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New Here-Looking for some support and advice

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LIMommy77
LIF Zygote

Member since 6/11

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New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Hi Ladies,
I'm new to LIF and am not sure if I'm posting on the right board, but I am looking for some advice....

My DH and I have been TTC #2, and this past Sunday I got my BFP. My cycles vary from 27-31 days, so I was guessing I was about 2 days late when I took the test on Sunday. I went to the Dr's yesterday, and two tests there showed negative, so they took my blood. I took another digital test first thing this morning, and got another positive. My Dr called this afternoon to tell me my hcg level was very low (23) and that this was probably a chemical pregnancy. She said I would have gotten another positive test, because there is a trace amount in my system. She indicated that I could go into the office tomorrow for another blood test, but at this point, I feel defeated and not sure....what would you all do? Also, I asked what is the next step, and she said, we just wait for your period to come. My other question is, has anyone else ever found themselves in this situation before? If so, how long until your period came?

Posted 10/5/11 5:01 PM
 

prunepie
LIF Adult

Member since 7/06

4357 total posts

Name:
jennifer

Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

definately do another blood test!!!!! yes 23 is low but i have seen others do great with that starting number! if its 23 you want it to double in 2 days ...if it doesnt then you know for sure! gl!!

Posted 10/5/11 6:21 PM
 

LIMommy77
LIF Zygote

Member since 6/11

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Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Thank you! My DH is telling me to go just to make sure.

Posted 10/5/11 8:09 PM
 

cateyemm
Twins!

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Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Definitely go in for the second beta!
I'm sorry you're going through this, and I hope you get good news!
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Posted 10/5/11 9:31 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

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Ang

Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

i agree with PPs definitely have a repeat beta done... and good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/6/11 9:09 AM
 

Megs4
LIF Adult

Member since 11/08

1619 total posts

Name:
Megan

Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Chat Icon Chat Icon for good news!

Posted 10/6/11 10:19 AM
 

NYchic
Girl & boy

Member since 6/09

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Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

go in for another test and good luck!

Posted 10/6/11 11:07 AM
 

mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!

Member since 3/09

8585 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

You should definitly get another blood test. I had a friend who has a one year old dd and her first beta was only a 19.

I had a chemical back in May. My beta were 13, and than 12 so I knew I was going to mc. I started bleeding 9 days after I got a bfp.

Posted 10/6/11 9:59 PM
 

MrsNicolaxoxo
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Member since 6/09

3403 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Go for another test and don't count yourself out yet! It could just be really early and I hope this is the case for you;)

Posted 10/6/11 11:03 PM
 

LIMommy77
LIF Zygote

Member since 6/11

13 total posts

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Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Thank you ladies for all your kind words and support. I did go in for another beta yesterday, but unfortunately I did start to bleed this morning.

I am sad, but relieved at the same time that I know for sure what is happening.



Posted 10/7/11 10:46 AM
 

MrsNicolaxoxo
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Member since 6/09

3403 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: New Here-Looking for some support and advice

Posted by LIMommy77

Thank you ladies for all your kind words and support. I did go in for another beta yesterday, but unfortunately I did start to bleed this morning.

I am sad, but relieved at the same time that I know for sure what is happening.






I'm sorryChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon The only light I could point out in your direction right now is that if this pregnancy is not meant to be things are taking care of themsselves early before it could get complicated. REgardless...the heartache and saddness still hurts and I'm hopoing you can move on very fastChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/7/11 1:49 PM
 
 

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