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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
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IVF Round 2 - BFN
The RE nurse called and informed me that our results were BFN. I also asked about the frozen embryo quality and those are CC, which makes me think it is not even worth doing a FET. I will be speaking with the RE at some point this week to determine what our next course of action should be. I was so optimistic this cycle too, which makes it even worse...
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
 im so sorry!
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| Posted 8/1/12 2:04 PM |
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IVF Round 2 - BFN
I am very sorry.
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| Posted 8/1/12 2:31 PM |
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I am so so sorry! I know how that feels - you will get through this. We are here for you!
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:06 PM |
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LoveLee2009
LIF Infant
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
i am so sorry!
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:07 PM |
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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
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IVF Round 2 - BFN
Thanks Ladies.
Apparently the RE can not see me until next Friday (8/10). Not going to lie - I am kinda pissed. Sometimes this place feels like a factory. All monitoring appointments are done by nurses. The only time you see a RE is for ER and ET and somehow it takes 9 days for a post-cycle appointment. By that point, I will be past CD 3!
By me, there is only one other fertility clinic, I may look into that one...
Message edited 8/1/2012 3:19:55 PM.
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:18 PM |
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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
Omg I am so sorry... I was really hoping that you would get good news!!! Which RE do you see? Can you see anyone else other than your RE? My heart really breaks for you I hope you can see someone soon
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:25 PM |
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NYCGirl80
I love my kiddies!
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I'm so sorry
You have FM too.
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:35 PM |
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MrsM429
Mama x2 <3
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:36 PM |
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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
Posted by PitterPatter11
Thanks Ladies.
Apparently the RE can not see me until next Friday (8/10). Not going to lie - I am kinda pissed. Sometimes this place feels like a factory. All monitoring appointments are done by nurses. The only time you see a RE is for ER and ET and somehow it takes 9 days for a post-cycle appointment. By that point, I will be past CD 3!
By me, there is only one other fertility clinic, I may look into that one...
I'm so sorry I have never given any clinic more than one shot at fresh IVF with me because I always wanted a new perspective. Each doctor has had a really different take on diagnosis/treatment, etc. Sometimes it's worth it to travel if they're offering something no one else can. Shop around and try again with someone who feels right.
But don't give up hope. I was in the office this morning with a girl who had done 4 fresh and 4 FET cycles. That last fresh cycle (when she changed to Cornell) got her the 8 m/o peanut she was in the office with today  
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:51 PM |
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lulugrrl
My 3 Blessings
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I am so sorry, I would look into the other clinic, I liked seeing my Dr. every visit. The only time I did not see him was beta bloodwork day...I think LOTS of communication is helpful through these hard times.
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| Posted 8/1/12 4:09 PM |
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JulieLO
LIF Adolescent
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IVF Round 2 - BFN
Im so sorry :( I really hoped you were going to get good news....
I would just call on day 3 and tell them you need to come in for Day 3 Blood/sono (the desk girls doesnt know)...make the appointment and be aggressive. I see a RE EVERY visit I go, just ask to see a Dr. you have every right to and they get paid for a visit...and dont get caught up on the grade of the embryo that is frozen...only blasts get graded (at my RE) and regardless of the grading all can potentially make a baby. The grading is subjective and different embryologists may grade differently...FET work too!!! I know several people who only got pregnant on FET's Dont give up on your RE...Establish the expectation you have (with the doctor) and see if he can put you on a plan that you want to do...if he says to wait until AF then do a FET and you dont want to...get another opinion.
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| Posted 8/1/12 6:22 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 8/1/12 6:33 PM |
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mich
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I'm sorry. Hang in there!
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| Posted 8/1/12 7:11 PM |
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babyfever24
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I'm sorry to hear this
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| Posted 8/1/12 7:15 PM |
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TyReseGreen
Lil Prince is here
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
I am so sorry, but I am sure you will see a BFP soon !
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| Posted 8/1/12 7:19 PM |
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KMCGK
Gotta have faith
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
Like JulieLO said, ask to see a Dr every single appointment.
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| Posted 8/1/12 7:51 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
i am so so sorry
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| Posted 8/1/12 10:09 PM |
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shazza211
My life is complete
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Sharon
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
So sorry!!
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| Posted 8/1/12 10:10 PM |
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keepingsecrets
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Re: IVF Round 2 - BFN
i'm so sorry
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