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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Beth -Ann
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Now my turn to let this get to me!
OK, i'm on another board. There were 8 of us doing IVF at the same time. 6 got BFP's (one with triplets, and 2 with twins right now). I have to admit I was happy I wasn't the only failed IVF. Today the one with the failed IVF got a BFP naturally. I'm happy for her. But, here it is again, left out feeling.
I'm not having a good week am I. I need to turn this around somehow.
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SweetTooth
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:23 AM |
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Blu-ize
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Sooooo frustrating. I'm so sorry. It will come for you! 
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:25 AM |
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Kissy331
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
I know it is difficult but I am positive your time will come
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:26 AM |
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babyquestions
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:27 AM |
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CAH127
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:31 AM |
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Sneezy
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Sorry you're having a rough time. It totally $ucks and you have every right to be upset. 
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:51 AM |
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Bops
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:55 AM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
I'm sorry, hang in there!! You're doing what you can to make it happen- so just keep going!  
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| Posted 5/14/08 9:56 AM |
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Diana712
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Posted by BA2008
OK, i'm on another board. There were 8 of us doing IVF at the same time. 6 got BFP's (one with triplets, and 2 with twins right now). I have to admit I was happy I wasn't the only failed IVF. Today the one with the failed IVF got a BFP naturally. I'm happy for her. But, here it is again, left out feeling.
I'm not having a good week am I. I need to turn this around somehow.
This was my response to your last post about putting your life on hold! I feel so bad as well.. I am so sorry you went through that...
ie: "Oh I know someone who tried for years and years, Finally they adopted and guess what She Got Pregnant!!! " Blah blah blah.
If I hear that story one more time I am going to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My Dh said to me just the other day.. Did you ever notice that all these things happen to everyone but us!!
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| Posted 5/14/08 10:01 AM |
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leighdvm
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
I'm right there with you....
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| Posted 5/14/08 10:23 AM |
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DRMom
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Posted by dilb712
Posted by BA2008
OK, i'm on another board. There were 8 of us doing IVF at the same time. 6 got BFP's (one with triplets, and 2 with twins right now). I have to admit I was happy I wasn't the only failed IVF. Today the one with the failed IVF got a BFP naturally. I'm happy for her. But, here it is again, left out feeling.
I'm not having a good week am I. I need to turn this around somehow.
This was my response to your last post about putting your life on hold! I feel so bad as well.. I am so sorry you went through that...
ie: "Oh I know someone who tried for years and years, Finally they adopted and guess what She Got Pregnant!!! " Blah blah blah.
If I hear that story one more time I am going to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My Dh said to me just the other day.. Did you ever notice that all these things happen to everyone but us!!
I hope no one minds me posting my experience. I went through everything you are going through. i was pregnant with my sister-lost that, my best friend-lost that, watched everyone around me get pregnant and have their 1st and even 2nd child. After all these losses I had a tube removed and then couldn't get pregnant AT ALL. If I can tell you the times I thought: this won't happen for me, I am never going to have my own child, etc.
Well now it did work and you know what? I am still a nervous wreck. I don't feel like its real and I am so used to being disappointed that I can't believe its finally happened.
I KNOW how hard it is and I guess the only thing I can say is be as positive as you can and visualize your IVF working. People have shrunk cancer tumours with visualization-I hve to believe it can help make one little baby. Check out anjionline's visualization meditations for the IVF cycle. I would send you mine but my last track is scratched. If you want it anyway let me know and i'll mail it to you. The last track is week 2 of the 2ww.
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| Posted 5/14/08 10:24 AM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Beth -Ann
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Melijane - thanks for the offer. I do have that and I have been using it. Though I have to be honest every time I do it I fall into an amazing sleep trance. I get out of it and I'm not sure I remember if I did the whole thing or if I actually fell asleep.
Thanks all for your words of encouragement and understanding. I hope this down feeling I'm having is due to estrogen patch I have on. I'm afraid to do another google and have 4 hours go by.
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| Posted 5/14/08 10:44 AM |
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DRMom
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Posted by BA2008
Melijane - thanks for the offer. I do have that and I have been using it. Though I have to be honest every time I do it I fall into an amazing sleep trance. I get out of it and I'm not sure I remember if I did the whole thing or if I actually fell asleep.
Thanks all for your words of encouragement and understanding. I hope this down feeling I'm having is due to estrogen patch I have on. I'm afraid to do another google and have 4 hours go by.
That happens to me too. I have to believe it works a little better that way because it is affecting your subconscious? best of luck this cycle. I hope this is it for you!!
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| Posted 5/14/08 11:26 AM |
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sweetbabydreams
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
we will make it through this!! I know how hard it is to see all the BFP but this shows us that there is hope!!
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| Posted 5/14/08 11:37 AM |
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mom2mgn
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I'm sorry you are having a rough time. 
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| Posted 5/14/08 11:51 AM |
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Jen2999
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Posted by BA2008
Melijane - thanks for the offer. I do have that and I have been using it. Though I have to be honest every time I do it I fall into an amazing sleep trance. I get out of it and I'm not sure I remember if I did the whole thing or if I actually fell asleep.
Thanks all for your words of encouragement and understanding. I hope this down feeling I'm having is due to estrogen patch I have on. I'm afraid to do another google and have 4 hours go by.
I just wanted to say that those patches made me CRAZY... I was SO emotional and felt so depressed while on them!
It is so hard to watch everyone else get what they want while you are waiting. Hang in there...
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| Posted 5/14/08 1:08 PM |
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JennyPenny
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| Posted 5/14/08 1:41 PM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Beth -Ann
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
Posted by Jen2999
I just wanted to say that those patches made me CRAZY... I was SO emotional and felt so depressed while on them!
Thank you for saying that. I've not been myself the last fews days (as you can tell with my posts). I don't know anyone else on the patch. I'm not crazy...er than normal. Yeah! And they told me to leave the patch on till it falls off. It's on there good.
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| Posted 5/14/08 4:26 PM |
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ynot2
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| Posted 5/14/08 6:58 PM |
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Lee
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karenk71
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!
I know how you feel.
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| Posted 5/15/08 9:42 PM |
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