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Leb
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

This is so sad, I pray he is found soon.

Posted 8/2/13 10:22 PM
 
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray




Thanks.

Posted 8/2/13 10:45 PM
 

Domino
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The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon

Posted 8/2/13 11:09 PM
 

BetterVersion
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.

Posted 8/3/13 7:57 AM
 

MsSissy
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?

Posted 8/3/13 8:14 AM
 

Domino
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Posted by MsSissy

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?



If you join the facebook page, under the files tab, they have a timeline and FAQ. The wife noticed that his mountain bike is gone. But I do not know how that is possible unless he had the bike in the car the whole time.Chat Icon

Unless the bike is a red herring...

Of course the best plausible scenario is that he went to the scrap shop, got cash and then took a train to xyz....but still doesnt answer the questions of why and how he could be be gone for so long without another sighting...i feel terrible for his familyChat Icon

Posted 8/3/13 8:25 AM
 

FreeButterfly
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LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Is his helmet missing too?

Posted 8/3/13 8:27 AM
 

MsSissy
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Posted by Domino

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?



If you join the facebook page, under the files tab, they have a timeline and FAQ. The wife noticed that his mountain bike is gone. But I do not know how that is possible unless he had the bike in the car the whole time.Chat Icon

Unless the bike is a red herring...

Of course the best plausible scenario is that he went to the scrap shop, got cash and then took a train to xyz....but still doesnt answer the questions of why and how he could be be gone for so long without another sighting...i feel terrible for his familyChat Icon



Thank you. Found it.

A little off topic. But I find it crazy that the train station does not have cameras! Every station should.

Posted 8/3/13 8:42 AM
 

BargainMama
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by Domino

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?



If you join the facebook page, under the files tab, they have a timeline and FAQ. The wife noticed that his mountain bike is gone. But I do not know how that is possible unless he had the bike in the car the whole time.Chat Icon

Unless the bike is a red herring...

Of course the best plausible scenario is that he went to the scrap shop, got cash and then took a train to xyz....but still doesnt answer the questions of why and how he could be be gone for so long without another sighting...i feel terrible for his familyChat Icon



Interesting. What did he go to the scrap metal place for? To sell stuff?

I think he left his family, sad to say. It happens all the time. Terrible for his family, and I hope they get the answers they are searching for. Chat Icon

Posted 8/3/13 10:23 AM
 

Goobster
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



That was my first instinct also but who knows?

Posted 8/3/13 10:33 AM
 

FreeButterfly
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by BargainMama

Posted by Domino

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?



If you join the facebook page, under the files tab, they have a timeline and FAQ. The wife noticed that his mountain bike is gone. But I do not know how that is possible unless he had the bike in the car the whole time.Chat Icon

Unless the bike is a red herring...

Of course the best plausible scenario is that he went to the scrap shop, got cash and then took a train to xyz....but still doesnt answer the questions of why and how he could be be gone for so long without another sighting...i feel terrible for his familyChat Icon



Interesting. What did he go to the scrap metal place for? To sell stuff?

I think he left his family, sad to say. It happens all the time. Terrible for his family, and I hope they get the answers they are searching for. Chat Icon




If that's the case, that he just left, why not leave a note or tell someone?

I mean his family is so worried, and yes, we don't know what went on in their home, but how bad could it have been not even to let them know, let your kids know?

It's sad all around

Posted 8/3/13 11:13 AM
 

Goobster
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by FreeButterfly

Posted by BargainMama

Posted by Domino

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?



If you join the facebook page, under the files tab, they have a timeline and FAQ. The wife noticed that his mountain bike is gone. But I do not know how that is possible unless he had the bike in the car the whole time.Chat Icon

Unless the bike is a red herring...

Of course the best plausible scenario is that he went to the scrap shop, got cash and then took a train to xyz....but still doesnt answer the questions of why and how he could be be gone for so long without another sighting...i feel terrible for his familyChat Icon



Interesting. What did he go to the scrap metal place for? To sell stuff?

I think he left his family, sad to say. It happens all the time. Terrible for his family, and I hope they get the answers they are searching for. Chat Icon




If that's the case, that he just left, why not leave a note or tell someone?

I mean his family is so worried, and yes, we don't know what went on in their home, but how bad could it have been not even to let them know, let your kids know?

It's sad all around



There was just a story on the news about a woman who was just found, who up and left her kids and husband and was presumed dead all these years. It does happen unfortunately.

Posted 8/3/13 11:22 AM
 

Leb
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

I read in that group that his car was set so it seemed he wasn't the one driving it, like the seat was in a different position.

It definitely seems like foul play to me based on what is being put out there.

Posted 8/3/13 11:33 AM
 

BargainMama
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by FreeButterfly

Posted by BargainMama

Posted by Domino

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by BetterVersion

Posted by Domino

The bike being missing is bothersome to meChat Icon


I agree. I really don't think there was any foul play here.



