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shazza211
My life is complete
Member since 9/07 1580 total posts
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Sharon
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mixed feelings
Haven't been on this board in awhile but new I could share this here and would be understood...so I m/c in March on a vacation with my in-laws and found out a few weeks ago that my cousin in-law got PG on the very same trip...she's three months now...I feel so mixed up...of course I am happy for them but I'm also jealous...I wish I didn't feel this way
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Posted 6/12/11 3:19 PM  |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
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M
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Re: mixed feelings
I am so sorry  It really is such a horrible feeling. Thankfully no one close to me has gotten pregnant but everyone pregnant women I see now I am jealous and I get very angry..where as before my MC everytime I would see a pregnant woman I would feel so happy. Its really crappy the feelings we get towards others after a MC. I am sorry once again 
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| Posted 6/12/11 3:56 PM |
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skinny
3 boys and a princess!
Member since 11/08 8178 total posts
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Momma
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Re: mixed feelings
I understand how you feel.
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| Posted 6/12/11 4:05 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21536 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: mixed feelings
I understand exactly how you feel. I found out recently that my sister is preggo. While I am ecstatic for her, I am also sad for me. And that's ok.
Message edited 6/12/2011 9:51:53 PM.
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| Posted 6/12/11 6:27 PM |
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Organicmomy
LIF Infant
Member since 5/11 75 total posts
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M
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Re: mixed feelings
I am going thru the same thing. I know how you feel.
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| Posted 6/12/11 9:15 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: mixed feelings
I understand this very much!!!
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| Posted 6/12/11 9:34 PM |
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shazza211
My life is complete
Member since 9/07 1580 total posts
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Sharon
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Re: mixed feelings
Thanks girls...I knew you'd understand....the healing continues
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| Posted 6/12/11 9:51 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
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sara
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Re: mixed feelings
I think its completely natural to feel the way you do. I have to take a deep breath anytime I see a pregnant woman as it hurts so much as I think "that should be me"
My sister is pregnant and she sent a picture of her pregnant tummy a couple of weeks ago JUST as I found out I was having a miscarriage and it was like a knife through my heart. I am thrilled for her but it does hurt to see her and I am relieved that we live in different countries.
Please dont beat yourself up over this, its totally natural and understandable what you feel
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| Posted 6/12/11 9:55 PM |
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MaybeBaby2
LIF Infant
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Re: mixed feelings
so sorry for your loss
I know exactly how you feel, I had my d&c (10 weeks) the day my nephew was born and 3 of my friends are having/had a baby this year. I am happy for them, but it hurts me a little too - i was supposed to be a mommy again this year too
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| Posted 6/13/11 3:16 PM |
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