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Shelleybean11
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What gives??

AF is late. I have taken test after test and they have all come back negative Chat Icon I am 12DPO, I usually get AF at 12DPO. I am confused because I thought LP doesn't change. So why don't I have AF? I know when I O'ed because I was using an OPK. I don't feel preggo either. I hate to admit that I'm out, I think that's the case though. Where is AF?! I hate having long cycles. I feel like each cycle takes forever and I see people blowing through their cycles on here Chat Icon OK vent over. Thanks for listening Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/10 10:11 PM
 
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WhitneyL
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Whitney

Re: What gives??

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Hang in there... you aren't out yet!! Try to stay positive. Maybe that BFP is coming tomorrow morning!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/10 10:19 PM
 

BeachGal
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J

Re: What gives??

Good luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/10 8:39 AM
 

Porrruss
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Amy

Re: What gives??

OPKs only tell you that your body is getting ready to O, not that it definitely will O.

You might have geared up to O but didn't, or O was delayed.
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Posted 8/7/10 9:51 AM
 

Porrruss
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Re: What gives??

After I had my fist DD, OPKs would often detect a surge, but then I wouldn't O (I was charting as well) until days later.

Posted 8/7/10 9:52 AM
 

Shelleybean11
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Re: What gives??

Posted by Porrruss

After I had my fist DD, OPKs would often detect a surge, but then I wouldn't O (I was charting as well) until days later.



Oh really?! I had no idea that you could get a surge and then not O. Maybe I should start temping. Is that a more accurate way to tell if you are Oing? I wish I had known this before because I only BD the day I got the smiley and the 2x the day after Chat Icon Well I still didn't get AF so who knows what's going on. I am still BFing DS 2x a day, maybe that is why O is being delayed?

Posted 8/7/10 10:00 AM
 

FDNYWifey
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Member since 9/09

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Linda

Re: What gives??

my AF was veeeery late this cycle, im latre in the cycle normally but this time i got in on day37, but just hang in there!! Hopefuly good luck is comin to

Posted 8/7/10 10:27 AM
 

Shelleybean11
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Re: What gives??

Posted by FDNYWifey

my AF was veeeery late this cycle, im latre in the cycle normally but this time i got in on day37, but just hang in there!! Hopefuly good luck is comin to



Yeah that's probably the case here. I'm CD37 and I think I *may* have seen the beginning of some spotting Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/10 10:44 AM
 

ns1011
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Nic

Re: What gives??

Posted by Shelleybean11

Posted by Porrruss

After I had my fist DD, OPKs would often detect a surge, but then I wouldn't O (I was charting as well) until days later.



Oh really?! I had no idea that you could get a surge and then not O. Maybe I should start temping. Is that a more accurate way to tell if you are Oing? I wish I had known this before because I only BD the day I got the smiley and the 2x the day after Chat Icon Well I still didn't get AF so who knows what's going on. I am still BFing DS 2x a day, maybe that is why O is being delayed?



The only way for you to confirm O yourself is to temp. Yes, you can surge and not O, which would be an annovulatory cycle, which can happen every now and then. It can be related to many different factors - i.e, stress, travel, sickness, etc. You mentioned you are still BFing DS - have you spoken to your Dr. about TTC #2? I'm not sure about this since I haven't had any DC yet, but I wouldn't be surprised if BFing is interfering with your cycles a bit. I would def suggest temping if you can commit to it. I have been TTC for 1 year, and I just started temping last month. I have always gotten smileys on OPK's and peaks on my CBEFM, but I figured it was time to take the plunge and temp every morning to confirm that I am in fact Oing.

HTH

Posted 8/7/10 11:30 AM
 

pickles16
Real Estate Professional

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Jen

Re: What gives??

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Don't give up hope you never know!!!

Posted 8/7/10 11:33 AM
 
 

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