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Sad but true. I feel numb. Does God really think we are not parent material? Who will take care of DH and I when we get older? Will we be that awkward, somewhat creepy older couple that could never have kids and as such cant relate to their nieces and nephews? Should we live in the city, since we have no need for child-friendly LI? Will we have to mull adoption?
This are the thoughts running through my mind

i cant stop

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Your day will come. These feelings will pass and you will be excited again to try. Don't stop believin'!!! (Song popped into my head as I was responding to you!)

Lots of and in the meantime.

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I ask myself these questions all the time and I try so hard not to feel cheated when I see others getting what I want sooo badly! All I can say is determination and perseverence are the biggest advantages in this battle, I've seen so many people struggle with truly cripling infertility and all are now amazing parents!!
Like your screen name says you're an optimist at heart, I've read numerous posts by you offering support and hope to others, don't give up on yourself and DH

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I'm sorry!! It will happen, don't give up hope!!! I def have had all those thoughts cross my mind too.

I just keep reminding myself once we do have our babies, it will be worth the long journey to get there!!!

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Im sorry!! I know how sad it makes you!! All i can offer is

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I don't want to sound repetitive but what the other ladies are saying is so true. Sooner or later, it's going to happen for you and when it does you will forget all about this whole process and how emotionally draining it can be. Have you been trying for a while?