Midwife Recs Melanie Sumersille and Dale Cook

Hi everyone!

I am looking for a midwife who delivers in a hospital. I have met with both Dale and Melanie and I'm so confused and would so appreciate feedback.

Dale's temperament and style was exactly what I am looking for. Relaxed, warm, gentle, and calm. She was a non-alarmist ("You're 36? That's not high risk") However, I live in western Nassau and I don't know about traveling the hour to Kings Park for appointments. Also, concerned that if I need a C Section I would not know the person performing it at NUMC.

I met with Melanie. I love that even if you become high risk, she still has your case and supports you alongside an OB GYN in her practice. I have heard good things about Winthrop. I could tell she is smart as whip. However, her energy was just a bit more frenetic and rushed and she not as warm and soothing as Dale. She was also a little more of an alarmist ("You're 36? We will discuss genetic testing and MR screenings)

It was also suggested to me by a doula to check out Dr. Jessica Jacob who is an OB GYN but shares many (not all) philosophies of midwife care.

Any and all feedback around experiences with the different midwives and/or the affiliated hospitals during labor and delivery would be greatly greatly appreciated. Thank you so much! :)

Midwife Recs Melanie Sumersille and Dale Cook

try the pregnancy board.

Midwife Recs Melanie Sumersille and Dale Cook

Where does dr Jacob deliver?

I had a natural, un medicated birth with both of my kids. I had a (very) traditional ob gyn, and never even took a class. I am, however, looking to switch bc I disagreed strongly with her trying to induce me with my last baby.

I think my point is that if you're looking to a midwife for a natural birth, I think either would be fine (although I've heard so many good things about Melanie). However, the majority of it will come down to you, not your doctor.

Re: Midwife Recs Melanie Sumersille and Dale Cook

I had two unmedicated natural deliveries with Melanie, I had great experiences with her. I know she doesn't have that warm and fuzzy feeling but she really knows her stuff and does care about you and listens to what kind of birth you want. I know a few people that delivered w Dale and were not happy with their experiences and NUMC. I personally much prefer Winthrop over NUMC. Dr. Plancher (the ob that works w Melanie) is also great. Feel free to ask questions or FM me :)