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In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

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LadyMaravilla
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In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

For teens to have Sex? Being that teens nowadays seem to be having sex younger & younger....how do you feel about this age wise?

Posted 11/30/05 12:13 PM
 
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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

my own opinion? I think 17 or older. I think anyone younger than that really doesn't have the maturity to deal with the feelings, emotions or consequences that go along with sex.

Message edited 11/30/2005 12:16:14 PM.

Posted 11/30/05 12:16 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I think it is different for everyone, people mature differently and some are ready and in healthy realtionships at a younger age. But, I would say they should wait at least until they are out of high school. I don't think most kids in high school or younger are equipped financially or emotionally to deal with an unplanned pregnancy or STDs.

Posted 11/30/05 12:16 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I'm not sure I could say one blanket age.

I think it depends on the maturity level of each individual.

I know some 30 year olds who I don't think should have sex!!

Posted 11/30/05 12:16 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Didn't have sex as a teen and don't see why others couldn't do the same.

Posted 11/30/05 12:17 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

18

ETA: I still think that is young but at least they are considered an "adult" and hopefully out of high school and a little more mature...

Message edited 11/30/2005 12:47:58 PM.

Posted 11/30/05 12:18 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Posted by -Laurie-

Didn't have sex as a teen and don't see why others couldn't do the same.



Ditto - I don't think there is a "right" age for TEENS to have sex.

Posted 11/30/05 12:18 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

hard to say. i first had sex at 18. should i have waited? maybe, but i can't change it now.

Posted 11/30/05 12:21 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

IMO- I should have waited till at least 18.

Posted 11/30/05 12:22 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Posted by LadyLainez

IMO- I should have waited till at least 18.



Me to I was way to young to deal with the emotinal part of ...AND the risk factor (even though I didn't )

Posted 11/30/05 12:30 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I think teens should wait until they are out of high school.

Posted 11/30/05 12:30 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

When they are an adult.
And that is a different age for each person
so this is tooo hard to answer numerically

Posted 11/30/05 12:38 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Posted by leighla

I'm not sure I could say one blanket age.

I think it depends on the maturity level of each individual.

I know some 30 year olds who I don't think should have sex!!




I agree with that 100%. I wish I could get power of attorney over some of my friend's love life & I'd gladly give over mine to them.

Posted 11/30/05 12:41 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Totally depends on the individual.


no an average i would say 17 Up

Posted 11/30/05 1:00 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

cant answer that totally depends on the individual. i was 19, 2 months shy of 20, do i regret it? absolutely not... would i do it again in the same order of course.
just depends on the individual.

Posted 11/30/05 1:02 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I have no right to say how old someone should be. My first time I was 16 and it was with my now husband and I dont regret it. Mike and I broke up for 2 months and even then I didnt regret it

Posted 11/30/05 1:06 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I think I'd want my own kids ( if I had any) to wait at least untill they were out of high school.

Posted 11/30/05 1:11 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Now that I have a daughter, I'd say 30!

Seriously, I guess I would agree with those who said after high school. I teach high school in an all-girls school and while I know many of them are mature and responsible, too many of them are moms at such a young age and that's not a risk I would want my daughter (or students!) taking.

Posted 11/30/05 1:11 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I was pretty young the first time I had sex and I don't think there is one age specific for all teens. Although I feel I was way too young, and in some ways I regret it and others I don't, I think that 17 isn't TOO TOO young...all depends on the individual, some teens are more mature and responsible than others and are emotionally ready, while others are not.

Posted 11/30/05 1:11 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Posted by unbelievable

Posted by LadyLainez

IMO- I should have waited till at least 18.



Me to I was way to young to deal with the emotinal part of ...AND the risk factor (even though I didn't )



Same here

Posted 11/30/05 1:17 PM
 

ChristineR
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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

DH and I waited until marriage so I'm not sure I would have an answer for this. I can't believe how young the age is getting for teens to have sex now a days. There really isn't a "right" age so I'm unsure. Chat Icon

Posted 11/30/05 1:53 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I think its different for everyone. Its purely based on the individual. I first had sex at a very young age. Do I regret it? No. It allowed me to make a lot of important decisions/choices later in life the right way.

Posted 11/30/05 1:56 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I would say when there old enough to be a parent....

I was young.....and there is just way too much emotion attached to having sex.....

I wish I wouldve wait til marriage..... not just for religious reasons.... but I think its sooo cool, and I commend those who were able to accomplish it!!!

I hope my son waits... but if he dosent (and he prob wont) I just ask that he is ready to handle all the emotions and possible resposibilites that come with having sex!

Posted 11/30/05 2:13 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

Posted by MrsJ

18

ETA: I still think that is young but at least they are considered an "adult" and hopefully out of high school and a little more mature...




Agree

Posted 11/30/05 2:24 PM
 

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Re: In YOUR Opinion What Is The Right Age....

I would say 18 or 19, minimum. I'm going to teach my children abstinence when the time comes, and I know it worked for me until I was really emotionally ready enough to handle the responsibility and feelings attached. I think people take sex too lightly, but in my group of friends growing up none of us had sex in high school. We all had boyfriends, and went out and had fun, but it was just something I knew well enough to know I didn't want to do until I was ready.

Message edited 11/30/2005 3:48:09 PM.

Posted 11/30/05 3:41 PM
 
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