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nancygrace
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If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Its it true that u stretch out down there and the deed doesnt feel the same afterward?
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ckone
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I have no problem. It's all good down there. Do your kiegle exercises.
Message edited 1/2/2007 8:20:28 PM.
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ABCiverson
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
It feels the same to me. We did "it' 11 days after DD and it felt the same as always. My DH even said it felt "tighter" They cut me while I had my son and we waited 3 months to do "it" after I had him and it felt completely normal!
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| Posted 1/2/07 8:23 PM |
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JoCaCoLa
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I have only had one child so far. But, from my experience, it's pretty much the same.
I'd agree....do your kegels!
ETA: I tore in 5 places, well three and then one split if that makes sense. I guess my Doc sewed me up good!! 
Message edited 1/2/2007 8:30:24 PM.
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nymommy2be
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
i didnt tear or have an episiotomy, but i feel the same and dh said that it the same, maybe even tighter too
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| Posted 1/2/07 8:26 PM |
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Charly
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I had a bad tear so I can't answer you yet...have my 6 week check up next week!!
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| Posted 1/2/07 8:28 PM |
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Faithx2
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Posted by nymommy2be
i didnt tear or have an episiotomy, but i feel the same and dh said that it the same, maybe even tighter too
same here
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| Posted 1/2/07 8:33 PM |
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btrflygrl
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
pssshhhtttt.....NOT A CHANCE.
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hazeleyes33
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I remember the "1st time" after having our 1st child and I felt nothing-
After awhile though-it was back to normal.
We have 2 kids now and no problems at all.
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CHRISTINEL
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Yes I am feeling alittle different, and I also think it is loose.
What can we do ?
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CunningOne
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Nope, feels the same. I tore a little and once I felt healed, all was good.
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hazeleyes33
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Posted by CHRISTINEL
Yes I am feeling alittle different, and I also think it is loose.
What can we do ?
I would say give it time.
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| Posted 1/2/07 8:49 PM |
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I didnt do keegles and it seems to feel teh same to me. I also waited 11 weeks pp to do the deed again because I was so nervous so nothing was swollen anymore.
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Adri
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Posted by nymommy2be
i didnt tear or have an episiotomy, but i feel the same and dh said that it the same, maybe even tighter too
Ditto
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
nope. Do your kegals and you'll be fine.
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wowcoulditbe
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
i didn't do kegels really but its just fine, despite a 2nd degree tear!
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CheeChee
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I had an episiotomy and for some reason I feel like its TIGHTER than EVER!! Seriously, sometimes it hurts like I am virgin again..ahhh the good ol days!!
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maybebaby
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I have to be honest....the first time we DTD after having DS was weird..i didn't feel much and thought i would never feel the same..i got very upset and self conscious. Like Jenny McCarthy stated "throwing a hot dog down a hallway, lol!!".
However, after doing kegels for 2 weeks it was MUCH better and now, at 4 months post partum i feel exactly the same. It takes time for everything to return to normal...in my case anyway and i think a lot of women experience this. And i tore and was stitched a little but that didn't help..its the muscle itself, not the skin that is stitched if that makes any sense!!
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monkeybride
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Not true at all for me.
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LisaI
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
opposite here. Actually better. I always heard it would be better.
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JTK
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
i've had 3 vag deliveries and it's all good!
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Disneygirl
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Posted by CheeChee
I had an episiotomy and for some reason I feel like its TIGHTER than EVER!! Seriously, sometimes it hurts like I am virgin again..ahhh the good ol days!!
OMG me too! I think after my episiotomy they stitched me too tight. I felt revirginized the first few times we did the deed afterwards.
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nrthshgrl
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
Posted by chmlengr
Nope, feels the same. I tore a little and once I felt healed, all was good.
Same here. Completely fine.
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JavaJunkie
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
I actually just asked DH about this today....I find no difference and he said it's the same down there
I wouldn't worry about it. Oh and when I was pg everyone told me to do my kegels but I was too tired!
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Tany
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Re: If u had a vaginal birth/births....
not really, if anything is more open.
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