Should we/shouldn't we???

DH and I have 3 children combined, I have one who is 16 and he has 2 that are 11 and 8. We initially wanted to have a child together but now he is saying that he does not want anymore as the kids are older and we would be starting all over. I weighed the pros and cons and am on the fence. This is not a case of if it happens it happens as DH is neutered (LOL).

Another reason DH does not want to have children is his son was diagnosed with MR and he is afraid that would happen again...which I completely understand.

We are 36 and 38.....what do you ladies think we should do??

Re: Should we/shouldn't we???

I don't think we can tell you what to do...you have to decide whether you want to go through the baby phase. You guys are still pretty young

DH had a daughter from his first marriage...she's 10 and she lives with us. We decided that we want to have one of our own together. She is now 6 months. I'm 33 and DH will be 43 in July.