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Remember I posted about my BF that went MIA...

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MrsR
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Jennifer

Remember I posted about my BF that went MIA...

well her Boyfriend is away and SURPRISE she is all of a sudden free to come visit me tomorrow.

So I can use some advice...

on monday she sent me an email basically telling me (in not so many words) that she is feeling weird about the fact that we arent as close as we used to be.

I was laying in bed DYING with food poisining and just couldnt get into it with her. SO I wrote back saying that I feel we have also drifted but I have chalked it up to a few things...

I figured she would ask me what those things were and then I could get into it the next day with her. She never asked.
Never even replied.

So - what to do tomorrow? DO I address it? DO i acccept that this is the way she is (which is sort of where I am at right now). I am a little scared that if I confront her about it - it will make things even worse...but if I dont confront her - I am sure I will continue to keep pulling away.

Is there a way to do this in a positive contructive fashion?

Message edited 7/5/2007 8:48:57 PM.

Posted 7/5/07 8:48 PM
 
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MsSissy
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Re: Remember I posted about my BF that went MIA...

Maybe you can just mention that you know your lives are busy with families and relationships but you would like to see each other more often. She how she reacts and take it from there.

Posted 7/5/07 8:54 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Remember I posted about my BF that went MIA...

Posted by Mssissy

Maybe you can just mention that you know your lives are busy with families and relationships but you would like to see each other more often. She how she reacts and take it from there.



I would handle it this way. Good suggestion!

Posted 7/5/07 9:07 PM
 
 

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