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LuvMy2Girls
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After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I began to bleed this morning, which then turned into lots of red, while having very bad cramps. MY HCG level was low, have to go back on friday to confirm. This is soo hard... just wasn't meant to be...Today has been the most heartbreaking day of my life.
DH and I plan to be back on the TTC wagon soon as we heal. Would you girls mind me coming back here?
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Jenn1621
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Oh no!!! I am so sorry!!! I dont know what else to say to ease your pain but here are some hugs!!!
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:25 PM |
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mrsmck
Be a big girl!
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
You always have a home here!!!!
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:30 PM |
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CookiePuss
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so very sorry
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:31 PM |
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Kate
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Kate
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:33 PM |
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Sassyz75
Turning a new page
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Dina
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so sorry 
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:39 PM |
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groovypeg
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
i know how you feel, i just miscarried too and i was 10 wks along. if you need someone to talk to, please feel free to fm me.
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:45 PM |
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Sharon
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
The same thing happened to me earlier this month. I know the pain you and your DH are going through. Just try to take it easy on yourself and take one day at a time.
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:49 PM |
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leighla
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Posted by sweetness
Would you girls mind me coming back here?
Of course not!!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going though, but there are lots of girls on the TTC board who have been through this exact situation.
Lots of to you and DH.
I wish you a quick recovery and lots of baby dust going forward.
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| Posted 7/20/05 4:51 PM |
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Laura1976
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
i'm so sorry
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| Posted 7/20/05 6:13 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Very sorry to hear this...take care of yourself
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| Posted 7/20/05 6:58 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I'm so sorry to hear that you and DH have to go through this, I know it's got to be awful. I'll say a for you
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| Posted 7/20/05 7:36 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
to all of you ladies who have miscarried I'm so sorry
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| Posted 7/20/05 7:37 PM |
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rose825
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am sooo sorry. Lots of
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| Posted 7/20/05 8:16 PM |
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Luvlylady
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
So sorry to hear
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| Posted 7/20/05 8:20 PM |
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Sweetness (sorry, I don't know your real name!!), you are welcome back although we are not happy to HAVE you back, if you know what I mean.
I went through this in April - April 28 I had a D&C to be exact - I went from 1 to 0 to 2 (!!) back to 1 then to 0 in a matter of weeks, so I know the emotional rollercoaster you are on. You have lots of support here, these ladies are great.
You will heal, and all we can do is try again.
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| Posted 7/20/05 9:14 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so sorry for your loss!
We are here for you!
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| Posted 7/20/05 10:20 PM |
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Marcie
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 7/20/05 10:51 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so sorry for your loss...my friend just went through the same thing last month...it was pretty devastating for her.
Of course you are welcome here, I just wish you didn't have to come back ...
Lots of and are being sent your way.....
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| Posted 7/20/05 11:31 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so sorry for your loss...
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| Posted 7/21/05 6:38 AM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
So sorry
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| Posted 7/21/05 8:05 AM |
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VickiC
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
I am so sorr for your loss. You will both be in my thoughts.
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| Posted 7/21/05 8:21 AM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Thank you all for well wishes, means alot to me.
Does anyone know how long this lasts? Or when I can start trying again?
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| Posted 7/21/05 8:48 AM |
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Bxgell2
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Posted by sweetness
Does anyone know how long this lasts? Or when I can start trying again?
Everyone's experience is different, but usually, the earlier you are in the pregnancy, the shorter the bleeding. I miscarried at exactly 6 weeks, and the bleeding lasted for maybe 3-4 days, I passed a tiny bit of tissue, and then it was gone. You should talk to your Dr. about trying again - each makes his/her own recommendation. My Dr. told me to wait 2-3 months, but by the time he had the opportunity to tell me this, I was pregnant again - I ended up conceiving again about one week after my miscarriage (if you don't plan on getting pregnant again soon, be careful, because studies show you're most fertile right after a miscarriage), and although I've had a few minor complications, here I am at 32 weeks. I was terrified when I had to go back to the Dr.'s office and tell him I was pregnant again when he told me to wait, but he laughed and told me that there's simply no evidence that conceiving again so soon raises your chances of miscarriage, and that Dr.'s usually tell you to wait to ensure that you're emotionally ready. Hope that helps...
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: After finding out, 1 week later I am losing the pregnancy
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by sweetness
Does anyone know how long this lasts? Or when I can start trying again?
Everyone's experience is different, but usually, the earlier you are in the pregnancy, the shorter the bleeding. I miscarried at exactly 6 weeks, and the bleeding lasted for maybe 3-4 days, I passed a tiny bit of tissue, and then it was gone. You should talk to your Dr. about trying again - each makes his/her own recommendation. My Dr. told me to wait 2-3 months, but by the time he had the opportunity to tell me this, I was pregnant again - I ended up conceiving again about one week after my miscarriage (if you don't plan on getting pregnant again soon, be careful, because studies show you're most fertile right after a miscarriage), and although I've had a few minor complications, here I am at 32 weeks. I was terrified when I had to go back to the Dr.'s office and tell him I was pregnant again when he told me to wait, but he laughed and told me that there's simply no evidence that conceiving again so soon raises your chances of miscarriage, and that Dr.'s usually tell you to wait to ensure that you're emotionally ready. Hope that helps...
That helps alot. I was about 5 weeks, 5 days yesterday when the cramping/bleeding started. I am going tomorrow for another blood test to confirm my low HCG is lower.
I am hopeful this bleeding will not last long. The cramps have subsided by 50% since yesterday, and I only bleed when i go to the bathroom, sorry if TMI. Hearing that you bled for 3-4 days gives me hope. I too passed some tissue yesterday, today is mostly blood. I want to correlate the physical pain with it being over, then being able to put this behind me and move on and back to trying. Thank you for sharing your experience, It means alot to me and I appreciate it.
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