and do a great job raising their children.....

Posted 7/17/09 9:48 AM
 

Ladybug3
Two is better than one!!!

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Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Me too!!! this past week DH was sick and could not help me at all. You are all amazing!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 10:22 AM
 

FelAndJon
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Member since 6/05

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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Me too! DH works longs hours so I don't always have his help in the evenings. I know though, that when push comes to shove, he is still there and helps out when he can. I really could not imagine doing it on my own and give such props to you amazing women who do! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 10:25 AM
 

HeathKernandez
Our Ron is an awesome Ron

Member since 4/07

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baby fish mouth

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

I was a single mom for 5 years...

I had a TREMENDOUS support group and an amazing family who were always willing to help and provided DS & I with so much love.

To be honest, because of this support, I didn't find it to be so difficult raising him on my own...

Posted 7/17/09 10:37 AM
 

BeachMom
Love my 4 kiddos!

Member since 11/08

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Kristie

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Posted by HeathKernandez

I was a single mom for 5 years...

I had a TREMENDOUS support group and an amazing family who were always willing to help and provided DS & I with so much love.

To be honest, because of this support, I didn't find it to be so difficult raising him on my own...



I was the same way with my first child being a single mom.
Now that i'm married with an infant and an 8 year old I find it a little hard to let go and let my DH help sometimes.

Posted 7/17/09 10:45 AM
 

sultana
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Member since 5/09

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Name:
Bridget

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Here's to the single Mom's !! like mine was
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Posted 7/17/09 10:47 AM
 

HeathKernandez
Our Ron is an awesome Ron

Member since 4/07

9091 total posts

Name:
baby fish mouth

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Posted by BeachMom

Posted by HeathKernandez

I was a single mom for 5 years...

I had a TREMENDOUS support group and an amazing family who were always willing to help and provided DS & I with so much love.

To be honest, because of this support, I didn't find it to be so difficult raising him on my own...



I was the same way with my first child being a single mom.
Now that i'm married with an infant and an 8 year old I find it a little hard to let go and let my DH help sometimes.



omg that was such a struggle for me... I wasn't used to *sharing* him and it was hard allowing DH to step in. Even now, I have guilty feelings when I ask DH for help. DH willingly helps on his own but when I have times where I ask him to pick DS up or something unpredictable, I feel BAD about it, and I know I shouldn't

Posted 7/17/09 10:48 AM
 

BeachMom
Love my 4 kiddos!

Member since 11/08

8346 total posts

Name:
Kristie

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Posted by HeathKernandez

Posted by BeachMom

Posted by HeathKernandez

I was a single mom for 5 years...

I had a TREMENDOUS support group and an amazing family who were always willing to help and provided DS & I with so much love.

To be honest, because of this support, I didn't find it to be so difficult raising him on my own...



I was the same way with my first child being a single mom.
Now that i'm married with an infant and an 8 year old I find it a little hard to let go and let my DH help sometimes.



omg that was such a struggle for me... I wasn't used to *sharing* him and it was hard allowing DH to step in. Even now, I have guilty feelings when I ask DH for help. DH willingly helps on his own but when I have times where I ask him to pick DS up or something unpredictable, I feel BAD about it, and I know I shouldn't



ITA, when your just so used to being the only one there it's soo hard to let go and when you do, I just feel so guilty.

Posted 7/17/09 10:54 AM
 

nancy6485
So in love

Member since 10/05

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Nancy

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Posted by HeathKernandez

I had a TREMENDOUS support group and an amazing family who were always willing to help and provided DS & I with so much love.

To be honest, because of this support, I didn't find it to be so difficult raising him on my own...



Agreed! My family is AMAZING Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 4:20 PM
 

july0105
My three little miracles

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Alison

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

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Posted 7/17/09 4:22 PM
 

dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..

Member since 1/06

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Dawn

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Message edited 7/18/2009 7:37:25 AM.

Posted 7/17/09 4:27 PM
 

EmmaNick
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Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

It's nice that so many have help from their family, I wish I did! My family lives in another state and my sister who does live here works f/t. I used to have a bit more help, but that's diminished greatly in recent months. It's a hard job doing everything alone, but I think it makes you stronger. Chat Icon Chat Icon to all those dealing on their own.

Posted 7/17/09 4:38 PM
 

TryingReallyHard
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Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

I was a single mother for ten years and I received very little help during that time. When I was going to grad school I had to hire a sitter to pick my kids up from the after school daycare program. Basically they went from one sitter to the next during that time :( I remarried last year and I have a really hard time asking my DH for help. He doesn't have any bio kids of his own and I feel like I shouldn't burden him so I still do 99% of the work.

Being a single mom was the worst thing that ever happened to me. It ruined me financially. The stress literally made me sick. I was absolutely miserable for many years.

I "made" it ----I have a great career and wonderful, well-adjusted children but it was at a tremendous personal cost. I wouldn't wish single parenthood on my worst enemy.

Posted 7/17/09 8:43 PM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

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Genna

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

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Posted 7/17/09 8:44 PM
 

Janice
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Posted 7/17/09 8:46 PM
 

karacg
Babygirl is 4!

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Kara®

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

Yes, I applaud those single moms out there -- I couldn't imagine raising DD without her daddy by my side. Even if you have family to help, which I don't, it's not the same as a father....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 9:52 PM
 

betty
My boys

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Beth

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

I say this all the time, I honestly don't know how they do itChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/09 9:56 PM
 

waterspout4
My loves

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Kelly

Re: I just want to applaud all the single moms out there!!!

WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/09 1:47 AM
 
 

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