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Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

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Re: Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

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If it were me, I think I would have insisted on my MD letting me try. Seems early to me to determine a v-birth won't work - but what do I know.



I think you have to have faith in your doctor (I am not saying all doctors, but YOUR OB) and if they are saying this, especially that early, I'd go with it.

I don't agree in letting a woman try, b/c that is how you have problems. Wouldn't you rather your doctor recommend a section for this reason rather than have an issue with DC stuck? That can cause brain damage.




I agree if she was enduring her health. I'm just saying, for me personally, if there was any sliver of hope I could go vaginally, I would prefer to try - but if I was told I was at risk, then c-section it is, of course.



Oh I understand, and I agree, but I guess I wouldn't really question my doctor if they suggested it.

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Posted 1/9/09 3:25 PM
 
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Re: Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

Posted by wannabemom

I studied human osteology way back when, and can tell you I was stunned at the variability in size and structure of the human skeleton. Getting a baby's head through a birth canal is a tight squeaze when you're tall with broad hips like me... and it most definitely is impossible for some women becuase their pelvic bones have a slightly narrower angle than others, producing a slightly narrower space for the baby to exit.

I can imagine it is fairly straight forward to measure that opening with a sonogram.... I bet there's a cut-off on what minimum size is considered safe to try a vag delivery.

While the human female is designed to give birth vaginally, one can't forget that on the evolutionary spectrum, we're a very new species, and as such, are still evolving. We're not like horseshoe crabs... around for 200 million years and almost perfectly adapted to their environment. Just 1 million years ago, our brains (and therefore our skulls) were much smaller (about 60% of what they are now)... so it's easy to see how our pelvises haven't caught up to our baby head sizes

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Posted 1/9/09 3:34 PM
 

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Re: Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

Posted by eroxgirl

Posted by wannabemom

I studied human osteology way back when, and can tell you I was stunned at the variability in size and structure of the human skeleton. Getting a baby's head through a birth canal is a tight squeaze when you're tall with broad hips like me... and it most definitely is impossible for some women becuase their pelvic bones have a slightly narrower angle than others, producing a slightly narrower space for the baby to exit.

I can imagine it is fairly straight forward to measure that opening with a sonogram.... I bet there's a cut-off on what minimum size is considered safe to try a vag delivery.

While the human female is designed to give birth vaginally, one can't forget that on the evolutionary spectrum, we're a very new species, and as such, are still evolving. We're not like horseshoe crabs... around for 200 million years and almost perfectly adapted to their environment. Just 1 million years ago, our brains (and therefore our skulls) were much smaller (about 60% of what they are now)... so it's easy to see how our pelvises haven't caught up to our baby head sizes

And on that note, I promise not to post anything else scientific for the rest of the day! I'll spare everyone from the boring long posts Chat Icon



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Posted 1/9/09 3:36 PM
 

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Re: Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

This is what I was told also and I am average sized. It was more the shape of my bones. I struggled with a decision...my dr was willing to let me try but I chose not to try. After my section he told me her head was stuck and that it "never would've happened". I was OK wqith my decision after the fact.

Posted 1/9/09 3:37 PM
 

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Re: Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

Posted by maybebaby
and csections are life saving wonderful procedures, but shoudln't a doctor let a woman labor naturally for a while (being that its her first baby) before jumping to that conclusion? Thoughts?
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this is exactly what my doctor did, they told me going in that they THOGHT I would need a c for a variety of reasons but I wanted to TRY to labor on my own...after 5 hours on pitocin with ZERO progress, and my dd's heart rate dropping and coming back up, we went with the c...but I agree that women should try to labor and deliver on their own if the baby is not at risk

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Posted 1/9/09 8:06 PM
 

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Re: Pelvis too small to deliver vaginally?? (RE: DH's cousin)

I agree that I woman should try and labor naturally if not at any risk. That is what I did and because of "failure to progress" I ended up with a c/s.

Now, just because I had FTP does NOT mean my pelvis was too small or that DS was too big (he WAS big, though). It all depends on the strength of contractions, how much stress DC is in, and many things. I ended up with a c/s because DS's heartrate kept dropping after 8 hours of being at 6 cm. So, he was pretty tired and I just couldn't contract strong enough for him to come out. Had nothing to do with my pelvis. Plus, he was "sunny side up" so it was all back labor and it is more difficult for babies when they are facing that direction than backward, like they should be.

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