Bops
My 3 wishes
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Spin-off of sorts: Gifts & Cards...
As you all probably know by now , the BM in my situation takes the cake...Specifically with Parental Alienation amongst other horriffic things...
Anyhow, she used to buy my DH's family gifts from my SD for holidays
( mind you they were NEVER married) ...And it was never out of the goodness of her heart- It was more so, as usual to make my DH feel and look to my SD like a stranger, an outsider, incompetent , doing whatever she could to take anything she could away from their relationship...Meanwhile, my DH always took my SD shopping to buy for HIS family and the BM had no place taking that away from him...
She also used to get the memos for school pictures, never tell DH and then mail pictures of SD to HIS family, without my DH ever so much as seeing them, or given the opportunity to distribute them to who he felt should have them  We would be at my MIL's and see it on the frig' and be like  , because we had never even seen it !
Meanwhile my DH family despises her, and had assumed that my DH asked for her to mail them out...Finally after a few incidents , we finally told his family what was happening and, they all sent them back with a polite note saying "Please give these to "B" to distribute"...Whether that was right or wrong to do , I don't know , but the behavior stopped, although now she , being passive aggressive as she is tries to turn it saying "they don't want photos of their niece/grandaughter etc..." , which is SO not the case, but who the hell is she to decide who gets pics in HIS family, meanwhile never even giving my DH the chance to order them himself !
I could go on and on- so so many stories...
Just had to get that off my chest, the other post reminded me of all of that
Message edited 5/28/2009 9:54:08 PM.
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