Yeah, I could have written your post.

I make WAY too many excuses for my husband.

I thought this article summed it up well for me.


Woman's grocery list for husband goes viral and sparks conversation about men's 'strategic incompetence'
"Strategic incompetence" is a tactic of resistance where men pretend they are unable to perform certain tasks so women will do them instead.


Read in USA TODAY: https://apple.news/A8jTn3qudS3299YF6sysh3g