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Update on the Sleeper

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angnick
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Update on the Sleeper

Wanted to give you all an update:

Spoke with a different person from HR this morning (The original person was new, and didnt have much information)

She told me to bring him into my office and have a closed door meeting.

in a nice way, orally give him a warning that this is not acceptable behavior and it is a poor example to set for the new employee.

She said to be sensitive because it is quite possibly a medical issue, and she did bring up to me sleep apnea. She also suggested that i gently suggest he go to a doctor and that if the condition persists, that we require a doctors note to explain his falling asleep at certain times of the day.

I am also going to mention that I am aware that his prior boss has mentioned this to him and that it is still as unacceptable now as it was then.

I am going to give him another chance, and tell him if I catch him sleeping again, I'm going to have to write him up.

I am going to call him into my office in a bit.

i would like to thank you ladies for your advice and support, this is the first time I have received so many responses on one of my posts, I feel like I'm finally starting to fit in!!!

Wish me luck!

Posted 10/11/07 12:55 PM
 
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Christine
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

That sounds like the best way to handle the situation.

Good luck!!

Posted 10/11/07 12:58 PM
 

HoneyBadger
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck and let us know how it goes!!!

Posted 10/11/07 1:00 PM
 

longford73
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck. Let us know how it works out.

Posted 10/11/07 1:00 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good Luck!Chat Icon

Posted 10/11/07 1:02 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck!! Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope it gets resolved!!

Posted 10/11/07 1:04 PM
 

leighla
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck!

Hope it all works out for both of you!!

Posted 10/11/07 1:16 PM
 

JP826
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck!!!! Keep us updated.

Posted 10/11/07 1:18 PM
 

JessieQ
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

That sounds like a perfect way to handle the situation. Good luck!

Posted 10/11/07 1:22 PM
 

Ginger123
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

good luck , keep us updated.. remember to write down your thoughts

Message edited 10/12/2007 7:45:43 AM.

Posted 10/11/07 1:24 PM
 

ETAB
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck.. i am sure it will work out.

Posted 10/11/07 1:36 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good luck. I think you're doing the right thing. Chat Icon

Posted 10/11/07 1:41 PM
 

PRETTYPINK
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A

Re: Update on the Sleeper

Good Luck.
Keep us posted.

Posted 10/11/07 1:47 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

How did it go? I hope it went well.

Posted 10/11/07 6:10 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Posted by lvdolphins

How did it go? I hope it went well.



Yes, we are all dying to know! I hope it went well. I know those convos can be awkward. Chat Icon

Posted 10/11/07 7:07 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

bumping for an update???

Posted 10/12/07 9:25 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

I missed this post yesterday. I hope it went well for you.

Posted 10/12/07 9:31 AM
 

angnick
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

It actually didnt go.

He had to leave early yesterday to go to the 'doctor'

and then he called in sick to day that his back was out..

We'll have to wait till Monday!

I'll let you know!

Posted 10/12/07 12:52 PM
 

bikramaddict
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

hey angela, i'm having a difficult time seeing you write someone up. Chat Icon

glad its working out though.

Posted 10/12/07 1:44 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Update on the Sleeper

Posted by angnick

It actually didnt go.

He had to leave early yesterday to go to the 'doctor'

and then he called in sick to day that his back was out..

We'll have to wait till Monday!

I'll let you know!



Ok since it didn't go. Can I make a suggestion?

Instead of telling him you need a doctor's note explaining why (which is a violation of his right to privacy, HIPPA), say that HR needs a doctor's note that spells out what type of accomodations are needed to make for his disability/illness & then you can check with HR to see if they can be accomodated.

We have our employees fax doctor's notes directly to HR. The manager shouldn't see them nor should they see what type of doctor it is (ob/gyn, psychiatrist, etc).

Posted 10/12/07 2:12 PM
 
 

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