What bike?
Do you have a link to another story?



If you join the facebook page, under the files tab, they have a timeline and FAQ. The wife noticed that his mountain bike is gone. But I do not know how that is possible unless he had the bike in the car the whole time.Chat Icon

Unless the bike is a red herring...

Of course the best plausible scenario is that he went to the scrap shop, got cash and then took a train to xyz....but still doesnt answer the questions of why and how he could be be gone for so long without another sighting...i feel terrible for his familyChat Icon



Interesting. What did he go to the scrap metal place for? To sell stuff?

I think he left his family, sad to say. It happens all the time. Terrible for his family, and I hope they get the answers they are searching for. Chat Icon




If that's the case, that he just left, why not leave a note or tell someone?

I mean his family is so worried, and yes, we don't know what went on in their home, but how bad could it have been not even to let them know, let your kids know?

It's sad all around



Shame, embarrassment? People leave their families all the time without a note, only later to be found living another life. Not saying that is for sure the case here, but since the police believe there is no foul play, and these little tidbits that keep coming out....

Posted 8/3/13 12:58 PM
 

Hotmamma408
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

i am praying for this family! I cannot get it off my mind!!! So sad!!!!

Posted 8/4/13 4:29 PM
 

Ayne11
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

News 12 just posted a link to this story on their FB page.

I too have thought this guy abandoned his family.

Posted 8/4/13 6:07 PM
 

MsSissy
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Posted by Ayne11

News 12 just posted a link to this story on their FB page.

I too have thought this guy abandoned his family.




DIX HILLS - The wife of a missing Dix Hills man is offering a reward in hopes of finding her husband.
Robert Mayer, a Dix Hills father of two, disappeared nearly two months ago. The union electrician was initially reported as last seen at his job site in Brooklyn. Through a police investigation and new leads, his wife Ida now says he was last seen on Long Island.
Ida says Robert was last seen at Arrow Scrap Yard in West Babylon on June 14. The next day, his car was found at the Deer Park train station, though Ida says he hadn’t taken the train to work in at least five years.
READ MORE: Long Island Top Stories
The couple has been married for 18 years. Ida says her 15-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter just want their dad home.
Anyone with information is urged to call Suffolk police at 631-854-8285.


Yeah, I'm starting to think he left also.

Posted 8/4/13 7:01 PM
 

MrsH2009
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

This happened to someone near my parent's house in DE. His whole family lived in the area and they owned a successful chain of restaurants. He was last seeing leaving his house going to work. No one really suspected foul play, but that maybe he was having depression issues, etc. Nope, he was in FL with a woman, just blowing off steam he said. He also had a wife and kids. It's hard to imagine, but it happens.

Posted 8/4/13 7:15 PM
 

mrsboss
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LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

This is reminding me of a 20/20 episode on a few weeks ago. He was declared dead, but was really alive and established in Cabo.

http://abcnews.go.com/m/story?id=19712227&ref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dailymail.co.uk%2Fnews%2Farticle-2372134%2FFather-vanished-16-years-ago-legally-pronounced-dead-reappears-alive-having-started-new-life-gay-man.html

Posted 8/4/13 7:37 PM
 

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LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

IDK it's so weird. The fact that he left his wallet with all his identification home, that he just went to a scrap yard to sell copper, he left work early and his car was found parked in one of the train stations that has no cameras makes me believe that maybe he left on his own accord but then I think why?? According to his wife everything was fine. He has two kids...why would anyone do that? Makes no sense to me. So sad hope he is found alive and safe.

Posted 8/5/13 10:20 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Newsday posted about a body of a man found in Mill Pond Park.
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Posted 8/5/13 11:02 AM
 

Smileyd17
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by nrthshgrl

Newsday posted about a body of a man found in Mill Pond Park.
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i read this.
we were driving home from beach at the time they found this. helicopter was circiling and my DH said, they are looking for someone. it was the ramp onto wantagh.

either way. sad.

Message edited 8/5/2013 11:20:09 AM.

Posted 8/5/13 11:19 AM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

what was he doing at the scrap metal place?

electrician, union, scrap metal place....

do you think he is running from the mob? or mob related? or gambling debt related or something?

Posted 8/6/13 2:35 PM
 

ali120206
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by Ayne11

News 12 just posted a link to this story on their FB page.

I too have thought this guy abandoned his family.



I was thinking the same thing. A similar story happened with a family friend and he was found alive and well in a different state a month or two later. Money problems caused him to flee.

Posted 8/6/13 2:39 PM
 

alli3131
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Re: LI Father missing on fathers day - please pray

Posted by MrsPorkChop

what was he doing at the scrap metal place?

electrician, union, scrap metal place....

do you think he is running from the mob? or mob related? or gambling debt related or something?



The original pic of him looked like it was in a casino......to me of all the pic I would have of my DH a pic of him in the casino would probably not be the first I gave for the missing persons photo.

Posted 8/6/13 2:44 PM
 
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