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Tine73

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Would it be weird if....

I had a container at the wake with little cards for people to write down their favorite memories of my Dad?

He's being transferred to Hospice this week and I am starting to plan.

Thanks!

Posted 12/14/10 9:53 PM
 
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2girlsforme
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Member since 8/06

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Re: Would it be weird if....

Not weird at all. A lot of funeral homes actually do this as part of their service.

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Posted 12/14/10 10:30 PM
 

Bxgell2
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Member since 5/05

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Re: Would it be weird if....

Not weird at all... our funeral home actually suggested that I have Alex make a card for my father and put it in the casket. I put it in his pocket.

Just another idea to make it a little easier Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 10:51 AM
 

PrettyPeonies
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Member since 8/10

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Pino

Re: Would it be weird if....

I think its a wonderful idea Chat Icon
When my brother passed away, he didnt want a wake but my parents needed one so we compromised and included just my immediate family and my brother's faternity brothers who were his best friends/pallbearers.
My father wrote a beautiful letter to God put it in his suit inner pocket.

We had a memorial lunch for him after the mass and we had a table where ppl could write down their memories of my bro for my SIL & his child.

Posted 12/15/10 2:52 PM
 

KangaMom
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Re: Would it be weird if....

A Grand idea actually Chat Icon

Unfortunately we went through this recently Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 5:13 PM
 

leighla
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Re: Would it be weird if....

I did this at my DH's memorial service.

I made a big box like a card box at a wedding and left out paper and pens.

In my Eulogy I explained what it was for.

On the anniversary of his death I read them all and cried and laughed.

I've laminated them all and will eventually put them in a book for Logan.

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Posted 12/15/10 5:20 PM
 

julz33
i run for bacon

Member since 5/05

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julz

Re: Would it be weird if....

You should definitely do that. I am so sorry you are going through this. Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/10 11:07 PM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: Would it be weird if....

Not at all. I think that's a really nice idea.

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Posted 12/20/10 7:13 AM
 

Goobster
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Member since 5/07

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Re: Would it be weird if....

Not one bit weird, very nice in fact.

Posted 12/22/10 8:30 PM
 
 

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