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When will this happen?

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OrganicMama
So in love with my little man!

Member since 6/08

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Mama

When will this happen?

I don't even know how to say this, but I'm waiting for my body to get rid of this pregnancy Chat Icon That sounds so terrible, but I don't know what else to say Chat Icon I'm in Florida visiting my parents, and I was going to tell them the news that I was pregnant when I got here, but I told my mom on the phone what was going on before I came. Now I'm just waiting around ready to miscarry. Not how I saw this trip going. I just want to move on already.

I've come to terms with everything, I guess it just wasn't meant to be. I feel like my life is on hold right now though, and I just want it to be over. I had someone ask me today when we're having another DC, and it was really hard to smile and say "soon", knowing what I'm carrying inside of me right now.

Does anyone know how long this can take? My hcg levels were 5200 on Monday, and they dropped down to 815 on Wednesday. I can't imagine how low they are right now, or if they have to get to zero before my body starts working. I really want to avoid a D&C. Is there anything I can do to move this process along?

Message edited 10/21/2011 2:47:01 PM.

Posted 10/21/11 2:46 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

21536 total posts

Name:
Stacey

Re: When will this happen?

Oh sweetheart, I’m so sorry you’re going through this! Are you spotting or cramping or anything yet?
I can just tell you from my experience, I started spotting pink and cramping on a Wednesday (was spotting brown for a few days before) and then that Friday it all happened.

Posted 10/21/11 3:35 PM
 

MrsKelly
just hangin' around...

Member since 11/06

6305 total posts

Name:
Krista

Re: When will this happen?

i don't have any advice, bc i had a d&c, but i just wanted to offer Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and tell you how sorry i am you're going through this. it doesn't sound terrible, i know exactly what you mean about just wanting this to move on bc everything is at a standstill. i hope it happens soon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/11 4:19 PM
 

Chri0927
LIF Infant

Member since 2/09

106 total posts

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Re: When will this happen?

I started spotting on a Wednesday, continued spotting til Saturday when the bleeding got heavier, and then the bleeding and cramps got progressively worse and it actually happened on Sunday.

So sorry you are going through this Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/11 7:09 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

Re: When will this happen?

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon there is no way to know... im so so sorry!!

Posted 10/21/11 7:39 PM
 

luvmyReese
Hello Kitty

Member since 1/08

7542 total posts

Name:
Catt

Re: When will this happen?

My baby stopped growing for almost 2 weeks when I discovered there was no hb. I never had miscarriage symptoms. Have no idea how long it wld have taken for my body to start miscarry. My Dr. offered me an appointment for a D&C the next day and I took it & glad I did . The wait would have drove me nuts. There is not way to know when it will happen. So sorry your going through this Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon.

Posted 10/21/11 8:04 PM
 

CPM2011
LIF Zygote

Member since 9/11

14 total posts

Name:
Caroline

Re: When will this happen?

Just wanted to say sorry. Stay strong.

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Message edited 11/1/2011 9:08:48 PM.

Posted 10/22/11 5:54 PM
 
 

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